How to tell if a woman is into you? Gym crush.

Pittleydink
Pittleydink Posts: 68 Member
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That is, how can a guy tell if a woman is into him? Not just any single woman, but rather a woman who is already in a relationship and has no intention of cheating, but still has some inkling of like towards this guy. I guess what I'm saying is how can a guy tell if a non-single woman has a little gym crush on him?
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  • _incogNEATo_
    _incogNEATo_ Posts: 4,537 Member
    She doesn't. She's just there to lift, bro.
  • runrun87
    runrun87 Posts: 46 Member
    Haha.. She may just be being nice! Some women can be nice and talkative without looking for more.
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    Interesting
  • nomad5326
    nomad5326 Posts: 871 Member
    edited June 2015
    If she humps your leg she may be into you. I've found that most women looking to hook up are leg humpers, esp those in relationships because it's not cheating. You'll know when that happens...until then keep lifting bro....
  • 0torque0
    0torque0 Posts: 362 Member
    does it matter? if she is in a relationship just be happy being her friend, why does a crush make a difference?
  • runrun87
    runrun87 Posts: 46 Member
    Leg humpers. Bahaha
  • rdouma73
    rdouma73 Posts: 2,064 Member
    If she looks at you more than once then she is falling in love.... B)
  • FatFreeFrolicking
    FatFreeFrolicking Posts: 4,252 Member
    If she's in a relationship… Why are you even asking this question? Who cares whether she's 'into' you or not. She has a significant other.
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    If she does, but has no intention of cheating or being with him in anyway, why does it matter?
  • ohmscheeks
    ohmscheeks Posts: 840 Member
    runrun87 wrote: »
    Leg humpers. Bahaha
    Tee hee! But, seriously dude, no. Occupy your brain with something less creepy.
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  • RNGRZulu
    RNGRZulu Posts: 3,964 Member
    runrun87 wrote: »
    Haha.. She may just be being nice! Some women can be nice and talkative without looking for more.

    Inconceivable

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  • tazmainian_dv
    tazmainian_dv Posts: 60 Member
    nomad5326 wrote: »
    If she humps your leg she may be into you. I've found that most women looking to hook up are leg humpers, esp those in relationships because it's not cheating. You'll know when that happens...until then keep lifting bro....

    LMFAO!
  • arditarose
    arditarose Posts: 15,573 Member
    What does it matter? Unless she's in an open relationship what's the point in knowing?
  • runrun87
    runrun87 Posts: 46 Member
    Wildflower0071 wrote: »
    it's interesting how being nice and friendly is translated to something totally different in guy's eyes! c'mon bro! it's 21st century! a smile could just mean a smile and nothing more!

    Thank you!
  • MamaBirdBoss
    MamaBirdBoss Posts: 1,516 Member
    _incogNEATo_ wrote: »
    She doesn't. She's just there to lift, bro.

    Yep. Seriously, don't piss her off.
  • marthaelisa80
    marthaelisa80 Posts: 1,572 Member
    If she's in a relationship move on. If she isn't don't think about it ask her out. If she says no you know your answer. That simple.
  • RNGRZulu
    RNGRZulu Posts: 3,964 Member
    Ask if she wants you to spot her on the adductor machine.
  • Alluminati
    Alluminati Posts: 6,208 Member
    You need to stop catchin' feelings with women who are already involved. It makes Mrs. Hand feel insecure.
  • Pittleydink
    Pittleydink Posts: 68 Member
    OdesAngel wrote: »
    You need to stop catchin' feelings with women who are already involved. It makes Mrs. Hand feel insecure.

    Mrs. Hand will always have a place in my pants...err heart.

  • Pittleydink
    Pittleydink Posts: 68 Member
    edited July 2015
    I don't want a relationship with her, I just want to know how she feels about me, if she has a little crush and/or really wants to be friends or if she's just being kind and friendly because she must but secretly she despises me. It's like an itch inside your shoe at the bottom of your foot that you just gotta scratch. Now besides leg humping what others signs might a woman give to a guy in this scenario. This is all hypothetical of course.
  • Pittleydink
    Pittleydink Posts: 68 Member
    laprimaJenny wrote: »
    Seriously just ask her out for a coffee and simply by her reaction you should know. If not then and she says yes to the coffee, then you should be able to tell by the conversation and her body language if she's into you. If you can't tell by then..... dude I don't know what to say to help you, because at that point there is no hope.

    I'm not asking a married woman out to coffee, hypothetically.

  • cdlee10
    cdlee10 Posts: 451 Member
    as a guy, if a woman asks me for the time i think she wants to get it on. but, the reality is...she really just wants to know what time it is
  • cdlee10
    cdlee10 Posts: 451 Member
    haha - my point exactly! i'm sayin she's probably just there to workout
  • 3AAnn3
    3AAnn3 Posts: 3,054 Member
    Along the same token, if a guy at the gym walks in and first thing comes up to the machine you're using and asks if he can work in with you, then proceeds to glance over in your direction for the next hour, is he into you?
  • _incogNEATo_
    _incogNEATo_ Posts: 4,537 Member
    Have you tried whipping it out in front of her? Seriously, if it's big enough, you might be able to bag her. Women can't resist when a man whips out a thick, full wallet.
  • Pittleydink
    Pittleydink Posts: 68 Member
    laprimaJenny wrote: »
    MrPicklesworth wrote: »
    laprimaJenny wrote: »
    Seriously just ask her out for a coffee and simply by her reaction you should know. If not then and she says yes to the coffee, then you should be able to tell by the conversation and her body language if she's into you. If you can't tell by then..... dude I don't know what to say to help you, because at that point there is no hope.

    I'm not asking a married woman out to coffee, hypothetically.

    Ok well I dod comment after this comment but in this "hypothetical" situation I say it should be left alone. If she is in a relationship then be a man and respect that. ;)

    I do respect her, I don't even fantasize about anything inappropriate with her. But I want to know what signs she might give if she secretly has a little crush on me and even if she doesn't have a crush how can I know if her friendliness is something she feels obligated to do or if she really does want to be friends with me?
  • Pittleydink
    Pittleydink Posts: 68 Member
    3AAnn3 wrote: »
    Along the same token, if a guy at the gym walks in and first thing comes up to the machine you're using and asks if he can work in with you, then proceeds to glance over in your direction for the next hour, is he into you?

    If you are a reasonably attractive female and in the weight room then yes he is into you.

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