Take things to the next level
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By "next level" do you mean that you want the D or that you want a boyfriend?0
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LOL you are awesome lmaoangelxbaby714 wrote: »asflatasapancake wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »Whats a good line.. "You have really sexy eyes, lets hump!"
I prefer "How bout we get a pizza, and screw?".
& if they say "wtf" just say "what? U don't like pizza" lmao!
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_incogNEATo_ wrote: »By "next level" do you mean that you want the D or that you want a boyfriend?
I mean I want the D and our friendship any thing else time would tell but no expectations
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Well somebody else said it earlier but, if that's what you're wanting and it's not what he's wanting...... you might just be his shopping buddy AKA
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Go out for drinks and make your move at the end of the night. If it turns into an epic train wreck you can always just blame the booze to keep things from being weird.0
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tell them of my interest and see what happens
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Lick his ear BBQ sauce.....should I laugh or gag?!
You MUST report back to us what happens!0 -
I have been in a very similar situation.
I finally built up the courage to say that I liked him as more than friends.
He rejected me.
We are still friends, luckily we're both big enough to not let it be 'weird' around each other.0 -
soldiergrl_101 wrote: »wolverine66 wrote: »You say you have given him signs. I'd like to know what these are to determine whether or not they are overt or covert. Something you might see as a huge sign may not be viewed that way by him. Also, how is his self esteem? I know from personal experience that even though I recognized signs, i simply thought that there was no way the girl liked me and convinced myself I was misinterpreting them.
You know what might also be good? Just coming out and saying that you want to explore the feelings to see if they are legitimate or if they are just something that you are remembering from the past. This way you are on the same page - no guarantees. I mean, what if he has been pining for you for 10 years, and you pounce on him and decide it's not for you? That's probably going to sting a little.
But if you let him know up front, that you aren't sure and want to test the waters, then you don't give him an unrealistic expectation.
I think his self confidence is pretty high, not arrogantly so but enough to make a move if he wants. That said my resume intimidates most guys and with him knowing me since before I left for the military and began working at MIT I think it intimidates him. Like he thinks he wouldn't be good enough, I know a few guys who have told me that.
As far as the signs, just the normal flirting things most chicks do eye contact, texting...I have also been out of the game for about 5 years so I probably dont even know how to flirt as well as I used to come to think about it
No guy ever thinks they aren't good enough for a girl. That's a lame excuse guys use.
As far as *kitten* a friend... I'd be honest and tell him you need a triple D.. he will know what that means... then just tell him to show you his penis.0 -
leut_underpants wrote: »kinkyslinky16 wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »wolverine66 wrote: »You say you have given him signs. I'd like to know what these are to determine whether or not they are overt or covert. Something you might see as a huge sign may not be viewed that way by him. Also, how is his self esteem? I know from personal experience that even though I recognized signs, i simply thought that there was no way the girl liked me and convinced myself I was misinterpreting them.
You know what might also be good? Just coming out and saying that you want to explore the feelings to see if they are legitimate or if they are just something that you are remembering from the past. This way you are on the same page - no guarantees. I mean, what if he has been pining for you for 10 years, and you pounce on him and decide it's not for you? That's probably going to sting a little.
But if you let him know up front, that you aren't sure and want to test the waters, then you don't give him an unrealistic expectation.
I think his self confidence is pretty high, not arrogantly so but enough to make a move if he wants. That said my resume intimidates most guys and with him knowing me since before I left for the military and began working at MIT I think it intimidates him. Like he thinks he wouldn't be good enough, I know a few guys who have told me that.
As far as the signs, just the normal flirting things most chicks do eye contact, texting...I have also been out of the game for about 5 years so I probably dont even know how to flirt as well as I used to come to think about it
No guy ever thinks they aren't good enough for a girl. That's a lame excuse guys use.
As far as *kitten* a friend... I'd be honest and tell him you need a triple D.. he will know what that means... then just tell him to show you his penis.
<<<doesn't know the meaning of triple D. Ermagerd I'm so sheltered. :sad:
Deep down dic'kin. I tell my husband this or that I need a good pounding. It'll work for you too
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WTH is 3D?
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asflatasapancake wrote: »I thought it might have something to do with 3 dicks. Shows what I know.
I was hoping the same thing.
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leut_underpants wrote: »kinkyslinky16 wrote: »leut_underpants wrote: »kinkyslinky16 wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »wolverine66 wrote: »You say you have given him signs. I'd like to know what these are to determine whether or not they are overt or covert. Something you might see as a huge sign may not be viewed that way by him. Also, how is his self esteem? I know from personal experience that even though I recognized signs, i simply thought that there was no way the girl liked me and convinced myself I was misinterpreting them.
You know what might also be good? Just coming out and saying that you want to explore the feelings to see if they are legitimate or if they are just something that you are remembering from the past. This way you are on the same page - no guarantees. I mean, what if he has been pining for you for 10 years, and you pounce on him and decide it's not for you? That's probably going to sting a little.
But if you let him know up front, that you aren't sure and want to test the waters, then you don't give him an unrealistic expectation.
I think his self confidence is pretty high, not arrogantly so but enough to make a move if he wants. That said my resume intimidates most guys and with him knowing me since before I left for the military and began working at MIT I think it intimidates him. Like he thinks he wouldn't be good enough, I know a few guys who have told me that.
As far as the signs, just the normal flirting things most chicks do eye contact, texting...I have also been out of the game for about 5 years so I probably dont even know how to flirt as well as I used to come to think about it
No guy ever thinks they aren't good enough for a girl. That's a lame excuse guys use.
As far as *kitten* a friend... I'd be honest and tell him you need a triple D.. he will know what that means... then just tell him to show you his penis.
<<<doesn't know the meaning of triple D. Ermagerd I'm so sheltered. :sad:
Deep down dic'kin. I tell my husband this or that I need a good pounding. It'll work for you too
Lol. That explains it. Triple D is her default setting, I have to beg to do other things. :laugh:
Yeah it's just another name for the sexy time. A good ol' triple D....
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asflatasapancake wrote: »I thought it might have something to do with 3 dicks. Shows what I know.
I was hoping the same thing.
3 dicks would work also... three holes, one for each. He'd probably be down for that.0 -
OMG triple dick i almost died I'm sure that would get any guys attention that and three holes pick one :0. I will try and come up with something out of all this that will work. Usually im not shy so this is uncharted territory lol.0
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soldiergrl_101 wrote: »OMG triple dick i almost died I'm sure that would get any guys attention that and three holes pick one :0. I will try and come up with something out of all this that will work. Usually im not shy so this is uncharted territory lol.
Butterflies in the tummy. BUt you said you only want the D so maybe its butterflies somewhere else
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TavistockToad wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »Ive given off all the signs that I like him
Have you said 'i like you'? boys don't often notice 'signs'
Guys aren't typically the best at reading these "signs"...direct approaches work best.0 -
cwolfman13 wrote: »TavistockToad wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »Ive given off all the signs that I like him
Have you said 'i like you'? boys don't often notice 'signs'
Guys aren't typically the best at reading these "signs"...direct approaches work best.
Saying "I like you" sounds lame and high school-ish maybe I should just go in for the kill. Especially because if I let him know I like him, he could misinterpret that for "I want a relationship" which is the opposite of what I want
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soldiergrl_101 wrote: »cwolfman13 wrote: »TavistockToad wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »Ive given off all the signs that I like him
Have you said 'i like you'? boys don't often notice 'signs'
Guys aren't typically the best at reading these "signs"...direct approaches work best.
Saying "I like you" sounds lame and high school-ish maybe I should just go in for the kill. Especially because if I let him know I like him, he could misinterpret that for "I want a relationship" which is the opposite of what I want
So be direct with him. You are over complicating things. Tell him exactly what you want. A no commitment ride.0 -
soldiergrl_101 wrote: »Do you pounce on them like a dog in heat and hope they accept the advance or maybe some alcohol LOL. How would you do it?
^^ Do exactly this. Back in college I "slipped into friendville" with a the woman who later became my wife. It sucked!!! It is so hard to leave friendville!! We would flirt etc on the phone or chat..but in person she acted differently. Like she was timid. I was so confused and not brave enough to go for it.
I wish she would have just pounced on me like a dog...
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Pouncing it is, I would try the ketchup thing as mentioned above but im pretty sure that would make me gag plah0
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yopeeps025 wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »cwolfman13 wrote: »TavistockToad wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »Ive given off all the signs that I like him
Have you said 'i like you'? boys don't often notice 'signs'
Guys aren't typically the best at reading these "signs"...direct approaches work best.
Saying "I like you" sounds lame and high school-ish maybe I should just go in for the kill. Especially because if I let him know I like him, he could misinterpret that for "I want a relationship" which is the opposite of what I want
So be direct with him. You are over complicating things. Tell him exactly what you want. A no commitment ride.
Seriously, you can use more words for clairification. If you don't want to be misinterpreted, then be clear.
But it sounds like you just want to do the pounce thing, so do that. Good luck.0 -
wolverine66 wrote: »yopeeps025 wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »cwolfman13 wrote: »TavistockToad wrote: »soldiergrl_101 wrote: »Ive given off all the signs that I like him
Have you said 'i like you'? boys don't often notice 'signs'
Guys aren't typically the best at reading these "signs"...direct approaches work best.
Saying "I like you" sounds lame and high school-ish maybe I should just go in for the kill. Especially because if I let him know I like him, he could misinterpret that for "I want a relationship" which is the opposite of what I want
So be direct with him. You are over complicating things. Tell him exactly what you want. A no commitment ride.
Seriously, you can use more words for clairification. If you don't want to be misinterpreted, then be clear.
But it sounds like you just want to do the pounce thing, so do that. Good luck.
Usually its harder for men to seduce women. I wonder if I have any females friends that are like this too. For someone who said they are the aggressor they do not sound that and kind of sound timid themselves.0 -
The pouncing thing was a joke i'm not seriously going to do that. I will talk to him0
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Yeah.. talk to him and tell him you need a good dickin... tell him you are giving him first dibbs.. done!0
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soldiergrl_101 wrote: »The pouncing thing was a joke i'm not seriously going to do that. I will talk to him
It would really suck if he sucked in bed.
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Ive been with the same guy for the past 5 years, who almost turned me lesbian....My buddy cant be that bad lol0
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Maybe you should try this:
Hey, I just met you (again),
And this is crazy,
But here's my body,
So fvckme, maybe!0 -
This whole conversation just makes me laugh. Not at you soldiergrl_101 but at these replies.
Common thing here is most guys are idiots and need Braille, mail, smoke signals etc. to get the point. (Myself included) 0 -
This whole conversation just makes me laugh. Not at you soldiergrl_101 but at these replies. Common thing here is most guys are idiots and need Braille, mail, smoke signals etc. to get the point. (Myself included)
I can get the hint if the woman just starts to strip then starts to strip me. That is a good enough sign.
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