Anyone in their late 40s/just over 50?

Birdykat

Enough is enough...I've been carrying these extra 20 pounds around since eight years ago when I was a skinny 42 year old with two kids who kept me running and too busy to think about food, except when it came to feeding them.

In the last few months, 20 extra pounds has turned into 28, and I can't stand the thought of the scale going up instead of down.

I need inspiration from other late 40s/early 50 year old women (and men) that this calorie-counting and increased physical activity combination can work even if you are over 40...I know intellectually it can, of course, but am terrified that having a kitchen full of carbs for my two children (both in growth spurts every few months, it seems) will continue to tempt me, instead of the cut up veggies/fruit that I know I should be eating instead.

Any positive thoughts/energy welcome! Thanks so much. Look forward to sharing my success with yours!

Bobbie8786

I am 47 and have 2 teenagers in the house. Instead of keeping junk food around, I have them eating healthy too:laugh: They seem perfectly happy with lots of fruits (and smoothies), hummus, boiled eggs, pistachios, yogurt, etc. We still have pizza, it is just made with whole wheat crust and piled high with veggies and a lot less cheese.

There is no way I could succeed if my house had junk food in it. I have zero will power and if it is there I will come.

I have a lot more to lose than 20 pounds but the past few weeks have been pretty easy weight loss. I was worried because of the myth that "older" women can't lose weight. No excuses for me this time around (I lost 60+ pounds a few years ago and idiotically gained it all back plus). I am going to lose my weight before I turn 50! No excuses for me this time around.

JudieJudes

I am a young 49 year old - always happy to accept MFP Friend requests :flowerforyou:

x_JT_x

I've been dealing with a triple whammy (Age, medically induced early menopause & Tamoxifen) for the last few years. Highest weight was 170, got down to 130. Diagnosed with cancer and pretty much spent a year on the couch (allergic to the chemo drugs). Post cancer weight 145 and fairly non-existent muscle when all was said and done. Started getting serious about my health/weight/strength in January 2013. Currently 130lbs and lifting weights 3 x a week.

So, can it work you ask? Absolutely!

pollypolo258

I was 50 last month and like you I am looking for inspiration/encouragement. Lost a lot of weight over 18 months but recently the pounds have crept back on - I know because my jeans are getting tight! I'll get on the scales tomorrow (I don't keep them in the house) and set a target.

As a extra incentive my daughter is getting married next May and I want to feel at my best.

LisaMfit4life

Hi! Feel free to add me as a friend. I am going on 52 and I too have struggled with my weight. It just crept up, but losing weight is within reach just don't give up. I changed my eating habits more fruits, vegetables basically eating a cleaner diet and exercising and i have lost weight. I will provide motivation and support so let's do this!!
Lisa

LisaMfit4life

Wow! Awesome for you!!
Lisa

ucabucca

Feel free to add me. I can use a few more friends closer to my own age. My goals are different but i can still relate and have learned so much in the last few years about eating that has helped me a lot as well as my family. Good Luck

sheripamela

Over 50 and over 80 lbs gone

leebesstoad

Yeah, cause you wouldn't want to hear it from someone who was 57. And doing it on 2 artificial hips and an artificial knee. And kicking the crap out of kids one quarter his age in the gym.

Would you??

Keran24

It works, even in your late 40s. I am 49. I gained 20 pounds in nursing school almost 20 years ago. After the birth of my youngest two children in my 30s I gained another 10. In my forties I gradually gained 20 more. 2 years ago I took a night shift job and discovered that I was never hungry at night. Been a day shifter all my life and my body did not expect to be fed in the middle of the night. I quickly lost 10 pounds. At that time my coworkers began a biggest loser contest. This and the loss of 10 pounds inspired me to increase my physical activity and watch what I was eating to lose weight. I lost another 17 pounds and have been able to keep it off. I would still like to lose 20 pounds more but I am so happy with the way I look and feel now. I am so much more toned than I have ever been in my life. People tell me I look alot younger than I am and I can do things physically that alot of younger friends cannot. And all I did was reduce the amount of food I ate and work out more.My metabolism has definitely changed. So go for it. You can do it at any age.

andezz99

I'm 48/M with 2 kids 19 and 16. I've been working out and dieting for just about 2 months and I've lost about 26-27 lbs so far. I started at 227-228 and weighed in this morning at 199. It's the first time I've been under 200 lbs. in years so I am pretty happy.

My wife is 45 and we are doing this together which makes it easy for us to support our goals which are:

1. Maintain a healthy diet
2. Exercise daily

It hasn't been easy, we've started and stopped many times. This time we joined a cross-fit gym and attended a nutrition class they offered. Our meals consist of a Paleo only diet, which includes: meat, vegetables, fruit, nuts and eggs. It excludes dairy of all types, packaged foods, grains (bread, cereal, corn), soy, sugar, and alcohol. Is it tough, the first 2 weeks are but after that, I found that my system was craving the healthy food and not the stuff I gave up. We began the period on what's called whole30, very strict for 30 days, no exceptions. We are about 100% Paleo, 90% of the time so we do have the occasional piece of bread or glass of wine but the thing about the diet is that you are not hungry if you follow it. Check out "Paleo" on the web or "whole30" for more info.

We try to get our kids involved a little but that is more difficult, because, they can still eat anything. I've modified the way I prepare meals. If we have hamburgers, we (my wife and I) eat it wrapped in lettuce while the kids have a bun. They have cheese, we have mushrooms or avocado. If I make a steak dinner, I cook them a potato and myself a sweet potato (allowed). It's little modifications here and there.

The other significant part of our weight loss is the exercise. I'm sorry, at our age dieting by itself is not enough. You must move your body in some form. I have worked out at gyms off and on for years. I have a full gym in my garage but the accountability I get at cross-fit pushes me to do my best every day. I walk in the door at 6:30 and out at 7:30 am, sweat dripping all the way home. Every work out is different and intense. My wife and I don't even look at the WOD (work out of the day) before we go in because we don't want to bail out in fear. Today may be running sprints, tomorrow will be heavy lifting but every day is different and a good cross fit gym will modify the workout to your level of expertise ( or lack of). It's not uncommon to see elite athletes working side by side with 40-50 something overweight couch potatoes. Everyone is very encouraging and motivating.

So in summary, it is possible to loose weight and get in shape at our age. I feel great, I can't weight to work out everyday and believe it or not, I love to eat vegetables now. Good luck to you on your journey, you can do it!

sijomial

I carried my extra 30 pounds around for over twenty years so at least you have a head start on me!!

I'm 53 but determined to keep turning the clock back health-wise. Now back to the weight I was in my 20's and fitness levels probably as good as they have ever been.

Just love the feeling of being fit and strong again. Onwards and upwards to a second childhood.....:laugh:

slo2ga

I just joined this site about 10 minutes ago. I'm 49 and 100 pounds over weight. I grew up extremely thin and never had to worry about my weight. Therefore, I never learned to eat properly. So here I am - so disgusted with myself and determined to be a "hot" 50 year old by this time next year!

My crazy job has long hours and I'm surrounded by food! I don't know how to cook - lol - so I guess I have a lot to learn.

Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!!

WolfHunter14

I quit smoking and hit the late 40's (middle age spread), same as you I have never learned to eat right and have been gaining too much to fast. This weight sure sneaks up on me if I 'm not paying attention. Lost 15lbs before December 2012 and gained it all back but plus more... Have discovered this is a life changing event and am trying to retrain my brain that lettuce taste good after exercising. LOL

LadyIntrepid

I'm 50, feel awesome and think I look pretty awesome, too. In my 40s, as everything changed, I gained 20 pounds and just thought that would be the way it would have to be. Then... I turned 49 and figured I'd give a "Fit at 50" campaign a try. Totally committed, logged my food, started working out for real (I used to love my two dance classes a week and daily dog walks, which probably kept 20 from becoming 30, but...), and stopped making excuses. (Mine were -- my metabolism slowed down, my joints hurt, my hormones are crazy, etc., etc. Then I decided -- so what?)

I am now, 1 1/2 years later, one of the fittest women in my gym, including the majority who are younger than me. I did the Spartan Sprint last weekend and finished in the top 25% of 2100 women with the VAST majority of them much much younger than me. I intend to do the Spartan Super in September. I have stayed in my goal weight range for almost a year, I went down an additional clothing size without losing more weight, and the body fat % keeps creeping down.

It's all possible. You have to just put your mind to it. Easier said than done? Yup. It's not easy. You have to commit to working hard. But it's completely doable. You just have to do it. And it feels great.

judykat7

I am 52. I joined MFP in November of 2012 and have logged everyday. I have lost 38# and probably have another 20ish to go to be at a healthy weight=but it is about the look to me now. I am 5"4, currently weighing 162. I don't have any kids, live in the Midwest, have an open diary, love to cook, love the Cardinals, and take this new life style pretty serious but not like a science. I eat everything and make challenges to myself and my MFP friends. My workout changes every month. If you think I might work as a friend-send me a note. I could use another good motivator always.

erikkmcvay

I'm 47 (will be 48 next month) and have lost 45 pounds since December of last year (26 since joining MFP). The key, I think, is to start thinking differently. Losing the weight and getting in shape requires a life change and the mentality that goes with it.

Determine to change your life (that means what you eat and do on a normal basis) and you WILL lose the weight and keep it off -- and feel YOUNGER!

robinschwalb

I am 53 and struggling to lose weight as well, it is coming off way too slow.....

dogwalk

Wonderful!

queenbea77

Welcome, I'm a 53 y/o grandmother (4 boys & 3 girls & another one due this winter). I'm just recovering from a foot injury & getting back in the swing of working out 5x week as I am hiking the Grand Canyon in October. Today was my first spin class in about 9 months and I actually survived it! I also do Body Pump 3x a week. Congrats on taking the first step to better health. Friend me if you like

mamanitlob1

Looks like I might be one of (if not THE) oldest person to respond to your question: I'll be 65 the end of this year and counting calories has always worked for me...when I did it! Like so many others, 12-14 lbs just seem to creep up on me over the last couple of years so I recently began counting my daily calories again...aka being accountable for what I put in my mouth. I've only been doing it for about 10 days, but I'm down 21/2 pounds! So, be encouraged! It works.

LisaMfit4life

Hi! Feel free to add me as a friend. I'm going to be 52 and it's never too late to change your lifestyle and it is a lifestyle change. Looking forward to supporting those to reach their goals.
Lisa

MJEekhoff

I'm 43 and have now officially started my weight loss journey. I need to lose 80 - 90 pounds. Feel free to add me, too!

Rhonda21km

It's never, never too late! I'm 47 and always looking for like-minded friends.

I call things as I see them....did I mention that? But, I'm very supportive!

Tansy98

I'm 43 and have been on mfp for nearly 6 months but seem to have hit a plateau lately with very little weight loss - would love to make some new friends to motivate / support each other

dstevens19

Hi folks-there's a 40s and 50s group under Community groups. We need more active MFPers to join us. It's a great opportunity to build friendships for accountability and encouragement, share tips and tricks, celebrate successes and more.

I'm a new 50 who just realized I'm obese. I gained 2-3 lbs a year for a decade. It went on so slowly I almost didn't realize it. At 188, I got serious about my health and have lost 20 lbs on my way to 20 more. I work out regularly, eat normal healthy foods and sometimes fall off the wagon.

Happy to meet new friends and I hope you'll join me in the Community.

pstaceyca

leebesstoad That is awesome!!

LeesaMarie63

Hello, just turned 50, and was a eataholic...love pasta and sweets....but now I'm loving the pounds coming off even more...if I can do it anyone can, add me if you like..we can help motivate each other

cwillen65

I am 48 and had always been small until after I had kids and entered my thirties. I also have used food for comfort. As a victim of childhood sexual abuse and keeping it a secret for many years, I turn to food to feel better. At least it wasn't drugs or alcohol, but worse in that you have to deal with food to live. You can't go without it! After entering therapy and no longer keeping secrets I am learning to develop a new relationship with food. I have found that I love to walk in the woods with my headphones on. Music and the setting is now comforting me!! So I plan to focus on changing the way I react to life and to get stronger through exercise therapy!

violettatx

Hey. I'm 50ish and I've been on MFP for about 2 months. I was on here before but kind of got busy during the holidays. It isn't hard to lose weight at this age if you just eat at a deficit and train. I lift and do a little cardio and I've been losing a pound a week, which is pretty good since I don't have that much to lose. I recommend lifting, as it really will improve body composition and it is very important at our age to retain and possibly build muscle.

Anyone can add me as a friend. Good luck everyone!