What's YOUR weakness when it comes to the opposite gender?

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  • LeannJeffers
    LeannJeffers Posts: 486 Member
    Someone who puts me ahead of all their hobbies and wants to spend time with me. Of course there is the superficial Tall, Dark hair, cut arms and tattoos.

    Have that conversation with your man before the resentment kicks in. You matter.

    I will, we've been through far to much to give up now. It's just so frustrating when your sitting at the table and a text message comes in and they don't even hear what their son said because he is so caught up in the message.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    edited November 2018
    admaarie wrote: »
    This is also something strange that a friend of mine and I were talking about, but we love guys with big hands haha

    Not strange at all ... My hands are small, factoring in average adult female hands. If his hands are close to mine in size ... Uhmmm no!

    I need to feel that he could at least protect me, if needs be, not me outing my inner Rhonda Roussey, to prevent him from injuring himself. Lol
  • DawnOfTheDead_Lift
    DawnOfTheDead_Lift Posts: 753 Member
    Someone who puts me ahead of all their hobbies and wants to spend time with me. Of course there is the superficial Tall, Dark hair, cut arms and tattoos.

    Have that conversation with your man before the resentment kicks in. You matter.

    I will, we've been through far to much to give up now. It's just so frustrating when your sitting at the table and a text message comes in and they don't even hear what their son said because he is so caught up in the message.

    That is unfortunate. There is a fine line between having space to pursue other interests but still being present with family.
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    george5911 wrote: »
    gman7676 wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    admaarie wrote: »
    This is also something strange that a friend of mine and I were talking about, but we love guys with big hands haha

    Ahh....another aspect where i am way above average ;)

    Prove it

    is that a dare?

    Reads more like a demand to me

    Haha yes
  • nooshi713
    nooshi713 Posts: 4,877 Member
    gman7676 wrote: »
    nooshi713 wrote: »
    bojack5 wrote: »
    admaarie wrote: »
    This is also something strange that a friend of mine and I were talking about, but we love guys with big hands haha

    Ahh....another aspect where i am way above average ;)

    Prove it

    is that a dare?

    Dare/demand.
  • LeannJeffers
    LeannJeffers Posts: 486 Member
    Someone who puts me ahead of all their hobbies and wants to spend time with me. Of course there is the superficial Tall, Dark hair, cut arms and tattoos.

    Have that conversation with your man before the resentment kicks in. You matter.

    I will, we've been through far to much to give up now. It's just so frustrating when your sitting at the table and a text message comes in and they don't even hear what their son said because he is so caught up in the message.

    That is unfortunate. There is a fine line between having space to pursue other interests but still being present with family.

    I agree, I think that he has gotten so overwhelmed with his construction business and continually maintaining organization that it's burning him out. Unfortunately he uses hunting, fishing, billiards as a way to unwind. Which then puts all of us on the backburner.
  • george5911
    george5911 Posts: 3,910 Member
    Someone who puts me ahead of all their hobbies and wants to spend time with me. Of course there is the superficial Tall, Dark hair, cut arms and tattoos.

    Have that conversation with your man before the resentment kicks in. You matter.

    This ^^

    but be prepared to speak and demonstrate in a way he can understand. Whatever you do, don't let up until you've made an impact. If you give up and just go quiet he will think you've come to grips with his reality and that you are fine with it.
  • LeannJeffers
    LeannJeffers Posts: 486 Member
    george5911 wrote: »
    Someone who puts me ahead of all their hobbies and wants to spend time with me. Of course there is the superficial Tall, Dark hair, cut arms and tattoos.

    Have that conversation with your man before the resentment kicks in. You matter.

    This ^^

    but be prepared to speak and demonstrate in a way he can understand. Whatever you do, don't let up until you've made an impact. If you give up and just go quiet he will think you've come to grips with his reality and that you are fine with it.

    that's is my downfall. I have tried in the past to express my thoughts and emotions and they get stomped on. Most of the time he blames his absence on his construction business that he owns. Don't get me wrong, I understand that he is married to his business and know that it's the bread and butter for the house. What I hate is when it gets thrown in my face that I feelings don't matter. the best is when he tells me that if he doesn't keep up with the business we won't have nice things. I told him that doesn't matter! I just want him!
  • Energy for round 2.
  • DWBalboa
    DWBalboa Posts: 37,259 Member
    Energy for round 2.

    That would be a bonus.
  • DWBalboa wrote: »
    Energy for round 2.

    That would be a bonus.

    Nah... bonus rounds don't kick in until at least the 4th ;)
  • DWBalboa
    DWBalboa Posts: 37,259 Member
    DWBalboa wrote: »
    Energy for round 2.

    That would be a bonus.

    Nah... bonus rounds don't kick in until at least the 4th ;)

    Well whatever you define as the bonus rounds, the energy for the bonus rounds is a bonus.
  • george5911
    george5911 Posts: 3,910 Member
    DWBalboa wrote: »
    Energy for round 2.

    That would be a bonus.
    DWBalboa wrote: »
    Energy for round 2.

    That would be a bonus.

    Nah... bonus rounds don't kick in until at least the 4th ;)

    Balboa. :|
  • DWBalboa wrote: »
    Energy for round 2.

    That would be a bonus.

    Nah... bonus rounds don't kick in until at least the 4th ;)

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  • DWBalboa wrote: »
    Energy for round 2.

    That would be a bonus.

    Nah... bonus rounds don't kick in until at least the 4th ;)

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    Omg!!! Drink everywhere! :D
    You gonna come clean up this mess?!?! Lol
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    When he has a good range of jokes.

    I've usually got about 3 months of entertainment in me until I just get boring :confused: lol
  • george5911
    george5911 Posts: 3,910 Member
    DWBalboa wrote: »
    Energy for round 2.

    That would be a bonus.

    Nah... bonus rounds don't kick in until at least the 4th ;)

    9imkiy953g70.gif

    Omg!!! Drink everywhere! :D
    You gonna come clean up this mess?!?! Lol

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  • george5911 wrote: »
    DWBalboa wrote: »
    Energy for round 2.

    That would be a bonus.

    Nah... bonus rounds don't kick in until at least the 4th ;)

    9imkiy953g70.gif

    Omg!!! Drink everywhere! :D
    You gonna come clean up this mess?!?! Lol

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    I almost spit out my drink! Thankfully it's just water and I was able to stifle it... so, disaster averted! 😋
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Knows how to quarter an avocado...

    Physically... It's all about that soft layer, for me.

    Mentally... If she can make me laugh at myself and take a little trash talk in return
  • mustacheU2Lift
    mustacheU2Lift Posts: 5,844 Member
    Laughter for sure. The kind where you cry.
  • admaarie
    admaarie Posts: 4,297 Member
    glad to see I’m not alone with the big hands preference 🥰
  • DonM46
    DonM46 Posts: 771 Member
    dimples
  • ISparkyI
    ISparkyI Posts: 158 Member
    Sense of humour is a must and nice eyes definitely. I also love accents.
  • JovanValor
    JovanValor Posts: 2,114 Member
    Curves curves curves
  • _BlahBlah_BlackSheep_
    _BlahBlah_BlackSheep_ Posts: 2,148 Member
    Intelligence and quick wit, a great smile, attractive features, a fit body with nice buns and a broad back. And tall.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    thigh gap and back dimples
  • _BlahBlah_BlackSheep_
    _BlahBlah_BlackSheep_ Posts: 2,148 Member
    Intelligence and quick wit, a great smile, attractive features, a fit body with nice buns and a broad back. And tall.

    Dang snaggleteeth and troll face always bringing me down. :sad:

    Stop whining. I grabbed your butt after dinner, isn't that enough for you??
  • _BlahBlah_BlackSheep_
    _BlahBlah_BlackSheep_ Posts: 2,148 Member
    Intelligence and quick wit, a great smile, attractive features, a fit body with nice buns and a broad back. And tall.

    Dang snaggleteeth and troll face always bringing me down. :sad:

    Stop whining. I grabbed your butt after dinner, isn't that enough for you??

    Apparently not. :neutral:

    Come back to NC. I'll grab the other cheek this time.
  • Jennloella
    Jennloella Posts: 2,286 Member
    scruff - or beard- nice smile, actually texts back :D
  • kam26001
    kam26001 Posts: 2,794 Member
    Jim Carrey impressions
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