Do u like getting flirted with?

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  • KeepingUpWithKari
    KeepingUpWithKari Posts: 287 Member
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    Kasner1975 wrote: »
    iWonderWoman wrote: »
    So being married means.. You can't accept any compliments at all and like it?!

    Hmmm its not the 1920s and I'm married not dead. He looks and acknowledges other women and I'm sure most married men do as well.

    No that's not quite what I meant.... Accepting a compliment is lovely. No problem there. Allowing it to open the lines of communication based on a sexual attraction, I feel is not.

    Of course, I agree. Every man involved in my life in whatever way; work, school, social media, or my personal life, knows theres only room for 3 boys in my life. My little man, my husband, and my dad.

    But if I get a compliment, I'll smile and say thanks. Guys that are blatant however gets that b*tch look and I'm married line.
  • MsAmandaNJ
    MsAmandaNJ Posts: 1,248 Member
    edited May 2016
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    Arathels wrote: »
    I'm not observant enough to know if I'm being flirted with or not so I have no idea if I like it. If my friends tell me someone was just flirting with me I usually just thought they were being nice.
    That's so me. Someone once took my hand and said, "You know I'm hitting on you, right?". Nope, but I do now!

    I love to play the flirting game (dish it and take it), I'm just not so great at it.
  • gio0323
    gio0323 Posts: 294 Member
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    sure
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    Kasner1975 wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    I always think of flirting as subtle. blatant, what's your moth for kind of comments are not flirting. Maybe I'm old school but it should be more like banter between people that leaves you thinking and then wanting more. but I'm an old married lady so who knows really

    Exactly. And therein lies the difference between hot and sexy. Hot almost always involves physical or obvious. Sexy often involves the mind. Hot fades. Sexy can be forever.


    You said it perfectly....

    Yes this ^^^
  • Arathels
    Arathels Posts: 6,883 Member
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    MsAmandaNJ wrote: »
    Arathels wrote: »
    I'm not observant enough to know if I'm being flirted with or not so I have no idea if I like it. If my friends tell me someone was just flirting with me I usually just thought they were being nice.
    That's so me. Someone once took my hand and said, "You know I'm hitting on you, right?". Nope, but I do now!

    I love to play the flirting game (dish it and take it), I'm just not so great at it.


    Haha I've been asked that exact question and my response was pretty close to yours haha.

    I'm so bad at this game that my friends usually just tell the guys to go and kiss me.. if I like them I'll kiss back, if not I'll push them away.. Only way for them to know if I'm into them or not with out asking.
  • Amanda_0707
    Amanda_0707 Posts: 103 Member
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    Love it
  • sparrish531
    sparrish531 Posts: 499 Member
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    absolutely
  • gruesomegreta
    gruesomegreta Posts: 13 Member
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    It depends. I'm not opposed to it. If I say I'm not interested and it continues, that's concerning.
  • janetterdz93
    janetterdz93 Posts: 118 Member
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    Not even a question for me lol!
  • loving1me
    loving1me Posts: 21 Member
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    I have amazing husband that makes me feel like a queen well at least most of the time I generally don't notice but mainly because I'm really not interested but I love how he flirts with me
  • CourtneyMarie1760
    CourtneyMarie1760 Posts: 45 Member
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    Who doesnt, is the real question!?
  • chamzlila
    chamzlila Posts: 189 Member
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    Love flirting and the back and fourth banter. Doesn't always mean i fancy the person but its a good ice breaker
  • Thisnameischosen
    Thisnameischosen Posts: 2,771 Member
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    Only if I find them attractive.. Otherwise it's like "ewww that gross person wants to have sex with me"
  • jasamjak67
    jasamjak67 Posts: 1,421 Member
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    Witty comments are instant turn ons.
  • jackie_van_d
    jackie_van_d Posts: 240 Member
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    Honestly, it's always my husband that gets flirted with, and doesn't even realize it's happening
  • gianna42
    gianna42 Posts: 5,991 Member
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    Kasner1975 wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    I always think of flirting as subtle. blatant, what's your moth for kind of comments are not flirting. Maybe I'm old school but it should be more like banter between people that leaves you thinking and then wanting more. but I'm an old married lady so who knows really

    Exactly. And therein lies the difference between hot and sexy. Hot almost always involves physical or obvious. Sexy often involves the mind. Hot fades. Sexy can be forever.


    You said it perfectly....

    ^^ This



  • nitroalley
    nitroalley Posts: 3,599 Member
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    Friendly banter is fine.
  • Scamd83
    Scamd83 Posts: 808 Member
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    "Hey, I like your...erm...oh *kitten*, I should have thought this out a bit more...oh...I like your face. I'm not weird, honest...where are you going? I said I'm NOT weird."

    That's how my flirting usually goes, I think if you asked the recipients of my efforts, they'd probably not say they enjoyed it.
  • sparrish531
    sparrish531 Posts: 499 Member
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    enjoys very much...with some limits
  • 505h17
    505h17 Posts: 41 Member
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    Need some advice. I'm able to chat to women, break the ice, make them feel at ease - but then it always seems to nosedive when I show them my big hunting knife with the lovely serrated edge. Am I missing something?

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