age you were first dumped

sunman00

my son just got dumped by his 1st girlfriend after 10 months, he's 17:(
it reminded me of my first girlfriend, she dumped me after 2 months when she met another boy while walking her dog in the park,

how old were you and how long did it last?

findinglssjess

16... He moved to Florida...broke my heart...

JackKopCh

I've never been dumped! although, I've never been in a relationship....

Spnneil06

My first "boyfriend" and I were together six months. I dumped him at age 15. It took him a long time to get over it, but we are still friends talk 2-3 times a week via text.

arditarose

Hm...maybe 25 or 26. When I was in college my boyfriend cheated on me, but that's not the same. Even though it feels like being dumped, I dumped him.

Dared2Evolve

That is awful, I'm sorry. My first time was my fault, but it was best, I was 18.
That event tore me up a long time.

Sinistrous

I don't remember, but damn it took a lot of work to get him to dump me. I tried dumping and got the whole I'll kill myself b.s. and I believed it.. So, I'm going to guess... 22? Maybe?

ETA: Started dating when I was 16, I tried to make it work, but our families hated each other and it got too heated. I didn't want to hear it anymore.

yourradimradletshug

My "first love" was when I was 15 and we were together for about 6 months. When he dumped me I was so upset but now we are actually really good friends and talk quite a bit on Facebook.

Deipneus

There were just friendly this-isnt-going-anywhere breakups. No one got dumped. Got married a long time now and she's stuck with me.

MarziPanda95

I was maybe 6 years old, and so was he. So not really a boyfriend Me and my girlfriend mutually broke up aged 15 after 5 months, then me and my boyfriend of almost a year mutually broke up a couple days before my 17th birthday. I've not had any relationships since then (I'm 19 now) but I'm not all that bothered by it since I'm still young.

MSeel1984

I was 19.
I was ready to break up with the guy anyway but felt bad so I put it off...he could tell though. *sigh*
But then I met the right one and it stuck...though we broke up at one point when he got a job on the opposite coast...didn't last, though. We missed each other too much. That happened later in life...(25)

flabassmcgee

I was 16. We were together for 8 months.

To be fair, I did all the dumping before that guy.

AgentOrangeJuice

16, I thought I was dating a girl, then I found out she had another boyfriend. We went to different schools, we hung out a lot, went to each others proms, so I was confused when she said we were just friends and I read to much into it. With the things we were doing, I was pretty confused with other friends later in life that weren't willing to do those things

530roman

13 fixing to fly to Colorado for the winter and the girl called and broke up right before I flew out to tell me that she was breaking up with me. Ruined my whole trip and wasted like 15.99(American dollars) for a charm bracelet I bought her. Came back and the floozy was dating a 16 years old. They're married now and we're all friends but I still kid with her about it in front of her husband to make things awkward.

seltzermint555

eh I am not sure if I was "dumped" but it felt like it. I was dating a boy for the entire summer between grades 8-9 (age 14), and on the first day of the Fall semester this girl walked up to me and informed me that he was her boyfriend at the Catholic school they both attended for grade 8, and they had never broken up. She was crying hysterically and clearly way more invested in this boy than I was. So I just never spoke to him again. He awkwardly apologized for the drama a few months later.

First and only true blue dumping was at age 23 and was similarly sketchy. I'd dated a guy for 2 months and was pretty into him (after crushing on him for awhile during high school days) but then he met a girl at his brother's holiday party and dumped me to date her. The joke was on him when almost a decade later he wrote to me heartbroken about how she was a drug addict who left him raising their four sons.

jetskisimpson

Married to my first boyfriend. Married right out of high school...be 10 yrs this December luckily never experienced being dumped. Did have a lot of crushes that played with emotions tho but they lose I win lol

jchenks

haha I had a "Boyfriend" in grade 6. We were both frigid and barely spoke to each other but we were "going out". He dumped me at the end of 6 months and I don't remember being upset.

BlueEyedRedhead

15... broke my heart...

gothchiq

I was 14. It SUCKED because he was cowardly and also brutal about it. It sucked so hard. (some details redacted, just trust me, my feelings are justified. I was used and discarded.) .... you know what? I still hate that guy. He conducted himself with no honor whatsoever.

salembambi

ummmmmm 15 i think yea 15

duckykissy

13?14? it was a pretty kiddy relationship, we just sat next to each other in our classes. Looking back now I'm actually kind of certain he was gay. I was sad for about 5 minutes until he still sat next to me- I just didn't want to lose my friend.

FabulousFantasticFifty

Never dumped by a Boy but I was dumped by my Best friend of 7 years when I was 22 because her new Husband didn't want her hanging out with me anymore! Worst dump I could ever think of, I cried for days!

IntoTheBlue24

FabulousFantasticFifty wrote: »

Never dumped by a Boy but I was dumped by my Best friend of 7 years when I was 22 because her new Husband didn't want her hanging out with me anymore! Worst dump I could ever think of, I cried for days!

Holy cow that's awful!

IntoTheBlue24

I've never been dumped, but I did dump a boy I was dating at 16 for someone else. I ended up marrying him so I don't feel too bad.

redhead_che

21. Skewed my view on relationships tremendously. If I could erase time, I'd go back to those 3 months and take a magic eraser to them :-P

Seraphina_Rowan

I was about 18, pure *kitten* that relationship was. It was around 1 1/2 years at that point.

stayfit_ria

I have never been dumped married my one love at 21 and been married 18 years. My siblings hate me because although I am oldest I was never able to heal them from their broken hearts never having been through it myself.

One right of passage I am not too unhappy to have bypassed.

summerhaze71

I was 17 and we had been dating for 3.5 years. It was for the best, but totally broke my heart. Moved 10 hours away and never looked back!

Jojomotivated

17 or 18 xD I forgot.

cblue315

I was 6. Randy lived around the corner. He dumped me because he liked Wendy better.

Then, really I was 13, Andy dumped me because my parents would not let me go out on school nights. Started going with Wendy, yep the same Wendy.

Renee0887

18. We were together 1.5 years, worked at the same place but went to different high schools. He broke my heart...tried to hook up with my best friend.