This lifestyle isn't for the thin-skinned.

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  • ElizabethLovesFood
    ElizabethLovesFood Posts: 54 Member
    guess my skin needs to get thicker cause i wouldve said something ugly back to her, back handed her, or did everything i could to make at least that day a living hell for her. Just me...ive actually dealt with a coworker with that personality..i made everyday i could as hard as possible for her and felt so accomplished when she would get red faced or even cry..people like that bring out the mean in me!
  • tomii13
    tomii13 Posts: 105 Member
    The boob job neighbor's husband is making her wait until she is 45 to get botox. The neighbor assumes that I haven't gotten a boob job YET due to money issues or that I am trying to fix other things first so I can decide how big I want them.

    Ugh! That's frustrating. They can do whatever they please with their bodies but I don't like how some people assume it's more for financial reasons than anything else. Stand your ground. lol I'm with ya! btw lol @ "the boob job neighor's husband" gotta love nicknames.
  • tomii13
    tomii13 Posts: 105 Member
    Her offering her surgeon's card might be even more selfish than a backhanded compliment. She might get a discount on her next surgery for bring him/her the business!

    lol good point.
    guess my skin needs to get thicker cause i wouldve said something ugly back to her, back handed her, or did everything i could to make at least that day a living hell for her. Just me...ive actually dealt with a coworker with that personality..i made everyday i could as hard as possible for her and felt so accomplished when she would get red faced or even cry..people like that bring out the mean in me!

    yikes! I'm sorry to hear. But it's not for it my dear. I'm just 26 and pretty clueless at life, but I learned to not sweat the small stuff. I don't let those who don't matter affect me. Now, if they do matter to me - that's a diff story.
  • potluck965
    potluck965 Posts: 529 Member
    Surgery of any kind, even very minor, can be life threatening. Anesthesia is always a risk as is infection, which is becoming more and more common.

    If your "pal" wants to risk her life to look better, that's fine for her, but you have chosen to work at it and improve your chances for a longer, healthier life.

    Just laugh her off, she's not worth the effort of even worrying about.

    Congrats on your hard work and success. Doing it the correct way is always more rewarding in the long run.