Someone thought I was hot... I'm offended!!

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  • lithezebra
    lithezebra Posts: 3,670 Member
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    I think it depends on the tone of the message. A compliment is lovely. Most women don't want to know that people they are not involved with are touching themselves.
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
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    I guess it depends. Women want to be admired, not hit on by creepy guys. So "Hey, amazing progress. You look really hot" is probably ok. while "Hey sexy, I like that tattoo on your *kitten*" is maybe less okay.

    This. Only it gets worst than that. I got PM'd by a guy who told me he wanted to tie me up and get violent. I was offended at first, but then I was just scared.

    *shudder*

    So is that a no or are you just playing hard to get... :tongue:

    :devil:


    Hehehe.:noway: Would rather not end up in the next episode of SVU.
  • TLWallperson
    TLWallperson Posts: 125
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    I've always been attracted to him. Maybe it is because I like gnomes?

    I think he's attractive too. :tongue:
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
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    It's not attention that's the problem.

    It is too much attention of the wrong kind.

    Being very attractive is a complete pain in the *kitten*...apparently.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    It's not attention that's the problem.

    It is too much attention of the wrong kind.

    Being very attractive is a complete pain in the *kitten*...apparently.

    It must be such a burden for you...
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
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    Being very attractive is a complete pain in the *kitten*...apparently.


    I'll have to take your word for it.:grumble:
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
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    It's not attention that's the problem.

    It is too much attention of the wrong kind.

    Being very attractive is a complete pain in the *kitten*...apparently.

    It must be such a burden for you...

    Are you saying I look like a donkey? A common beast of burden?

    How very dare you!
  • CharliesInCharge
    CharliesInCharge Posts: 278 Member
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    yeah id be floored if someone thought I was hot

    its likely that its not offended , they just don't know how to deal with it , as they still see the fat guy or girl they used to be
  • ForumSamurai
    ForumSamurai Posts: 73
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    Few things:
    1. This sounds like the beginnings of the rapist's argument.
    Actually, it was spawned from another string in which a woman was berating "married and taken people" who flirt online. She was apparently morally outraged at married/taken men that found her attractive.

    Oddly related, did you know that a well-placed space turns "therapist" into "the rapist?"
    2. I want to marry Peter Dinklage.
    I can't say I feel the same, though he is an incredible actor.
    3. I am not offended by compliments, but it better stop there. I start getting creeped out when you want an affair. Unless you're Peter Dinklage.
    Would that technically be just a little affair?
  • ladyark
    ladyark Posts: 1,101 Member
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    I think if they go thru all that then they want to be noticed for their accomplishments whether its weight loss or muscle building etc. There is a line between a nice compliment and downright pervy stuff that you get . I know it makes me feel good when someone notices all the effort and hard work i put in to changing myself for the better.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
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    Just because of the clothes I wear (or don't) in my profile picture doesn't mean I deserved to be creeped on.
  • parys1
    parys1 Posts: 2,072 Member
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    It's not attention that's the problem.

    It is too much attention of the wrong kind.

    Being very attractive is a complete pain in the *kitten*...apparently.

    It must be such a burden for you...

    Are you saying I look like a donkey? A common beast of burden?

    How very dare you!

    I, for one, find donkeys rather uncommon.
  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
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    Just because of the clothes I wear (or don't) in my profile picture doesn't mean I deserved to be creeped on.

    How you doin'?
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    Just because of the clothes I wear (or don't) in my profile picture doesn't mean I deserved to be creeped on.

    I suddenly find myself questioning the entire foundation of our friendship.
  • loopylin32
    loopylin32 Posts: 63
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    if any girl tells me im hot a promise i will not be offended.....in fact id probably get up kick my office chair across the room rip my shirt off and start dancing
    will u video it so we can all see?
  • Danny_Boy13
    Danny_Boy13 Posts: 2,094 Member
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    This topic reminds me of the girls who wear small tops that show a lot of there boobs or the really short shorts that their butt is hanging out some and still get offended when people look. I mean really.... If you are dressing down of course people are going to look so dont get bent out of shape if you catch some lookers.
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
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    Just because of the clothes I wear (or don't) in my profile picture doesn't mean I deserved to be creeped on.

    I suddenly find myself questioning the entire foundation of our friendship.

    Do not fear there is still a solid foundation of bacon underneath.
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member
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    It's not attention that's the problem.

    It is too much attention of the wrong kind.

    Being very attractive is a complete pain in the *kitten*...apparently.

    It must be such a burden for you...

    Are you saying I look like a donkey? A common beast of burden?

    How very dare you!


    I, for one, find donkeys rather uncommon.

    Can we leave your fetish out of this please and thank you.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,229 Member
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    It's not attention that's the problem.

    It is too much attention of the wrong kind.

    Being very attractive is a complete pain in the *kitten*...apparently.

    It must be such a burden for you...

    Are you saying I look like a donkey? A common beast of burden?

    How very dare you!


    I, for one, find donkeys rather uncommon.

    Can we leave your fetish out of this please and thank you.

    This is why I love you! :wink:
  • verptwerp
    verptwerp Posts: 3,659 Member
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    if any girl tells me im hot a promise i will not be offended.....in fact id probably get up kick my office chair across the room rip my shirt off and start dancing


    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

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