Im single because......

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  • Huerita_Sarinana
    Huerita_Sarinana Posts: 1,048 Member
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    determined_ella wrote: »
    because I look like a psycho..... or at least I'm told I do :joy:

    Wtf?lmfaoo really?
  • Huerita_Sarinana
    Huerita_Sarinana Posts: 1,048 Member
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    WarriorCupcakeBlydnsr wrote: »
    Apparently I am "too"... as in:
    I am too nice, too mean, too tall, too ugly, too fat, too southern (yeah, I really got that one), too loud, too quiet, too serious, too silly, too strong, too weak, too dark, too light, too uptight, too relaxed, too neat, too messy, too organized, too disorganized... shall I go on?

    So being "too," I am still single and wondering what is so horribly wrong with me that I am unwanted because it seems something about me should be a redeeming quailty to someone.

    But sometimes being "too" is exactly what the other person wants
  • Huerita_Sarinana
    Huerita_Sarinana Posts: 1,048 Member
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    segwayne wrote: »
    The simplest answer is that after my divorce (a 50/50 fault), I let myself go. Partly out of rebellion, partly out of apathy. Now, I am "alone" (not really lonely per se) but I enjoy my life, if not my current location.

    Would prefer to have someone to share it with, but -- like me -- women my own age are either saddled with baggage, crazy, or too smart to put up with me (hahaha).

    Wayne

    As long as you do you the reat should come ☺️
  • dawnna76
    dawnna76 Posts: 987 Member
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    because my husband works for the railroad


    (means he is only home 10 days a month)
  • Huerita_Sarinana
    Huerita_Sarinana Posts: 1,048 Member
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    sebailey3 wrote: »
    My best guess is because I am too fat, ugly, boring, and stupid, also socially awkward... I've never been in a relationship so that's the best I can come up with. Also I may have too high of standards, but I can't at this point in my life fault myself for wanting a guy who at the very least has some goals for his life besides getting drunk every night. No, I'd rather be alone than feel like I compromised too much, because I know I'm not going to find a guy who's got everything on my list, but there are some areas were compromising isn't an option for me.

    amen!!!!
  • Huerita_Sarinana
    Huerita_Sarinana Posts: 1,048 Member
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    crazy reading all of the story and the things every has said to far wether you know why or why not or your "too" much of something everyone on here is beautiful and unique in there own way the time will come and btw some of you guys are hillarious
  • pechepanda
    pechepanda Posts: 7,939 Member
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    everyone thinks im asexual, too young, or not interested,
    silly assumptions... not that theyre wrong.
    the people who dont assume those things are too old, and Im not interested.
    and with everyone else, i dont pay attention and im too oblivious to anything that isnt super obvious
  • jyogit
    jyogit Posts: 280 Member
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    because the women i meet want 2 things in life .. a career or a family .. i want to live life n have some fun along the way …. if your happy with a nappy then you're in for fun ladies !!!! NOT
  • determined_ella
    determined_ella Posts: 4,354 Member
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    Dadof3bbg2 wrote: »
    carolinagirl543 wrote: »
    determined_ella wrote: »
    Tonydevolani_ wrote: »
    Thank god i have me.

    who needs a women when you have a pu$sy... cat on your face? :open_mouth:

    LMAO!! This could be THE quote of the month!
    Wow! Yea, I wouldn't leave my apartment!!!!


    :joy: I really should have some sort of filter now and again lol :joy:
    agreed! I don't think many would haha! :blush:
  • the_chiha
    the_chiha Posts: 784 Member
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    because no one ever wants to stick around & I don't have patience for the stupid games
  • emmagrace008
    emmagrace008 Posts: 9
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    I'm having a hard time letting go of my ex :'(
  • kalin73
    kalin73 Posts: 595 Member
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    strozman wrote: »
    kalin73 wrote: »
    I don't know. Never had a relationship
    Hard to believe that
    determined_ella wrote: »
    because I look like a psycho..... or at least I'm told I do :joy:
    Is that what a psycho looks like these days? Lolz too funny

    Think it's just preference
  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
    edited March 2015
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    I'm given to understand that I'm simply unloveable.
  • keef1972
    keef1972 Posts: 411 Member
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    friends with benefits is MUCH more fun!!
  • rockyyy1991
    rockyyy1991 Posts: 261 Member
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    After my previous relationship, I've realized I'm not at a stage in life where I want to be in a relationship. When you're in a relationship, you're more focused on being the person you think your partner wants you to be, and not who you want to be.
    I'm still young, I'm growing and changing, there's things I want to do, places I want to go. I'm enjoying meeting and talking with new/different people, and just enjoying life.
    People freak out too much about being single, I love being single. I do want to be in a relationship some day, just not any time soon! ;)
  • lewispwest
    lewispwest Posts: 498 Member
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    I lack the confidence from years of being an obese depressed shut in and having to slowly catch up with my peers.
  • aesthetikk
    aesthetikk Posts: 2,816 Member
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    i am told i am physically repellent and inherently unlovable
  • strozman
    strozman Posts: 2,623 Member
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    I just haven't found the right long-term girl yet.
  • Lil_Northern_Light
    Lil_Northern_Light Posts: 3,529 Member
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    strozman wrote: »
    I didn't communicate better, and ignorantly believed in fairy tale happy endings

    wow, you believed in fairytale endings ..... :smiley:
  • barry1992
    barry1992 Posts: 692 Member
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    I refuse to kiss *kitten* anymore

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