metabolism booster to Jumpstart weight loss

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  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    Can we be more encouraging on this thread? I didn't read all the comments because I got annoyed at how many of you responded to earynnm. I didn't see anyone address the fact that she is on Depo which is notorious for making people gain weight. Additionally, I saw people telling her that she wasn't being truthful about what she is eating. That could've been said differently to not come off so judgmental.

    I say this because I care. I'm trying to lose weight, too and I want this blog to be a source of encouragement. Not discouragement.

    You might want to read the whole thread.
  • Neversettle78
    Neversettle78 Posts: 206 Member
    edited July 2015
    Can we be more encouraging on this thread? I didn't read all the comments because I got annoyed at how many of you responded to earynnm. I didn't see anyone address the fact that she is on Depo which is notorious for making people gain weight. Additionally, I saw people telling her that she wasn't being truthful about what she is eating. That could've been said differently to not come off so judgmental.

    I say this because I care. I'm trying to lose weight, too and I want this blog to be a source of encouragement. Not discouragement.

    I am not here to encourage or discourage, just simply stating my opinion since the OP asked a public forum that all MFP users can reply to.
    My opinion is that she is intentionally or unintentionally inaccurate with her calorie in/calorie out calculations...an opinion which is further solidified by the fact that she prefers not to share her diary.
    I am not being positive OR negative...just stating my opinion. We are all grown ups here aren't we? Do I need to sugar-coat EVERYTHING that I say?

    (Edited just to change "and" to "an")
  • snickerscharlie
    snickerscharlie Posts: 8,578 Member
    edited July 2015
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    I would also highly recommend the sexypants sticky.

    It must be Friday. This made me howl!

    Carry on...
  • brianpperkins
    brianpperkins Posts: 6,124 Member
    Can we be more encouraging on this thread? I didn't read all the comments because I got annoyed at how many of you responded to earynnm. I didn't see anyone address the fact that she is on Depo which is notorious for making people gain weight. Additionally, I saw people telling her that she wasn't being truthful about what she is eating. That could've been said differently to not come off so judgmental.

    I say this because I care. I'm trying to lose weight, too and I want this blog to be a source of encouragement. Not discouragement.

    There was no judgement ... just statement of simple fact. If she were at a deficit, she would lose weight. The most common errors are inaccurate logging of intake and exercise.

    Lying to somebody is not encouraging them.


  • Capt_Apollo
    Capt_Apollo Posts: 9,026 Member
    no guys, she's right... that's why i try and eat different things nearly every day...

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  • psuLemon
    psuLemon Posts: 38,427 MFP Moderator
    edited July 2015
    Can we be more encouraging on this thread? I didn't read all the comments because I got annoyed at how many of you responded to earynnm. I didn't see anyone address the fact that she is on Depo which is notorious for making people gain weight. Additionally, I saw people telling her that she wasn't being truthful about what she is eating. That could've been said differently to not come off so judgmental.

    I say this because I care. I'm trying to lose weight, too and I want this blog to be a source of encouragement. Not discouragement.

    And I will say this because I care (trust me, I have dedicated a lot of my free time into modding this forum), encouragement isn't telling something they want to hear, it's telling them the truth.

    And please keep in mind, it's OK to be wrong. We all have been there before. In fact, there are members of this thread who have corrected me. And that is OK because I am not smarter than I was when I started.
  • SLLRunner
    SLLRunner Posts: 12,942 Member
    psulemon wrote: »
    Can we be more encouraging on this thread? I didn't read all the comments because I got annoyed at how many of you responded to earynnm. I didn't see anyone address the fact that she is on Depo which is notorious for making people gain weight. Additionally, I saw people telling her that she wasn't being truthful about what she is eating. That could've been said differently to not come off so judgmental.

    I say this because I care. I'm trying to lose weight, too and I want this blog to be a source of encouragement. Not discouragement.

    And I will say this because I care (trust me, I have dedicated a lot of my free time into modding this forum), encouragement isn't telling something they want to hear, it's telling them the truth.

    And please keep in mind, it's OK to be wrong. We all have been there before. In fact, there are members of this thread who have corrected me. And that is OK because I am not smarter than I was when I started.
    Rocky_1975 wrote: »
    Can we be more encouraging on this thread? I didn't read all the comments because I got annoyed at how many of you responded to earynnm. I didn't see anyone address the fact that she is on Depo which is notorious for making people gain weight. Additionally, I saw people telling her that she wasn't being truthful about what she is eating. That could've been said differently to not come off so judgmental.

    I say this because I care. I'm trying to lose weight, too and I want this blog to be a source of encouragement. Not discouragement.

    Encouragement is telling someone the truth, misleading someone is telling them what they want to hear.

    Yep, these two things. It's also not good to project one's own stuff into replies, either. :)
  • PAV8888
    PAV8888 Posts: 14,238 Member
    edited July 2015
    rabbitjb wrote: »
    Best to read everything in a muppet voice of your choosing
    OMG, how do I fix this!?
    All your posts sound like you have a CBC instead of a BBC accent!
    <going for a Friday afternoon rush hour drive now!>
  • daniwilford
    daniwilford Posts: 1,030 Member
    Something I have learned in these forums: Log as accurately as possible. If I have a problem and ask for help I will not feel self conscious about opening my diary.
  • PAV8888
    PAV8888 Posts: 14,238 Member
    OP: eat your food instead of drinking it: you will feel more full with less calories. Condiments and sides and the cooking process often add up to more calories than the actual "main course". Individually weigh every ingredient you consume if you are really not seeing any progress. Use www.weighgrapher.com (or another weight trendline generating app) to record your weight and cut through normal water weight fluctuations. Evaluate your progress over a period of weeks; not days. Weight loss can be achieved with a reasonable caloric deficit which does not necessarily require you to engage in interminable hours of exercise.
  • daniwilford
    daniwilford Posts: 1,030 Member
    ndj1979 wrote: »
    I would also highly recommend the sexypants sticky.

    It must be Friday. This made me howl!

    Carry on...

    snort