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  • shrinkingletters
    shrinkingletters Posts: 1,008 Member
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    Um, yeah. It actually is a feeling. I know when I'm vibing with someone and when I'm not.
  • shrinkingletters
    shrinkingletters Posts: 1,008 Member
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    undergloom wrote: »
    It's a survival instinct that women have had no choice but to master. She's trying to decline your advances while minimizing her risk of being murdered, a constant concern for the fairer sex throughout the course of human history. This is accomplished by cleverly instilling feelings of confusion and doubt in the unwanted suitor.

    Also this, particularly if she believes she's made her disinterest clear in other ways and suspects you may not be picking up on the hints.
  • ritatinglelewis
    ritatinglelewis Posts: 432 Member
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    Sweetie, God makes no mistakes. Sounds like she was a waste of your precious time and you deserve much, much better. Go out and find YOUR BOO! ;)
  • _incogNEATo_
    _incogNEATo_ Posts: 4,537 Member
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    MsJulesRenee wrote: »
    takes a woman 7 seconds after a seeing a man to know if she is attracted or not. You missed during those 7 seconds, not your fault.

    It only takes me 7 seconds to know if I'm attracted or not as well. If I am, I do what's called the "up-tuck"
  • MommysLittleMeatball
    MommysLittleMeatball Posts: 2,064 Member
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    asflatasapancake wrote: »
    I've always personally took it as meaning, 'You smell, you need to get a tan, and may god have mercy on your soul'. I've been told I'm a bit of a pessimist though.

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  • WarDamnJay
    WarDamnJay Posts: 1,916 Member
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    Jackie0Marie wrote: »
    asflatasapancake wrote: »
    I've always personally took it as meaning, 'You smell, you need to get a tan, and may god have mercy on your soul'. I've been told I'm a bit of a pessimist though.

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  • MommysLittleMeatball
    MommysLittleMeatball Posts: 2,064 Member
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    WarDamnJay wrote: »
    Jackie0Marie wrote: »
    asflatasapancake wrote: »
    I've always personally took it as meaning, 'You smell, you need to get a tan, and may god have mercy on your soul'. I've been told I'm a bit of a pessimist though.

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  • blueyellowhorse
    blueyellowhorse Posts: 708 Member
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    She's just not that into you bro. :(
  • shrinkingletters
    shrinkingletters Posts: 1,008 Member
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    blueyellowhorse wrote: »
    She's just not that into you bro. :(

    Yeah, honestly. It's as simple as that, and when you accept that no one owes you an explanation for why they're not into you, it gets easier to move past it.

    I've been shot down and rejected, I definitely don't jump straight into whining about "why do men say..." when it was just individual instances. Each gender isn't some kind of hive mind.
  • blueyellowhorse
    blueyellowhorse Posts: 708 Member
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    shrinkingletters wrote: »
    blueyellowhorse wrote: »
    She's just not that into you bro. :(

    Yeah, honestly. It's as simple as that, and when you accept that no one owes you an explanation for why they're not into you, it gets easier to move past it.

    I've been shot down and rejected, I definitely don't jump straight into whining about "why do men say..." when it was just individual instances. Each gender isn't some kind of hive mind.

    Yeah and I think it's a very nice way to reject someone too. Some people can be so harsh... :#
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
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    blueyellowhorse wrote: »
    shrinkingletters wrote: »
    blueyellowhorse wrote: »
    She's just not that into you bro. :(

    Yeah, honestly. It's as simple as that, and when you accept that no one owes you an explanation for why they're not into you, it gets easier to move past it.

    I've been shot down and rejected, I definitely don't jump straight into whining about "why do men say..." when it was just individual instances. Each gender isn't some kind of hive mind.

    Yeah and I think it's a very nice way to reject someone too. Some people can be so harsh... :#

    Sometimes the nice way does not work. So what is the next option from there?

  • WarDamnJay
    WarDamnJay Posts: 1,916 Member
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    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    blueyellowhorse wrote: »
    shrinkingletters wrote: »
    blueyellowhorse wrote: »
    She's just not that into you bro. :(

    Yeah, honestly. It's as simple as that, and when you accept that no one owes you an explanation for why they're not into you, it gets easier to move past it.

    I've been shot down and rejected, I definitely don't jump straight into whining about "why do men say..." when it was just individual instances. Each gender isn't some kind of hive mind.

    Yeah and I think it's a very nice way to reject someone too. Some people can be so harsh... :#

    Sometimes the nice way does not work. So what is the next option from there?

    Restraining Order!!!
  • _incogNEATo_
    _incogNEATo_ Posts: 4,537 Member
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    I've actually never been rejected. Sorry I couldn't be more help OP.
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
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    WarDamnJay wrote: »
    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    blueyellowhorse wrote: »
    shrinkingletters wrote: »
    blueyellowhorse wrote: »
    She's just not that into you bro. :(

    Yeah, honestly. It's as simple as that, and when you accept that no one owes you an explanation for why they're not into you, it gets easier to move past it.

    I've been shot down and rejected, I definitely don't jump straight into whining about "why do men say..." when it was just individual instances. Each gender isn't some kind of hive mind.

    Yeah and I think it's a very nice way to reject someone too. Some people can be so harsh... :#

    Sometimes the nice way does not work. So what is the next option from there?

    Restraining Order!!!

    I feel that is still a nice way. Some words can cut.
  • blueyellowhorse
    blueyellowhorse Posts: 708 Member
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    yopeeps025 wrote: »
    blueyellowhorse wrote: »
    shrinkingletters wrote: »
    blueyellowhorse wrote: »
    She's just not that into you bro. :(

    Yeah, honestly. It's as simple as that, and when you accept that no one owes you an explanation for why they're not into you, it gets easier to move past it.

    I've been shot down and rejected, I definitely don't jump straight into whining about "why do men say..." when it was just individual instances. Each gender isn't some kind of hive mind.

    Yeah and I think it's a very nice way to reject someone too. Some people can be so harsh... :#

    Sometimes the nice way does not work. So what is the next option from there?

    You can ignore him, block him, tell him in a harsher way that you're not interested, or do all 3. Not my fault if he doesn't get the hint.
  • Cindy4FunFit
    Cindy4FunFit Posts: 2,732 Member
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    shrinkingletters wrote: »
    blueyellowhorse wrote: »
    She's just not that into you bro. :(

    Yeah, honestly. It's as simple as that, and when you accept that no one owes you an explanation for why they're not into you, it gets easier to move past it.

    I've been shot down and rejected, I definitely don't jump straight into whining about "why do men say..." when it was just individual instances. Each gender isn't some kind of hive mind.

    So, you have Not been attending the hive mind meetings? Shameful. LOL

    And @incogneato : I officially reject you. Officially.

  • _incogNEATo_
    _incogNEATo_ Posts: 4,537 Member
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    Cindy4FunFit wrote: »
    shrinkingletters wrote: »
    blueyellowhorse wrote: »
    She's just not that into you bro. :(

    Yeah, honestly. It's as simple as that, and when you accept that no one owes you an explanation for why they're not into you, it gets easier to move past it.

    I've been shot down and rejected, I definitely don't jump straight into whining about "why do men say..." when it was just individual instances. Each gender isn't some kind of hive mind.

    So, you have Not been attending the hive mind meetings? Shameful. LOL

    And @incogneato : I officially reject you. Officially.

    Still haven't officially been rejected because you spelled my name wrong. I'm kind of hurt though, because I thought you knew me better than that.
  • chivalryder
    chivalryder Posts: 4,391 Member
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    determined_ella wrote: »
    kwiet_storm wrote: »
    Why do women say, I feel we are not compatible without even communicating? I didn't know compatibilty was a feeling. :D

    She may be high maintenance? Or she is after a specific thing ie: money, or status? Or a certain look... Maybe she likes a man with one leg shorter than the other!... Or she's clearly saying she's not interested but in a nicer way? but honestly I've never heard anyone say that! Lol ;p

    One of my legs is shorter than the others. This often doesn't get much attention from the ladies.
  • salembambi
    salembambi Posts: 5,585 Member
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    it means she is much 'nicer' than i am

    i just say no

  • shrinkingletters
    shrinkingletters Posts: 1,008 Member
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    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    I've actually never been rejected. Sorry I couldn't be more help OP.
    Cindy4FunFit wrote: »
    shrinkingletters wrote: »
    blueyellowhorse wrote: »
    She's just not that into you bro. :(

    Yeah, honestly. It's as simple as that, and when you accept that no one owes you an explanation for why they're not into you, it gets easier to move past it.

    I've been shot down and rejected, I definitely don't jump straight into whining about "why do men say..." when it was just individual instances. Each gender isn't some kind of hive mind.

    So, you have Not been attending the hive mind meetings? Shameful. LOL

    And @incogneato : I officially reject you. Officially.

    The first rule of Hive Club is you don't talk about Hive Club.

    And the second rule...

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