Do u like getting flirted with?

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  • xFunctionalStrengthx
    xFunctionalStrengthx Posts: 4,928 Member
    Alzzi76 wrote: »
    Being an older white male in todays world, flirting makes me a lil nervous. I don’t try to do it, although anything can be construed as flirting depending on the person.

    Luckily, time has ensured there isn’t much flirting going on with me any more.

    And I will fall back on the ‘dense’ defense. I don’t typically believe anyone is looking at me in that manner.

    Flirting used to be harmless when done tastefully. Now, for guys my age, it can earn me a hashtag, no matter how innocent the interaction. I’ve seen coworkers who did nothing wrong be admonished for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. (Exercise class letting out).

    Maybe this is the exception, not the rule.

    It’s safer to keep my eyes down, and my thoughts to myself. Hey look, there’s something on my shoe... :)


    I like guys like u. :)
    Harmless, humble ol guys often are kind hearted helpful and awesome to have around. Ready to give a helpful encouraging word in your ear.

    For me, this is typically being freind zoned with "Aww, you're so sweet and too nice!" :lol:
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Depending on who it is, I love it.

    Hi ?
  • Alzzi76
    Alzzi76 Posts: 504 Member
    Actually, I don't think what I do is flirting, some people might say it is but who cares. It doesn't hurt, to make a little bit of sunshine. I like just being super friendly. If Ive got know them better then I like teasing, it fun.

    I see all people as respected persons. I think, if u put on a facade, u pic up someone with one too. Everyone out too impress, doing rediculas things, then niether can sustain it and there's a fall out. Far to much sadness out there..

    Everyone deserves kind words.. everyone has feelings.. everyone deserves respect, love and care.

    So with all that u can have fun
  • Alzzi76
    Alzzi76 Posts: 504 Member
    The english in this title breaks my brain.

    How can I help Sir!.. call 911? ... Pain killers??
  • Versicolour
    Versicolour Posts: 7,164 Member
    I like being flirted with, but there's a line. The line moves depending on how well I know you, so the better I know a person, the more they can flirt without me gagging. Bodily secretions of any kind is over that line



    Just so you know. In case that was not common sense
  • TomFit18
    TomFit18 Posts: 2,585 Member
    Yes! Who doesn't want to be flirted with?
  • Alzzi76
    Alzzi76 Posts: 504 Member
    tjungers10 wrote: »
    Yes! Who doesn't want to be flirted with?

    :) Hello,..
  • andreascjonsson
    andreascjonsson Posts: 433 Member
    People Always Think im flirting with them when im just being me. Tried flirting once or twice sucked at it so now im just being exactly the same with everyone. This coupled with the fact that im bad at picking up when people are flirting with me have coused some funny and awkward situations :P. But ye i like being flirted with, since it doesnt happen to often(that i know of) it makes me feel better about myself.
  • Alzzi76
    Alzzi76 Posts: 504 Member
    Duh

    I luv ya happy face.. it make me want to laugh its awesome!! Im sure I'm not the only one that thinks that..lol :D:D
  • Alzzi76
    Alzzi76 Posts: 504 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Depending on who it is, I love it.

    Hi ?

    Hi!! B)
  • Alzzi76
    Alzzi76 Posts: 504 Member
    Le_Potato wrote: »
    It's uncomfortable

    :)
  • MrSith
    MrSith Posts: 1,636 Member
    no not really

  • MJFSH
    MJFSH Posts: 7,252 Member
    So how you doin? LOL
  • baileykemper7
    baileykemper7 Posts: 22 Member
    There's a fine line but a little flirtation is nice!
  • gadudeg
    gadudeg Posts: 13 Member
    I’m suspicious of people being really nice to me. The whole time I am trying to figure out what the scam is. After a couple days of thinking about it I realize that they were being nice or flirting. Though it doesn’t happen to often I don’t think ? Maybe? My brain hurts
  • jamessherlock7825
    jamessherlock7825 Posts: 358 Member
    Why not :D
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    Why not :D

    "No sht Sherlock!" woulda been hilarious. :smiley:
  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    I like being flirted with online! ;) In real life, i'm terrible at it! When guys flirt with me, it makes me uncomfortable.
  • glitterandsparkle8
    glitterandsparkle8 Posts: 34 Member
    Oh definitely it’s a nice confidence boast
  • jamessherlock7825
    jamessherlock7825 Posts: 358 Member
    Same as above lol
  • Ready2befithealthy
    Ready2befithealthy Posts: 303 Member
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    I like being flirted with online! ;) In real life, i'm terrible at it! When guys flirt with me, it makes me uncomfortable.

    Lol! Yes, I’m a lot more brave online.

  • Cutemesoon
    Cutemesoon Posts: 2,646 Member
    Cutemesoon wrote: »
    I like being flirted with online! ;) In real life, i'm terrible at it! When guys flirt with me, it makes me uncomfortable.

    Lol! Yes, I’m a lot more brave online.

    Aren't we all? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
  • YouBlowMyMind
    YouBlowMyMind Posts: 552 Member
    Love feeling special
  • Healthyhunny231567
    Healthyhunny231567 Posts: 2,036 Member
    I like to feel wanted...but it can also get weird and creepy lol
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  • YouBlowMyMind
    YouBlowMyMind Posts: 552 Member
    All the creeps can *kitten* off.... There's weird dating sites for that *kitten*
  • 81Katz
    81Katz Posts: 7,074 Member
    SurfyPants wrote: »
    I do. It doesn't happen enough.

    Same. This guy at the store was asking me to sleep with him. Of course all he actually asked was if I knew how to tell when a cantaloupe is ripe.
    Awkward ... :grimace::wink:
  • MJFSH
    MJFSH Posts: 7,252 Member
    Maybe only when ikinda like the flirter and still they got to.keep it short and sweet. Hate it when they feel.braver to go.on with a smile, node or thank you. At that point, i get ready to punch.
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  • jaycanchu
    jaycanchu Posts: 265 Member
    Of course