Is he mentally disturbed..........................?

Telton66

yopeeps025 wrote: »

Telton66 wrote: »

JeriAnne84 wrote: »

Of_Monsters_and_Meat wrote: »

I'm trying to find the problem here with this. I had to wash my grandmothers back, and more, over the Holiday. Sure I didn't want to do it, but no-one wanted a grandma that smelled like mothballs either. Can someone tell me why he would be letting his mothers and sisters know? I think Op was 18 and fully capible of making a selfish desision

Well is your grandma capable of washing her back? It sounds like from what you said she needs assistance. His dad doesn't really sound like it he asked and then said doesn't matter. If his dad does need assistance bathing because of health problems then yeah OP is kind of a douche, but it sounds like he just likes the touching considering OP said he was messing around with his sister.

Yes,my dad was in his 40`s and capable for bathing himself. This was clearly a sexual suggestion.

On the other hand, it sounds like your grandmother need assistance just like the elderlies in Nursing homes who needs help with Activities of Daily living

Was? How long ago did this happen? If you watch the news lately on Bill Cosby waiting around to tell your story does not help.

Well I am not looking for him to get prosecuted or charged as it happened a long time ago.I am sure its it would be useless now but I am planning to write a latter to my step mom to protect my 15 year old step sister from him

EveFlowergirl

um... is this a recent display of behavior? because holy wtf

yopeeps025

Telton66 wrote: »

yopeeps025 wrote: »

Telton66 wrote: »

JeriAnne84 wrote: »

Of_Monsters_and_Meat wrote: »

I'm trying to find the problem here with this. I had to wash my grandmothers back, and more, over the Holiday. Sure I didn't want to do it, but no-one wanted a grandma that smelled like mothballs either. Can someone tell me why he would be letting his mothers and sisters know? I think Op was 18 and fully capible of making a selfish desision

Well is your grandma capable of washing her back? It sounds like from what you said she needs assistance. His dad doesn't really sound like it he asked and then said doesn't matter. If his dad does need assistance bathing because of health problems then yeah OP is kind of a douche, but it sounds like he just likes the touching considering OP said he was messing around with his sister.

Yes,my dad was in his 40`s and capable for bathing himself. This was clearly a sexual suggestion.

On the other hand, it sounds like your grandmother need assistance just like the elderlies in Nursing homes who needs help with Activities of Daily living

Was? How long ago did this happen? If you watch the news lately on Bill Cosby waiting around to tell your story does not help.

Well I am not looking for him to get prosecuted or charged as it happened a long time ago.I am sure its it would be useless now but I am planning to write a latter to my step mom to protect my 15 year old step sister from him

I thought you said that the step mom thinks your other sister is lying. What will this letter do? I think this should be done in person with you sister there telling your step mom what your dad has done.

JeriAnne84

Telton66 wrote: »

yopeeps025 wrote: »

Telton66 wrote: »

JeriAnne84 wrote: »

Of_Monsters_and_Meat wrote: »

I'm trying to find the problem here with this. I had to wash my grandmothers back, and more, over the Holiday. Sure I didn't want to do it, but no-one wanted a grandma that smelled like mothballs either. Can someone tell me why he would be letting his mothers and sisters know? I think Op was 18 and fully capible of making a selfish desision

Well is your grandma capable of washing her back? It sounds like from what you said she needs assistance. His dad doesn't really sound like it he asked and then said doesn't matter. If his dad does need assistance bathing because of health problems then yeah OP is kind of a douche, but it sounds like he just likes the touching considering OP said he was messing around with his sister.

Yes,my dad was in his 40`s and capable for bathing himself. This was clearly a sexual suggestion.

On the other hand, it sounds like your grandmother need assistance just like the elderlies in Nursing homes who needs help with Activities of Daily living

Was? How long ago did this happen? If you watch the news lately on Bill Cosby waiting around to tell your story does not help.

Well I am not looking for him to get prosecuted or charged as it happened a long time ago.I am sure its it would be useless now but I am planning to write a latter to my step mom to protect my 15 year old step sister from him

It depends on what the statute of limitations are in your state and if you could still report him for you or your sister. Chances are it is happening now or very soon will be with your 15 year old step sister. I don't think this is a letter situation though. It should be a sit down with your step mom and bring your other sister along too and have a chat with her. A calm chat. Your step mom may know exactly what happen and what is going on now and is either too afraid to say anything or doesn't want him to get in trouble so is protecting him. Which is awful because while she is protecting him, innocent people get hurt.

yopeeps025

JeriAnne84 wrote: »

Telton66 wrote: »

yopeeps025 wrote: »

Telton66 wrote: »

JeriAnne84 wrote: »

Of_Monsters_and_Meat wrote: »

I'm trying to find the problem here with this. I had to wash my grandmothers back, and more, over the Holiday. Sure I didn't want to do it, but no-one wanted a grandma that smelled like mothballs either. Can someone tell me why he would be letting his mothers and sisters know? I think Op was 18 and fully capible of making a selfish desision

Well is your grandma capable of washing her back? It sounds like from what you said she needs assistance. His dad doesn't really sound like it he asked and then said doesn't matter. If his dad does need assistance bathing because of health problems then yeah OP is kind of a douche, but it sounds like he just likes the touching considering OP said he was messing around with his sister.

Yes,my dad was in his 40`s and capable for bathing himself. This was clearly a sexual suggestion.

On the other hand, it sounds like your grandmother need assistance just like the elderlies in Nursing homes who needs help with Activities of Daily living

Was? How long ago did this happen? If you watch the news lately on Bill Cosby waiting around to tell your story does not help.

Well I am not looking for him to get prosecuted or charged as it happened a long time ago.I am sure its it would be useless now but I am planning to write a latter to my step mom to protect my 15 year old step sister from him

It depends on what the statute of limitations are in your state and if you could still report him for you or your sister. Chances are it is happening now or very soon will be with your 15 year old step sister. I don't think this is a letter situation though. It should be a sit down with your step mom and bring your other sister along too and have a chat with her. A calm chat. Your step mom may know exactly what happen and what is going on now and is either too afraid to say anything or doesn't want him to get in trouble so is protecting him. Which is awful because while she is protecting him, innocent people get hurt.

Well she does not know 100% sure BUT this issues need to come forward if not for preventive purposes. I rather be safe and tell rather then not tell.

SpeSHul_SnoflEHk

Deipneus wrote: »

"Just wanted to hear other people insight as I didn't think it was normal for a parent to make such request"

Unthinkable for a healthy human being of either gender to make such a request.

Key word being "healthy". Does he have anything that would limit his ability to perform ADLs? I don't think we have all the information. This smells of a huge drama like troll post where a little information is leaked at a time until we all figure out it was not even an issue.