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How to tell if a woman is into you? Gym crush.
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She smiles...she def wants the D!0
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williamwj2014 wrote: »She smiles...she def wants the D!
absolutely not true0 -
_incogNEATo_ wrote: »Have you tried whipping it out in front of her? Seriously, if it's big enough, you might be able to bag her. Women can't resist when a man whips out a thick, full wallet.
that is true.0 -
_incogNEATo_ wrote: »Have you tried whipping it out in front of her? Seriously, if it's big enough, you might be able to bag her. Women can't resist when a man whips out a thick, full wallet.
Eh, her husband is already pretty wealthy, they live in one of the nicest subdivisions in our community.
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*kitten* don't want subdivision money. They want 20+ acres!0
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She could be in a terrible marriage. You never know. If she looks at you often and goes out of her way to talk to you, she might be into you.0
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laprimaJenny wrote: »MrPicklesworth wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »MrPicklesworth wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »Seriously just ask her out for a coffee and simply by her reaction you should know. If not then and she says yes to the coffee, then you should be able to tell by the conversation and her body language if she's into you. If you can't tell by then..... dude I don't know what to say to help you, because at that point there is no hope.
I'm not asking a married woman out to coffee, hypothetically.
Ok well I dod comment after this comment but in this "hypothetical" situation I say it should be left alone. If she is in a relationship then be a man and respect that.
I do respect her, I don't even fantasize about anything inappropriate with her. But I want to know what signs she might give if she secretly has a little crush on me and even if she doesn't have a crush how can I know if her friendliness is something she feels obligated to do or if she really does want to be friends with me?
But in my opinion if she is in a relationship your head shouldn't even be there. Just focus on the friendship and if she is interested some how, some day it will come out.... Trust me it always does. Your talking to a girl that grew up as a Tom boy and once I grew a pair the dynamics of all my friendships changed and I have experienced it all. So long story short when the opportunity strikes you can make your move but until then don't say or do anything because you will scare her away or even worse force her to mention something to her significant other and he might prohibit her to see you again.
I feel like this comment should have been made in 1953.0 -
_incogNEATo_ wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »MrPicklesworth wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »MrPicklesworth wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »Seriously just ask her out for a coffee and simply by her reaction you should know. If not then and she says yes to the coffee, then you should be able to tell by the conversation and her body language if she's into you. If you can't tell by then..... dude I don't know what to say to help you, because at that point there is no hope.
I'm not asking a married woman out to coffee, hypothetically.
Ok well I dod comment after this comment but in this "hypothetical" situation I say it should be left alone. If she is in a relationship then be a man and respect that.
I do respect her, I don't even fantasize about anything inappropriate with her. But I want to know what signs she might give if she secretly has a little crush on me and even if she doesn't have a crush how can I know if her friendliness is something she feels obligated to do or if she really does want to be friends with me?
But in my opinion if she is in a relationship your head shouldn't even be there. Just focus on the friendship and if she is interested some how, some day it will come out.... Trust me it always does. Your talking to a girl that grew up as a Tom boy and once I grew a pair the dynamics of all my friendships changed and I have experienced it all. So long story short when the opportunity strikes you can make your move but until then don't say or do anything because you will scare her away or even worse force her to mention something to her significant other and he might prohibit her to see you again.
I feel like this comment should have been made in 1953.
unfortunately there are still dudes like that.
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_incogNEATo_ wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »MrPicklesworth wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »MrPicklesworth wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »Seriously just ask her out for a coffee and simply by her reaction you should know. If not then and she says yes to the coffee, then you should be able to tell by the conversation and her body language if she's into you. If you can't tell by then..... dude I don't know what to say to help you, because at that point there is no hope.
I'm not asking a married woman out to coffee, hypothetically.
Ok well I dod comment after this comment but in this "hypothetical" situation I say it should be left alone. If she is in a relationship then be a man and respect that.
I do respect her, I don't even fantasize about anything inappropriate with her. But I want to know what signs she might give if she secretly has a little crush on me and even if she doesn't have a crush how can I know if her friendliness is something she feels obligated to do or if she really does want to be friends with me?
But in my opinion if she is in a relationship your head shouldn't even be there. Just focus on the friendship and if she is interested some how, some day it will come out.... Trust me it always does. Your talking to a girl that grew up as a Tom boy and once I grew a pair the dynamics of all my friendships changed and I have experienced it all. So long story short when the opportunity strikes you can make your move but until then don't say or do anything because you will scare her away or even worse force her to mention something to her significant other and he might prohibit her to see you again.
I feel like this comment should have been made in 1953.
The community I live in, it might as well be 1953.
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laprimaJenny wrote: »
But in my opinion if she is in a relationship your head shouldn't even be there. Just focus on the friendship and if she is interested some how, some day it will come out.... Trust me it always does. Your talking to a girl that grew up as a Tom boy and once I grew a pair the dynamics of all my friendships changed and I have experienced it all. So long story short when the opportunity strikes you can make your move but until then don't say or do anything because you will scare her away or even worse force her to mention something to her significant other and he might prohibit her to see you again.She could be in a terrible marriage. You never know. If she looks at you often and goes out of her way to talk to you, she might be into you.
I don't think she's in a terrible marriage at all, but even if she were I don't want to get involved in any of that. So you are right, I am just focusing on the friendship. Really we are more just acquaintances in my mind but I want to know how to tell if her acts of friendship are genuine or if she just feels obligated to be friendly to me. What signs do women give?
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MrPicklesworth wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »
But in my opinion if she is in a relationship your head shouldn't even be there. Just focus on the friendship and if she is interested some how, some day it will come out.... Trust me it always does. Your talking to a girl that grew up as a Tom boy and once I grew a pair the dynamics of all my friendships changed and I have experienced it all. So long story short when the opportunity strikes you can make your move but until then don't say or do anything because you will scare her away or even worse force her to mention something to her significant other and he might prohibit her to see you again.She could be in a terrible marriage. You never know. If she looks at you often and goes out of her way to talk to you, she might be into you.
I don't think she's in a terrible marriage at all, but even if she were I don't want to get involved in any of that. So you are right, I am just focusing on the friendship. Really we are more just acquaintances in my mind but I want to know how to tell if her acts of friendship are genuine or if she just feels obligated to be friendly to me. What signs do women give?
You are overthinking this wayyyyyyyy too much… Let it go0 -
If she takes over the weight room
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laprimaJenny wrote: »Along the same token, if a guy at the gym walks in and first thing comes up to the machine you're using and asks if he can work in with you, then proceeds to glance over in your direction for the next hour, is he into you?
Men will be men. I have seen man stare at me like a piece of meat whole doing pull-ups once like wth!!! I am not a steak and you are not the lion in Madagascar!
You're right, that guy should not be looking at you like a steak, you are definitely a Tender loin! Some people just do not know their cuts of meat
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