Overcoming My Fear Of The Swimsuit

Balance_Breathe

I am grinning from ear to ear!!! YAY!!! So proud of you, and may I just say, I think you look fabulous in that suit! Not to get too personal, but you have great legs and you really don't even look all that overweight! The first thing I notice, the thing that overshines every other thing about how you look, is that happy smile on your face.... and on Ed's face, too. : ) Ed did good to push you to go!

I don't think you said-- how was the getting in and out part, was it okay?

ldrosophila

Good for you water is so therapeutic never feel ashamed I've donned less swim suits than that at 365 because I love water and sun. Keep it up dare you to go a bit sexier for the hubs

samanthachen

Your post brought tears to my eyes. I have also NEVER felt happy in a bathing suit, until today, actually. I am so happy for you!! That look on your husband's face made me openly weep. He looks so happy, and it seems to be pride! He is so proud of his GOREOUS lady and her accomplishments. You have a wonderful love, and it's amazing when 1 photo can tell the story of a whole marriage! Congrats on so many things!!!

You have nothing to fear in that swim suit; you look amazing, and you have some pretty killer legs :flowerforyou:

lainester

Like others said this brought tears to my eyes! What a great story and that picture of you in the water that first time, loved it!!! Good for you! Here's to many more days ahead like this! So awesome! :happy:

bluecrayonz

Proud of you girl and u really do look beautiful

pe4sandra

LoVe ThE PiCtUrEs!!! Something about your face screams, "I LOVE LIFE!" Enjoy the pool and your new swimsuits.

Hanfordrose

I am grinning from ear to ear!!! YAY!!! So proud of you, and may I just say, I think you look fabulous in that suit! Not to get too personal, but you have great legs and you really don't even look all that overweight!

Believe me, I am one very fat lady. The photos of my body under water give the illusion of a very thin person. That is simply water destorting the object below the surface. My upper arms are horrible. Maybe you didn't see this recent photo of that problem area.



The rest of my body is not much better. My thighs are horrible with a mass of loose fat at the top and saddle bags as well. Yes...from the neck up and the knees down, my body isn't as bad. Of course, all the stretch marks, cellulitis, sagging boobies and hanging belly are all in that large middle ground. :laugh:

The first thing I notice, the thing that overshines every other thing about how you look, is that happy smile on your face.... and on Ed's face, too. : ) Ed did good to push you to go!

We both had good reason to smile today. I was in heaven from the moment I felt the water lift my body, as though I didn't weigh 219 pounds today.

I don't think you said-- how was the getting in and out part, was it okay?

With handrails and steps into the water, I was as safe and steady as on my walker; but I must admit, that I felt like I had gained 100 pounds as I lift myself out of the water and took on my full weight again. Ed was near me and even offered to help, but I knew that I had to pull myself up. I went from almost weightless in the water for most of an hour to feeling the full burden of my pounds as I climbed those few steps out of the pool.

karenertl

I love your pics! Way to go! I want to go swimming now.

MindyG150

What a fun read, thanks for sharing.

AleciaG724

Yay! I love swimming too! The "weightlessness" is awesome & so easy on the joints! An added plus for me - no sweating!! Keep it up & keep smiling!

MyJourney1960

awesome! and that smile on your face - wow! you look so liberated and calm.

give that special Ed a big hug - he sounds like one amazing guy!:flowerforyou:

Sharkington

Wow, this is so wonderful. I don't know you, but I feel so happy for you, regardless! You are beautiful and an inspiration. Thanks for sharing, and keep on enjoying that pool! :flowerforyou:

Givemewings

Amazing! Sounds like a beautiful day and I feel quite overcome with emotion just reading your post. So pleased you had such a lovely day with your husband

Hanfordrose

Good for you water is so therapeutic never feel ashamed I've donned less swim suits than that at 365 because I love water and sun. Keep it up dare you to go a bit sexier for the hubs

No sexier swimsuit for this old girl. I deleted one photo that Ed took of my cleveage, before I got in the pool. Several times during my laps, Ed would come up beside me. He liked it when my swimdress would float up and expose the skin between my waist and my breast...the spare tire area. Just that little amount of skin was enough for him.

I got a lot of hugs and lovie dovie talk, when we were together in that pool and spa. He joked around about 'his bathing beauty'. That was the reason that he wanted that shot of me wrapped up in a towel. If this was a private pool and we were alone, I have a feeling that we both would have been skinny dipping and more. Unfortunately, that kind of behavior would get us banned from this community pool for seniors.

I know that I felt sexy and far less senior today.

ldrosophila

Good for you water is so therapeutic never feel ashamed I've donned less swim suits than that at 365 because I love water and sun. Keep it up dare you to go a bit sexier for the hubs

No sexier for this old girl. I deleted one photo that Ed took of my cleveage, before I got in the pool. Several times during my laps, Ed would come up beside me. He liked it when my swimdress would float up and expose the skin between my waist and my breast...the spare tire area. Just that little amount of skin was enough for him.

I got a lot of hugs and lovie dovie talk, when we were together in that pool and spa. He joked around about 'his bathing beauty'. That was the reason that he wanted that shot of me wrapped up in a towel. If this was a private pool and we were alone, I have a feeling that we both would have been skinny dipping and more. Unfortunately, that kind of behavior would get us banned from this community pool for seniors.

I know that I felt sexy and far less senior today.

Awe lovely :devil: you aren't a senior your a vibrant bathing beauty moving and respecting your body no wonder he was amorous

Hanfordrose

I know that this pool is going to be a wonderful tool for weight loss and preparation for my double knee surgeries and postop as well. My doctor will be thrilled that I am swimming. This can only help me to be a better patient.

I can feel the workout that I got in my thighs tonight. So, this was all good.

Ed will be out of town most of tomorrow at a pastors' meeting, but I am looking forward to another trip to the pool on Friday.

rbeckner711

This is wonderful

WalkingMermaid_

This is SO inspiring to me, as someone who was an avid, keen, lover of swimming and the water, it broke my heart to lose the confidence to get in the pool once I had gained so much weight. It's literally torture for me not to swim or be in water.

As fate has it, my local pool is closed until late August due to a rebuild. My goal is to be around or under the 200's by then and to be there on the new pool's opening day armed with my swim suit and courage!!

Your story moved me to tears! Congratulations on your success and I wish you many freeing and happy moments in the water! xxx

linda_p

I can feel your joy and hear the sound of freedom...a beautiful gift! Thank you so much for sharing!

Hanfordrose

This morning, I have what one MFP member refers to as 'delicious pain'. There is a soft ache across my upper back and arms. Even my inner thigh are telling me that I found some old, unused muscle groups during my time in the pool yesterday. That's all good, because I needed that; and I want MORE.

I don't feel tired or in anyway injured by my exercise. I feel INSPIRED and EAGER to get back in the pool as soon as I can. I know this was good for me. Ed is out of town today for a pastors' meeting; but we are definitely going back tomorrow.

For those of you who are still worried about how BAD you would look in a swimsuit...DON'T be your own worst enemy. Under water, you will look small, as those photos so clearly illustrate. You only need the courage to get passed the TERROR of the DREADED SWIMSUIT and get to the water. Once you are there, you will be rewarded more than you could ever imagine.

I wish that I hadn't waited so long; and I am so grateful to my MFP sisters who encouraged and inspired me to join my hubbie in the pool.

Port47

Your smilie says it all,and look at you go in the water! Congrats ! :flowerforyou: :drinker: Oh, great job on your weight loss!

MrsJ1105

You look SO happy! I am so happy for you, oh my gosh. Congrats on your weight loss, can't wait to see the other suits :-)

lcransaw

Congratulations!!!! So glad you conquered your fear and enjoyed your swim!

KatC_88

Thank you for sharing! SO happy for you and congratulations!!! You should be very proud of your self!

AMAZING STORY!!!!!

spokenword2000

Awesome! Now you don't have to be afraid anymore, you just have to decide which swimsuit to wear

Balance_Breathe

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If this was a private pool and we were alone, I have a feeling that we both would have been skinny dipping and more. Unfortunately, that kind of behavior would get us banned from this community pool for seniors.
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Ha ha ha ha ha ha!! I love you guys!! (I need an Ed of my own!) :drinker:

I was going to suggest that maybe swimming was a kind of spiritual experience, as you felt "lifted up" by the water, but... ahem... apparently it was a more physical than spiritual experience! :laugh:

It's great to know that "a man of the cloth" can still happily enjoy his physical nature and his sense of humor!

dnunny70

The close up picture of you with your shades made me grin. You rock!!!

Hanfordrose

My hubbie Ed just called. He will be home shortly...and asked, if 'Mama' wanted to go swimming again. Mama is his nickname for me. The answer was an enthusiastic YES!

I am going to put on the other swimsuit that came in the mail yesterday. I am also going to do something even more courageous. I am going to have Ed take some photos of me in that suit...and OUT OF THE WATER...not wrapped up in a towel. It is time to reveal the 'real me' in a photo, not just bit and pieces.

I like the fact that the water gives the illusion of a skinny me, when I am under the surface; but truth is important. I don't want anyone to misunderstand my real size. There are too many of my MFP friends who are just like me...older and carrying weight in some not so easy to hide places.

One day, these 'before photos' might help me to help someone else.

Balance_Breathe

If this thread is any indication, you are already helping a lot of people, even women much younger. A few even wrote, "moved me to tears." So BRAVO to your bravery-- just imagine us all giving you a standing ovation, and enjoy the water today! Can't wait to see the new suit!

Hanfordrose

Can't wait to see the new suit!

I couldn't believe how good I look in this swimsuit. It really does 'cover a multitude of sins'. I know how to dress to hide 'the worst parts of my body'. I have done it for years.

The before photos must include one that reveals my whole body from the shoulder down...with some obvious modesty. I am still a pastor's wife. This will no be X-Rated, but it will be honest.

I have lost more than 50 pounds; and the bags between my thighs, my large upper arms and my now deflating abdomen show that change. However, there is still a LOT OF ME at 219 pounds.