Manscaping (adult discussion)

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  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    PwrLftr82 wrote: »
    Dear god...things I didn't know men worried about nor wanted to know either. Carry on, boys.

    Priorities is the real culprit here. We dont worry about much until it affects our Eating, Sleeping, and adult time
  • clairebelle222
    clairebelle222 Posts: 17 Member
    I say trim, I like my man to look like a man so some hair is a turn on...a matted jungle? no sir i cannot...no one wants to pull hair from their mouth every other second...Good Luck!
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    Noelv1976 wrote: »
    I trim down, I don't go smooth down there.

    Do this, OP.

    You don't have to go full porn star buzz, but if your girl has to have a jungle machete to find the goods, then there's a problem.
    trust me, access is not an issue. She prefers the buzz. I remember when I discovered I was growing hair down there I knew I was becoming a man and now that I'm an adult my lady and all the ones prior require I go back to smooth. I am not a little boy anymore.

    What does her crotch look like? Smooth or stubbly? You should probably just mirror whatever she does, or as I should say, you should do with your nether regions what you expect of hers.

    Maybe we should start shaving our armpits too and take estrogen become domesticated pets.
  • TwinkieDong
    TwinkieDong Posts: 1,564 Member
    I say trim, I like my man to look like a man so some hair is a turn on...a matted jungle? no sir i cannot...no one wants to pull hair from their mouth every other second...Good Luck!

    one of the best response in this thread. :) Thanks

  • CherokeeBabe
    CherokeeBabe Posts: 1,704 Member
    I'm down with the trim. Totally smooth is cool every now and then for a change of pace, but not constantly. A little hair is nice on a man, a 3-5 inch jungle is not :blush:

    Now if we're gonna talk about facial hair though, bring on the beard and the 5 o' clock shadow equally. Mmm-Mmm!
  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    Sam_I_Am77 wrote: »
    I got divorced in 2012 and was with my ex for about 12 years. Prior to dating her even "manscaping" was not something that I ever heard mentioned or heard women concerned about. I never really heard anything about it until I met my wife and after one certain night we had together, I realized it was a legit thing and I needed to do something about. I definitely take care of that now because when that rare moment arises I don't want to scare her away. I don't personally care for it and when it starts coming back it itches like crazy.

    I was the same, until after I split with my husband. I got a message from a guy asking about how I'm trimmed, and I was like, what the hell kind of question is that for someone you don't even know?! I shaved GTFO right in middle. That's what it's like. I'm sorry for the guys who have to shave to get some.
  • ThatDudeDonny
    ThatDudeDonny Posts: 268 Member
    PwrLftr82 wrote: »
    Dear god...things I didn't know men worried about nor wanted to know either. Carry on, boys.

    Priorities is the real culprit here. We dont worry about much until it affects our Eating, Sleeping, and adult time
    well said especially that last one. I could stay here all day but Lunch is over. it was fun. hopefully thread dies before valentine's day. Have a Happy Valentine's Day everyone.

  • Holly_Roman_Empire
    Holly_Roman_Empire Posts: 4,440 Member
    Noelv1976 wrote: »
    I trim down, I don't go smooth down there.

    Do this, OP.

    You don't have to go full porn star buzz, but if your girl has to have a jungle machete to find the goods, then there's a problem.
    trust me, access is not an issue. She prefers the buzz. I remember when I discovered I was growing hair down there I knew I was becoming a man and now that I'm an adult my lady and all the ones prior require I go back to smooth. I am not a little boy anymore.

    What does her crotch look like? Smooth or stubbly? You should probably just mirror whatever she does, or as I should say, you should do with your nether regions what you expect of hers.

    Maybe we should start shaving our armpits too and take estrogen become domesticated pets.

    We all grow hair in the same areas! I'm just saying don't expect something from your woman you're not willing to do yourself (in regards to this particular issue).
  • trying4real
    trying4real Posts: 113 Member
    Noelv1976 wrote: »
    I trim down, I don't go smooth down there.

    this.
  • MiloBloom83
    MiloBloom83 Posts: 2,724 Member
    _dracarys_ wrote: »
    "We're all adults"

    Uses the term "bae"

    LOL

    I know why we are friends.
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,622 Member
    Noelv1976 wrote: »
    I trim down, I don't go smooth down there.

    Do this, OP.

    You don't have to go full porn star buzz, but if your girl has to have a jungle machete to find the goods, then there's a problem.
    trust me, access is not an issue. She prefers the buzz. I remember when I discovered I was growing hair down there I knew I was becoming a man and now that I'm an adult my lady and all the ones prior require I go back to smooth. I am not a little boy anymore.

    What does her crotch look like? Smooth or stubbly? You should probably just mirror whatever she does, or as I should say, you should do with your nether regions what you expect of hers.

    Maybe we should start shaving our armpits too and take estrogen become domesticated pets.

    We all grow hair in the same areas! I'm just saying don't expect something from your woman you're not willing to do yourself (in regards to this particular issue).

    Armpits would have to be a nearly universal exception to shaving for men
  • bostonwolf
    bostonwolf Posts: 3,038 Member
    Noelv1976 wrote: »
    I trim down, I don't go smooth down there.

    This. If I went smooth there would be a bald spot on my crotch. No one wants that.

  • Holly_Roman_Empire
    Holly_Roman_Empire Posts: 4,440 Member
    strozman wrote: »
    Noelv1976 wrote: »
    I trim down, I don't go smooth down there.

    Do this, OP.

    You don't have to go full porn star buzz, but if your girl has to have a jungle machete to find the goods, then there's a problem.
    trust me, access is not an issue. She prefers the buzz. I remember when I discovered I was growing hair down there I knew I was becoming a man and now that I'm an adult my lady and all the ones prior require I go back to smooth. I am not a little boy anymore.

    What does her crotch look like? Smooth or stubbly? You should probably just mirror whatever she does, or as I should say, you should do with your nether regions what you expect of hers.

    Maybe we should start shaving our armpits too and take estrogen become domesticated pets.

    We all grow hair in the same areas! I'm just saying don't expect something from your woman you're not willing to do yourself (in regards to this particular issue).

    Armpits would have to be a nearly universal exception to shaving for men

    Why?
  • bostonwolf
    bostonwolf Posts: 3,038 Member
    strozman wrote: »
    A man must manscape if he is to expect any oral lovin. My husband is too lazy and I declined to show him any of that kind of affection so he tried to withhold the naughty all together as a way to force me to do it....I won.

    Good for you. I would do the same if I ever met a woman who didn't at least trim

    Agreed. You don't need to clear cut the whole forest, just trim the hedges and keep things neat.
  • ThatDudeDonny
    ThatDudeDonny Posts: 268 Member
    _dracarys_ wrote: »
    "We're all adults"

    Uses the term "bae"

    LOL
    for those unfamiliar to hiphop culture...<bae> "before anyone else" you're welcome ;)
  • RedArizona5
    RedArizona5 Posts: 465 Member
    edited February 2015
    Travis_2 wrote: »
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    I Wrote a significant amount and idk what happened but pretty pieced off right now.
    To each their own
    Too much porn maybe?
    Idk see if she can meet in the middle and if just trimming will suffice.
    No need to go on strike we get to also choose our partners so it is kind of important to research what life will be like with our significant other later down the road regarding being inconvenienced- but if she likes it that cause she is well pleasing you then idk imho i follow the golden rule but apparently someone got rid of that and the woman are all wearing the pants in america but anyways um lol\ But she should not be going on "strike" thats too silly and immature ish. 2 people in a relationship belong to each other and everything is shared (its the way it should ok?) And so are our bodies. Keeping someone from having our bodies does a lot of damage like for example silent treatments are damaging. Blackmailing striking its all negative and ought to be avoided by couples who know that their relationship is most important in their lives. Otherwise it isn't.
    So I hope she just meets you in the middle and personally gets over it. IMHO.
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,622 Member
    strozman wrote: »
    Noelv1976 wrote: »
    I trim down, I don't go smooth down there.

    Do this, OP.

    You don't have to go full porn star buzz, but if your girl has to have a jungle machete to find the goods, then there's a problem.
    trust me, access is not an issue. She prefers the buzz. I remember when I discovered I was growing hair down there I knew I was becoming a man and now that I'm an adult my lady and all the ones prior require I go back to smooth. I am not a little boy anymore.

    What does her crotch look like? Smooth or stubbly? You should probably just mirror whatever she does, or as I should say, you should do with your nether regions what you expect of hers.

    Maybe we should start shaving our armpits too and take estrogen become domesticated pets.

    We all grow hair in the same areas! I'm just saying don't expect something from your woman you're not willing to do yourself (in regards to this particular issue).

    Armpits would have to be a nearly universal exception to shaving for men

    Why?

    99% of women I've known shave armpits (only met 5 in my life that didn't and I've lived in Europe and Asia too)
    99% of men I've known don't shave armpits (only met 7 who did)
    -these were hardcore bodybuilding competitors, who shaved their legs and everything else, which places them at even smaller % of men overall

    Exception because majority of men would never do it under any circumstance and the majority of females already do willingly

  • guitarrckr
    guitarrckr Posts: 1,717 Member
    unless shes a redhead ! :)
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  • BigBadWolf__
    BigBadWolf__ Posts: 158 Member
    *smh*
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    listen, no one wants to see a crotch full of ol don king.

    I prefer to use my straight razor. Because I'm old school like that.
  • butterfli7o
    butterfli7o Posts: 1,319 Member
    I'm cracking up over the gifs and comments...
    Personally, I prefer trimmed and very happy that my husband has no problem with this. My ex-husband let it grow wild and that definitely dettered me.
  • CherokeeBabe
    CherokeeBabe Posts: 1,704 Member
    dbmata wrote: »
    I prefer to use my straight razor. Because I'm old school like that.

    *cringe*
  • BigBadWolf__
    BigBadWolf__ Posts: 158 Member
    Summary:

    OP is lazy and lacks proper hygiene and is confused about what proper hygiene regarding pubic hair is.

    Fantastic.
  • RedArizona5
    RedArizona5 Posts: 465 Member
    Shave = no
    Trim = most of the time
    natural = sometimes

  • Kimdbro
    Kimdbro Posts: 922 Member
    manny75 wrote: »
    I'm Always totally shaved! I like that the girl i'm with is so I respect that and shave daily! you never know when it can happen.

    Good man! I prefer smooth, but will accept a very well trimmed package. If it's not in the least bit kept up, I'm not going near it. An everyday approach makes it easy to maintain, and never leaves one wondering if its gonna pass. lol. I do the same on my end.

  • zaxx1953
    zaxx1953 Posts: 389 Member
    Never manscaped and have never had an issue....

    Not to get to personal, but different people have different amounts of hair down there.

    I prefer a stubble/landing strip myself so.....I really don't relate to the whole "hairless" craze.

    People have body hair, as long as it isn't excessive, I can deal with it.
  • 530roman
    530roman Posts: 1,819 Member
    manny75 wrote: »
    I'm Always totally shaved! I like that the girl i'm with is so I respect that and shave daily! you never know when it can happen.

    I think half the women on here already know what your dick looks like anyways... I've heard about you.
  • BigBadWolf__
    BigBadWolf__ Posts: 158 Member
    I prefer trimmed to shaved, tbh.
  • dbmata
    dbmata Posts: 12,950 Member
    dbmata wrote: »
    I prefer to use my straight razor. Because I'm old school like that.

    *cringe*
    Live life with courage. Or lose it.
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