Unfair Rant Time

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  • Mr_Knight
    Mr_Knight Posts: 9,532 Member
    Kalikel wrote: »
    Mr_Knight wrote: »
    galaxyem wrote: »
    OKAY WHO ELSE THINKS IT'S UNFAIR THAT GUYS LOSE WEIGHT SO MUCH FASTER AND EASIER THAN WOMEN!?!?

    The hell they do....


    Your average man loses faster than your average woman.

    No, they don't.
  • lauraesh0384
    lauraesh0384 Posts: 463 Member
    kgeyser wrote: »
    I think it's unfair that my fat deposits on my lower half, and in order to lose that fat I end up looking skeletal and ill on the top half. Stupid genetics. *shakes fist*

    That's how I am, too. It really sucks. If someone sees a picture of just my upper half, they tell me that I don't need to lose any weight and that I'm skinny. My collar bones are very prominent, but my legs still jiggle. Grr lol. All the women in my family are definitely bottom heavy.

  • tincanonastring
    tincanonastring Posts: 3,944 Member
    Don't be mad!

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  • Annie_01
    Annie_01 Posts: 3,096 Member
    kgeyser wrote: »
    I think it's unfair that my fat deposits on my lower half, and in order to lose that fat I end up looking skeletal and ill on the top half. Stupid genetics. *shakes fist*

    You mean there is two of us? I thought it was just me!

    That's unfair...now I am not a special snowflake. ;)

  • jennifer_417
    jennifer_417 Posts: 12,344 Member
    OP, if you start thinking about all the things that you think are unfair about this process, you're already well in your way to derailing yourself. Focus on your own journey, don't worry about anyone else's.
  • Annie_01
    Annie_01 Posts: 3,096 Member
    Look at it this way OP...they lose their hair faster than most of us women.

    Life is a tradeoff.

  • MondayJune22nd2015
    MondayJune22nd2015 Posts: 876 Member
    OP, if you start thinking about all the things that you think are unfair about this process, you're already well in your way to derailing yourself. Focus on your own journey, don't worry about anyone else's.

    The voice of reason!
  • ndj1979
    ndj1979 Posts: 29,136 Member
    if you have a man and a woman and they are both on a 500 calorie deficit they should both lose approximately the same amount of weight….so not really sure where you are going with this OP….

    woman do naturally cary more body fat, but that has nothing to do with rate of loss.
  • crazyjerseygirl
    crazyjerseygirl Posts: 1,252 Member
    Eh. I stopped caring about the fairness of genetically assigned attributes when I started caring about reality.

    Ya know what's not fair? That no more than 30mi away there's some poor kid going to bed without dinner while I sit here trying not to eat all of mine, and *thats* a problem I can actually do something about.
  • kyrannosaurus
    kyrannosaurus Posts: 350 Member
    kateyb94 wrote: »
    I think it's unfair that I have to work around free food all day and expect myself to always be able to say "no" to those donuts.

    I think it's unfair that I don't get free donuts.
  • DanniB423
    DanniB423 Posts: 777 Member
    If these little things are the extent of "unfair" in your life you are doing darn good.
  • PaulaWallaDingDong
    PaulaWallaDingDong Posts: 4,647 Member
    The universe has wronged me by giving me the screamers after just one cup of coffee. The rest of the world seems to be good on half a pot or more. I demand satisfaction!
  • DeguelloTex
    DeguelloTex Posts: 6,652 Member
    The universe has wronged me by giving me the screamers after just one cup of coffee. The rest of the world seems to be good on half a pot or more. I demand satisfaction!
    You save on coffee. Win.

  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    I don't think about other people much. I'm losing at my own rate and it isn't a race.
    All people have to watch their calories if they want to lose weight.
  • Lourdesong
    Lourdesong Posts: 1,492 Member
    galaxyem wrote: »
    OKAY WHO ELSE THINKS IT'S UNFAIR THAT GUYS LOSE WEIGHT SO MUCH FASTER AND EASIER THAN WOMEN!?!?

    Im flipping over this ^

    I'm not sure they do, but it can feel that way sometimes. But then I have to remember that barring any medical conditions most women who are larger and taller than me also generally lose weight faster and seemingly easier than me, a woman. Anyone bigger than I am, male or female, generally can.
    And they will feel the pain of a 500 calorie deficit just as much as I will. And if we're both eating 1500 calories/day, that's going to hurt them more and make them feel a lot worse than it will me for the simple fact that being larger than I am they need more calories to function than I do.

    But yeah, it would indeed be awesome if I could have the same calorie requirements as a 6'4" 220lb male of the same age, and suffer no consequences to my physique for it. But it would hardly be "fair."

  • Orphia
    Orphia Posts: 7,097 Member
    Don't be mad!

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  • LotusFlwr2013
    LotusFlwr2013 Posts: 217 Member
    edited July 2015
    kgeyser wrote: »
    I think it's unfair that my fat deposits on my lower half, and in order to lose that fat I end up looking skeletal and ill on the top half. Stupid genetics. *shakes fist*

    That's how I am, too. It really sucks. If someone sees a picture of just my upper half, they tell me that I don't need to lose any weight and that I'm skinny. My collar bones are very prominent, but my legs still jiggle. Grr lol. All the women in my family are definitely bottom heavy.

    Ok sorry but pear shape is WAY better than cone shape... men see a pear shaped woman and like the wider hip look... men see a cone shaped woman (little fat on legs and butt with lots of fat on trunk, back rolls, and big arms with broad shoulders) and think linebacker .... so no shaking fist at God, instead high five lol
  • stevencloser
    stevencloser Posts: 8,911 Member
    We don't lose weight faster. We just burn more calories in general.
  • Orphia
    Orphia Posts: 7,097 Member
    We don't lose weight faster. We just burn more calories in general.

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  • LotusFlwr2013
    LotusFlwr2013 Posts: 217 Member
    We don't lose weight faster. We just burn more calories in general.

    SO if men burn more calories in general, and have a lower body fat percent naturally then women.... why is it a women the same height as a man is expected to weight less??? Is is more natural muscle mass? Because that would also explain burning more calories in general.....
  • DeguelloTex
    DeguelloTex Posts: 6,652 Member
    edited July 2015
    Because a lower body fat percentage at the same weight means more muscle mass at the same weigh which means a couple hundred more calories burned per day (more for larger people, less for smaller).
  • Xanifur
    Xanifur Posts: 44 Member
    edited July 2015
    Is it true that Planet fitness has a free pizza day? Hahah really... I've seen it everywhere.
  • Xanifur
    Xanifur Posts: 44 Member
    edited July 2015
    We don't lose weight faster. We just burn more calories in general.
    True, men have the test to build muscle and mass, which raises Base Metabolic Rate, which burns more calories than fat does. Women typically retain fat for feeding newborns. Hormones and all
  • professionalHobbyist
    professionalHobbyist Posts: 1,316 Member
    Rant and let it out

    Then we all get back to work with our own challenges.

    I work out with women quite often

    It does seem they have a very small calorie burning calorie machine if they have much less muscle mass

    As men we may be able to burn fat quicker

    But we will never be as pretty!

  • Soopatt
    Soopatt Posts: 563 Member
    It is so unfair that you can eat more of this sugar grain than I can without gaining weight, said the ant to the fly.

    Seriously.. we need to start thinking this one through because when you do, you can clearly see that there is no one at an advantage and someone else at a disadvantage when it comes to weight gain and loss.

    We all have a certain engine capacity. Your hunger is dictated by your engine capacity. Your engine capacity determines how satisfied you will be or not be by a certain portion size.

    1 year old babies can't eat a 300g lasagne and don't feel sorry for themselves because they can't. They would be full at 50g, whereas the giant weight lifter will still feel hunger after eating all of it.

    We all get the same ratio for hunger discomfort, it is just proportional!

    Think it through. Seriously.

  • NoIdea101NoIdea
    NoIdea101NoIdea Posts: 659 Member
    edited July 2015
    DanniB423 wrote: »
    If these little things are the extent of "unfair" in your life you are doing darn good.

    I don't care that you got flagged for this, and if I get flagged for quoting and agreeing, but I was trying to think of something along these lines. I 100% agree with this statement.

    *Edited for spelling
  • bennettinfinity
    bennettinfinity Posts: 865 Member
    Zedeff wrote: »
    I think it's unfair that BMI penalizes tall people.

    It doesn't. That's why height is part of the equation.

    Right... and people are two-dimensional... you don't math, do you?
  • crazyjerseygirl
    crazyjerseygirl Posts: 1,252 Member
    DanniB423 wrote: »
    If these little things are the extent of "unfair" in your life you are doing darn good.

    Ra'men


  • DanniB423
    DanniB423 Posts: 777 Member
    edited July 2015
    My comment got flagged? Well I'll be. I feel like a MFP big girl now. Tear.
  • ljmorgi
    ljmorgi Posts: 264 Member
    But we will never be as pretty!

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