flirting with friends ?????

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  • justcat206
    justcat206 Posts: 716 Member
    I've had to leave a different fitness site because my inbox contained messages that I just brushed off as "they say that to everyone" and my husband was really offended and angry when he saw them. So flirting in my case is not ok. I don't really mind a "you look pretty in that picture" but if it gets any more intense than that, I have to block the person.
  • Lessofme33
    Lessofme33 Posts: 51 Member
    MCIBTY wrote: »
    kiousd wrote: »
    Well im not really one to flirt. I was just seeing the general thoughts

    Sure sure, I often ask random questions with absolutely no affliation to my own behaviour.

    Wink.

    :p Hahahaha
  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
    I won't flirt with someone if I know they're in a relationship, and I won't respond if they attempt to flirt with me.
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    It's all fun and games until someone boils a pet rabbit.
  • Lessofme33
    Lessofme33 Posts: 51 Member
    Another word of advice...if you're asked "Do you have KIK?" ..RUN! Lol >:)
  • Darkhawk1969
    Darkhawk1969 Posts: 1,419 Member
    CElizabth1791 wrote: »
    kiousd wrote: »
    I trust my wife.

    Be warned of one thing...I dont know how much weight each of you has to lose but significant weight loss can be a curse as well as a blessing...When someone loses weight and starts getting attention from the opposite sex that they havent had before, it can go to one's head and lead to issues... I speak from experience. ;)

    I know what you mean, still waiting for the opportunity though lol
  • Markdjones83
    Markdjones83 Posts: 852 Member
    jennifer_417 wrote: »
    I won't flirt with someone if I know they're in a relationship, and I won't respond if they attempt to flirt with me.

    Pretty much same here
  • Derpes
    Derpes Posts: 2,033 Member
    edited February 2015
    I have the Kavorka and really cannot control who decides to throw themself at me.
  • wolfsbayne
    wolfsbayne Posts: 3,116 Member
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  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    CElizabth1791 wrote: »
    Another word of advice...if you're asked "Do you have KIK?" ..RUN! Lol >:)

    Well, do you???? I'm asking for a friend.
  • Markdjones83
    Markdjones83 Posts: 852 Member
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  • justcat206
    justcat206 Posts: 716 Member
    CElizabth1791 wrote: »
    Another word of advice...if you're asked "Do you have KIK?" ..RUN! Lol >:)

    Yes! Run like a T Rex is chasing you.
  • Lessofme33
    Lessofme33 Posts: 51 Member
    jnichel wrote: »
    CElizabth1791 wrote: »
    Another word of advice...if you're asked "Do you have KIK?" ..RUN! Lol >:)

    Well, do you???? I'm asking for a friend.

    Funny you should ask...you and I have KIK'd before.. long time ago. I have a nice new innocent profile now and I dont KIK like I used to. Lol o:)
  • Lessofme33
    Lessofme33 Posts: 51 Member
    Markdjones83 wrote: »
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    LOL!
  • Lessofme33
    Lessofme33 Posts: 51 Member
    Darkhawk1969 wrote: »
    CElizabth1791 wrote: »
    kiousd wrote: »
    I trust my wife.

    Be warned of one thing...I dont know how much weight each of you has to lose but significant weight loss can be a curse as well as a blessing...When someone loses weight and starts getting attention from the opposite sex that they havent had before, it can go to one's head and lead to issues... I speak from experience. ;)

    I know what you mean, still waiting for the opportunity though lol

    Careful whatcha wish for :#
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    CElizabth1791 wrote: »
    jnichel wrote: »
    CElizabth1791 wrote: »
    Another word of advice...if you're asked "Do you have KIK?" ..RUN! Lol >:)

    Well, do you???? I'm asking for a friend.

    Funny you should ask...you and I have KIK'd before.. long time ago. I have a nice new innocent profile now and I dont KIK like I used to. Lol o:)

    We have? See, now I must know who you were in this previous life. :p

  • Sweetiepiestef
    Sweetiepiestef Posts: 343 Member
    edited February 2015
    This is why I stay single! WOOT Flirting all the time. :wink: Soooo do you guy's have kik? hahahaha
  • Lessofme33
    Lessofme33 Posts: 51 Member
    jnichel wrote: »
    CElizabth1791 wrote: »
    jnichel wrote: »
    CElizabth1791 wrote: »
    Another word of advice...if you're asked "Do you have KIK?" ..RUN! Lol >:)

    Well, do you???? I'm asking for a friend.

    Funny you should ask...you and I have KIK'd before.. long time ago. I have a nice new innocent profile now and I dont KIK like I used to. Lol o:)

    We have? See, now I must know who you were in this previous life. :p

    Ahhh, now now that's how i got in trouble before....dont try to corrupt >:) me Lol o:)
  • moogplayer
    moogplayer Posts: 542 Member
    Flirting is fun until you flirt with the wrong, needy person...
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    moogplayer wrote: »
    Flirting is fun until you flirt with the wrong, needy person...

    You said that you would call!!!!
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,622 Member
    Pale_Green wrote: »
    fullylugged wrote: »
    Emotions can be powerful and unpredictable. What seems to be innocent fun may result in stronger feelings than you were ready for. Flirting if you are trying to attract someone's attention is not the same as just flirting for fun. The two can be hard to tell apart.

    Agree

    this^.

    I am a flirt. I tone it down considerably (keep it innocent) when I am in a relationship. single now, but I remember the maddest ANY my ex gf's ever got at me, was when a girl was flirting with me and I wasn't flirting back at all.
  • crystalstinson7
    crystalstinson7 Posts: 101 Member
    Okay, I have to know ... What is the deal with KIK? I've been asked if I have it, and I've heard my daughter say her friends use it. She's 11. Should I be concerned???
  • Iscah13
    Iscah13 Posts: 1,954 Member
    crystalstinson7 wrote: »
    Okay, I have to know ... What is the deal with KIK? I've been asked if I have it, and I've heard my daughter say her friends use it. She's 11. Should I be concerned???

    Wish I could tell you. I downloaded it and deleted it within an hour.
  • Lessofme33
    Lessofme33 Posts: 51 Member
    crystalstinson7 wrote: »
    Okay, I have to know ... What is the deal with KIK? I've been asked if I have it, and I've heard my daughter say her friends use it. She's 11. Should I be concerned???

    YES! Be concerned...only because there are some very creepy pedophiles using it and others whose profile pictures are beyond pornographic. Its a messaging app that allows for texting, pic and vid sharing. Alot of ppl use it to "sext"
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,622 Member
    crystalstinson7 wrote: »
    Okay, I have to know ... What is the deal with KIK? I've been asked if I have it, and I've heard my daughter say her friends use it. She's 11. Should I be concerned???
    borst14 wrote: »
    crystalstinson7 wrote: »
    Okay, I have to know ... What is the deal with KIK? I've been asked if I have it, and I've heard my daughter say her friends use it. She's 11. Should I be concerned???

    Wish I could tell you. I downloaded it and deleted it within an hour.

    KIK is a way to message people without giving up your personal information. Kind of like texting but they don't really have your phone number to track you down
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    crystalstinson7 wrote: »
    Okay, I have to know ... What is the deal with KIK? I've been asked if I have it, and I've heard my daughter say her friends use it. She's 11. Should I be concerned???

    Probably not. It's a chat app for mobile devices that allows sending of images and video. While it's use can be completely innocent, some people will send/trade noodz and such. Some parents like to 'trust' their kids, but not my wife and I.....we monitor their online communication. Not so much because our 14yo may be sending junk pics to the girl down the street, but more because of online predators.
  • Lessofme33
    Lessofme33 Posts: 51 Member
    Also theres a chat-wheel option on there...thats where you'll see what I'm talking about. Theres no safety feature for children and KIK doesnt save any of your texts/threads so I dont think (dont quote me) anything can be traced once deleted.
  • Ria_StayingFit
    Ria_StayingFit Posts: 6,891 Member
    crystalstinson7 wrote: »
    Okay, I have to know ... What is the deal with KIK? I've been asked if I have it, and I've heard my daughter say her friends use it. She's 11. Should I be concerned???

    Yes be concerned. My kids say it's the median used to send pervy pics to each other without using your cell number. Your daughter is likely using it innocently but I would ask her about it and who her friends are on it. It's no different then snapchat. Send pictures that disappear after a few seconds. Why would you need to do that unless you were sending inappropriate pics.
  • steelaxitute2127
    steelaxitute2127 Posts: 159 Member
    crystalstinson7 wrote: »
    Okay, I have to know ... What is the deal with KIK? I've been asked if I have it, and I've heard my daughter say her friends use it. She's 11. Should I be concerned???

    I created one to use it to respond to my readers for a few stories that I write. Unfortunately though, sometimes people do randomly start talking to you on there.
  • crystalstinson7
    crystalstinson7 Posts: 101 Member
    Oooooh, ok. Well, she doesn't have it herself. She just got a phone and she's closely monitored. I just mentioned to her that someone on here asked me to get it, and she was like, "No, Mom, don't. It's stupid. My friends use it." So I guess she knows. lol I do trust her and she's a smart one, but I know all about temptation so I still want to keep a close eye on her. As for me, I did get the app to see if I could tell if there was something "wrong" with it, but I didn't see anything off. Of course, I guess it's the same with everything, it depends on who's using it. I mean, MFP could be "bad" if someone wanted to send nude pics or whatever. Anything could.

    As for the flirting on here, I just don't get it. I'm single so I guess I'm allowed to flirt all I want, but I see some people who flirt outrageously and I'm like, "Where is that going?" It seems pointless to flirt unless you want to get something out of it. Or maybe I'm just lazy! lol I'm not going to waste my time and energy flirting with someone unless I'm going to get something out of it.

    Well ... there is one exception, but I don't think you'd really call what we do flirting. It's more like being goofy and playful, nothing serious. Although, honestly, if circumstances were different, I might be obliged to put a little more effort into it. LOL
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