Overweight Personal Trainers - What's your thoughts?

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  • HeySwoleSister
    HeySwoleSister Posts: 1,938 Member
    See, that's a good example of what I was explaining poorly in the first part of my post. Lots of women who are larger would like to be more fit and active but feel shamed or embarrassed going to many classes. I'd imagine those women would feel really motivated and inspired in Roxilu's class, by seeing a bigger woman rocking it and leading others.

    Everyone needs something different. If you find you don't trust a bigger instructor/PT to meet your needs, don't hire them. I suspect that there are plenty of people who are looking for just that kind of person to help them reach their goals.
  • FloraJL
    FloraJL Posts: 121 Member
    Weight and body shape is not an indicator of actual health.

    Maybe they're on prednisone which is notorious for causing weight gain. Maybe they're recovering from an eating disorder which can mess up your body shape for life. Or perhaps they're recovering from an injury which left them unable to exercise for a long period of time? Perhaps they had weight loss surgery which left their body unable to process nutrients correctly and will forever have a soft body?

    Life others on here, I say if they help you achieve your goals, then what does it matter what they look like?
  • FunkyTobias
    FunkyTobias Posts: 1,776 Member
    EWJLang wrote: »
    Depends on what goals you want the trainer to help you achieve. If weight loss is part of your goals, you may want a trainer who has lost or is losing fat themselves. If you are a large person who wants to focus on fitness/health at any size without weightloss pressure, a heavy but active trainer might be great, as many larger folks feel pressured and shamed about their weight to the point that they avoid the gym. In that situation, a bigger PT might give the kind of support that the client needs for embracing a new, more active mindset.

    Also, if you are looking for a PT to help you with powerlifting or other intensive strength work, chances are that you may get the best help from someone who APPEARS to be overweight/fat.

    Male world champion powerlifter: IPF_World_Champion_Dean_Bowring_performing_the_three_Powerlifting_moves.jpg

    Female Olympic Powerlifter: Weightlifting-Womens-+75kg-London-2012-Olympics-Results.jpg

    Point of order: the latter is not a powerlifter, she's a weightlifter.
  • 47Jacqueline
    47Jacqueline Posts: 6,993 Member
    FloraJL wrote: »
    Weight and body shape is not an indicator of actual health.

    Maybe they're on prednisone which is notorious for causing weight gain. Maybe they're recovering from an eating disorder which can mess up your body shape for life. Or perhaps they're recovering from an injury which left them unable to exercise for a long period of time? Perhaps they had weight loss surgery which left their body unable to process nutrients correctly and will forever have a soft body?

    Like others on here, I say if they help you achieve your goals, then what does it matter what they look like?

    People become personal trainers for various reasons, like any other field and all are not body builders. On the other hand, I would want to work with a personal trainer with whom I could identify at some level and maybe not achieve the same result of fitness, but at least have some proof that a changed lifestyle would result in improvement to me.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    powerlifting being a sport that sprang forth originally from weightlifting.
  • sofaking6
    sofaking6 Posts: 4,589 Member
    Hornsby wrote: »
    I was talking with the GF yesterday on the treadmill yesterday about. I go to Gold's Gym and 3 or 4 of the trainers that work there aren't in shape. A couple border on obese. I am kind of torn by the issue.

    Doesn't it seem like being fit should be a requirement to being a personal trainer? I guess I am kinda torn on the issue. I can tell someone how to do the perfect golf swing, but that doesn't mean I can do it in practice.

    So what's everyone's thoughts?

    I've had horrible trainers that were really fit, so I do not equate a person's own fitness level with their ability to coach me.
  • jimmmer
    jimmmer Posts: 3,515 Member
    Again, not to labour the point, but if you are in a relationship with a trainer and they are helping you move towards your goals then what does it matter?

  • Hornsby
    Hornsby Posts: 10,322 Member
    edited January 2015
    A few things...

    1. These aren't power lifters and they aren't training power lifters.
    2. I have been going for 2 years and nothing has changed with their bodies.
    3. To anyone who implied that I was judging, I was not. I asked a question, and actually implied that it doesn't matter with my golf swing point.
    4. I'm not looking for a trainer and don't need a trainer.

    Also,
    A lot of people are mentioning the trainers qualifications. The thing is, a new person, getting a trainer for the first time doesn't know what qualifications are needed and what differs from a "good" or "bad" trainer. To me, if you a trainer, you are trying to sell yourself and your body is your billboard. What else would a new gym goer have to go on other than your appearance? We all know that certifications mean next to nothing and doesn't represent whether a trainer is good or bad, so if not physical appearance, what does one go by to determine whether a trainer is good or not if they have know knowledge of what makes a good trainer to begin with?
  • Sam_I_Am77
    Sam_I_Am77 Posts: 2,093 Member
    I can definitely understand how it's a difficult situation in that how can you believe an overweight individual's advice on being fit. As somebody with certifications and education in this field I feel similarly in that how can somebody teach somebody to be strong when they are not strong themselves? It's funny because when I'm presented with a case study or a client evaluation it's easy for me to look at all of the facts and design a training program for them. On the flip-side, it is hard for me to put together a program for myself and I sometimes fall into traps that I know to avoid when doing this for somebody else. I think that part of it is I am very objective when looking at somebody else and less objective with my own training. It might be similar for other trainers as well. All I can say is that if you don't feel that you can believe somebody simply based upon their physique, then don't start training with them because it will likely hinder your progress even if their advice is good.
  • Makes not the slightest difference to me if the trainer is out of shape, or if I perceive them to be. I was out of shape for many years, but still knew more about training than my average friend. It's a red herring.
  • jacksonpt
    jacksonpt Posts: 10,413 Member
    I'd like to think that I'd be open minded enough to evaluate someone based on their qualifications.

    If I'm hiring a PT/coach, then I care about things like strength, lifting routines, technique, etc - not about diet. If someone is strong as hell, they can probably coach me just fine regardless of weight.

    I'd probably not hire a fat dietitian, just like I wouldn't hire a slow triathlon coach or a weak strength coach.
  • SuggaD
    SuggaD Posts: 1,369 Member
    I'd want my personal trainer to be fit. Just like I want my tri coach to be fit and experienced.
  • _FATNSASSY
    _FATNSASSY Posts: 107 Member
    Ummmm, no!
  • jacksonpt
    jacksonpt Posts: 10,413 Member
    edited January 2015
    Not to derail the thread too much, but I think this ties very nicely into something I wonder about frequently...

    Knowing how to do something because you read about how to do it is one thing. Knowing how to do something because you've done it is another. Both have validity. I struggle with the people who completely discount people's experience and rely solely on studies, but also people who completely ignore science in favor of their personal experiences.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    I know a few strength coaches who could stand to lose a few pounds, but they are still phenomenal strength coaches.

    I know an Oly coach is a former professional athlete, but due to injuries and other things, he can't be as active as he used to be and that shows...but he's still an outstanding coach.

    My favorite spin instructor is overweight...she has made a lot of positive changes in her life and she's relatively new to the business...she just wanted to "give back"...she's still overweight, but she's also lost over 200 Lbs.

    In general, I'd be hesitant to hire a trainer who didn't look the part...but then again, it would depend on my goals and also the overall resume of the trainer/coach.
  • bos10fit
    bos10fit Posts: 80 Member
    I am going to be blunt and maybe that's because I AM a personal trainer.

    As a trainer, you should care about your outward appearance. Seriously, how the hell do you expect to pick up clients when you don't look the part?

    How can I coach someone when my main point is, "do as I say, not as I do." Not only as trainers are we supposed to help our clients, we are supposed to inspire by setting a good example.

    Is it fair to ask my clients to put in work to help their physical appearance when I don't for mine.

    That is bobo.

    And for those of you who are talking group x aka zumba, etc.... that is NOTHING compared to training. Two different areas and two different certifications. Anyone can get certified in Group X. It literally takes ONE day. Your job isn't to train clients. You're supposed to teach a class. Two different things that cannot be compared. Besides, go to a fitness convention and look at everyone in Zumba. That's all I have to say about that.

    You can read a book all day about physical exercise but if you can't apply it when it comes to clients, what is the point?

    My suggestion is to sit down with a few and discuss goals and experience. Pick someone who is tailored to your needs and your body type.
  • jimmmer
    jimmmer Posts: 3,515 Member
    jacksonpt wrote: »
    Not to derail the thread too much, but I think this ties very nicely into something I wonder about frequently...

    Knowing how to do something because you read about how to do it is one thing. Knowing how to do something because you've done it is another. Both have validity. I struggle with the people who completely discount people's experience and rely solely on studies, but also people who completely ignore science in favor of their personal experiences.

    I'd recommend reading Frank Jackson's "Mary the super colour scientist".

    It explores what it is to actually know something with regard to studying it or directly experiencing it.

  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Here we go again.
  • Yogasvelte
    Yogasvelte Posts: 3 Member
    edited January 2015
    My Pilates instructor is a senior citizen - a bit "frumpy" looking on the surface with a visible roll of fat around her middle. But she kicks my booty in her class - I mean, I can't come close to even doing her reps in intermediate exercises, much less her advanced ones. Likewise, one of my yoga instructors is overweight but she gives me a run for my money! P.S. I'm fit but always weight-conscious.
  • JoRocka
    JoRocka Posts: 17,525 Member
    I know for me- if I was hiring a fitness/figure coach they better be damn close to what I need- or had an extremely successful career and still look great.

    For strength/power lifting- I went to someone who had excellent credentials- and Steve was a big ole dude.

    General conditioning coach I'd be way less concerned.

    As far as newbs who don't know better- I can tell you as a woman- it was much easier to sell myself because my body could do what my mouth said.
  • HeySwoleSister
    HeySwoleSister Posts: 1,938 Member

    Point of order: the latter is not a powerlifter, she's a weightlifter.


    Darn it, Google Image Search, why you gotta let me down?

    General point about some powerful athletes appearing "fat" stands, though.

  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    bos10fit wrote: »
    That is bobo.
    I like you. I haven't heard that in forever.
  • sofaking6
    sofaking6 Posts: 4,589 Member
    bos10fit wrote: »
    I am going to be blunt and maybe that's because I AM a personal trainer.

    As a trainer, you should care about your outward appearance. Seriously, how the hell do you expect to pick up clients when you don't look the part?

    How can I coach someone when my main point is, "do as I say, not as I do." Not only as trainers are we supposed to help our clients, we are supposed to inspire by setting a good example.

    Is it fair to ask my clients to put in work to help their physical appearance when I don't for mine.

    That is bobo.

    And for those of you who are talking group x aka zumba, etc.... that is NOTHING compared to training. Two different areas and two different certifications. Anyone can get certified in Group X. It literally takes ONE day. Your job isn't to train clients. You're supposed to teach a class. Two different things that cannot be compared. Besides, go to a fitness convention and look at everyone in Zumba. That's all I have to say about that.

    You can read a book all day about physical exercise but if you can't apply it when it comes to clients, what is the point?

    My suggestion is to sit down with a few and discuss goals and experience. Pick someone who is tailored to your needs and your body type.

    This is another thing - the super fit but horrible trainer I mentioned? She was snobby and judgemental and her attitude that I was less worthy than others because of my weight shone through. This post reminded me of her.

  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    I don't know. I've seen a lot of apparently really fit trainers have clients do stupid stuff, so apparently being fit didn't really make them a better trainer.
  • Hornsby
    Hornsby Posts: 10,322 Member
    I don't know. I've seen a lot of apparently really fit trainers have clients do stupid stuff, so apparently being fit didn't really make them a better trainer.

    Agreed. What does an uninformed newbie to the gym have to go on though? They don't know what's right or wrong. They just have to go off of the advertisement (Trainer's body).

  • holyfenix
    holyfenix Posts: 99 Member
    I don't know. I've seen a lot of apparently really fit trainers have clients do stupid stuff, so apparently being fit didn't really make them a better trainer.

    That's because literally anyone can easily become a "personal trainer". I would never actually hire a personal trainer but if I were going to, it wouldn't be the ones they have available to me at the gym. I would hire an independent trainer that will meet me outside of the gym, discuss my goals and then come back a day or two later with a solid plan to reach those goals. I also would expect them to be educated with at least a bachelors that focused on Nutrition, Kinesiology, Weight Training, Exercise Theory, etc. etc. I would want someone with a long track record of successful clients as well.

    All that comes at a much higher cost of course but I would feel better with the knowledge that this particular trainer actually new their stuff more so than someone at Gold's Gym or Planet Fitness.
  • chunkytfg
    chunkytfg Posts: 339 Member
    EWJLang wrote: »
    Depends on what goals you want the trainer to help you achieve. If weight loss is part of your goals, you may want a trainer who has lost or is losing fat themselves. If you are a large person who wants to focus on fitness/health at any size without weightloss pressure, a heavy but active trainer might be great, as many larger folks feel pressured and shamed about their weight to the point that they avoid the gym. In that situation, a bigger PT might give the kind of support that the client needs for embracing a new, more active mindset.

    Also, if you are looking for a PT to help you with powerlifting or other intensive strength work, chances are that you may get the best help from someone who APPEARS to be overweight/fat.

    Male world champion powerlifter: IPF_World_Champion_Dean_Bowring_performing_the_three_Powerlifting_moves.jpg

    Female Olympic Powerlifter: Weightlifting-Womens-+75kg-London-2012-Olympics-Results.jpg

    Point of order: the latter is not a powerlifter, she's a weightlifter.

    And also appeared on The biggest Loser Season 15. Holley Mangold

    From a personal point of view I can see both side of the argument. I'm an overweight(bordering on obese) person but extremely fit so wouldn't flatly say no to a PT for the reason of size however I would have to question the person who's job it was to sell a healthy exercise infused lifestyle while not managing to outwardly maintain one themselves.
  • pscarolina
    pscarolina Posts: 133 Member
    sofaking6 wrote: »
    bos10fit wrote: »
    I am going to be blunt and maybe that's because I AM a personal trainer.

    As a trainer, you should care about your outward appearance. Seriously, how the hell do you expect to pick up clients when you don't look the part?

    How can I coach someone when my main point is, "do as I say, not as I do." Not only as trainers are we supposed to help our clients, we are supposed to inspire by setting a good example.

    Is it fair to ask my clients to put in work to help their physical appearance when I don't for mine.

    That is bobo.

    And for those of you who are talking group x aka zumba, etc.... that is NOTHING compared to training. Two different areas and two different certifications. Anyone can get certified in Group X. It literally takes ONE day. Your job isn't to train clients. You're supposed to teach a class. Two different things that cannot be compared. Besides, go to a fitness convention and look at everyone in Zumba. That's all I have to say about that.

    You can read a book all day about physical exercise but if you can't apply it when it comes to clients, what is the point?

    My suggestion is to sit down with a few and discuss goals and experience. Pick someone who is tailored to your needs and your body type.

    This is another thing - the super fit but horrible trainer I mentioned? She was snobby and judgemental and her attitude that I was less worthy than others because of my weight shone through. This post reminded me of her.

    Boom...that was dynamite. If we just had a like button I could press it instead of commenting....
  • AglaeaC
    AglaeaC Posts: 1,974 Member
    pscarolina wrote: »
    sofaking6 wrote: »
    bos10fit wrote: »
    I am going to be blunt and maybe that's because I AM a personal trainer.

    As a trainer, you should care about your outward appearance. Seriously, how the hell do you expect to pick up clients when you don't look the part?

    How can I coach someone when my main point is, "do as I say, not as I do." Not only as trainers are we supposed to help our clients, we are supposed to inspire by setting a good example.

    Is it fair to ask my clients to put in work to help their physical appearance when I don't for mine.

    That is bobo.

    And for those of you who are talking group x aka zumba, etc.... that is NOTHING compared to training. Two different areas and two different certifications. Anyone can get certified in Group X. It literally takes ONE day. Your job isn't to train clients. You're supposed to teach a class. Two different things that cannot be compared. Besides, go to a fitness convention and look at everyone in Zumba. That's all I have to say about that.

    You can read a book all day about physical exercise but if you can't apply it when it comes to clients, what is the point?

    My suggestion is to sit down with a few and discuss goals and experience. Pick someone who is tailored to your needs and your body type.

    This is another thing - the super fit but horrible trainer I mentioned? She was snobby and judgemental and her attitude that I was less worthy than others because of my weight shone through. This post reminded me of her.

    Boom...that was dynamite. If we just had a like button I could press it instead of commenting....

    Yeah, I already typed and deleted a response to the snotty first commenter.
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