Do you like gettin hit on?
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despise it
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I've been hit on, I like it cause it tells me these women are confident and they find me very attractive. Also, I like to go for what I want, so I usually approach a woman,if she knocks my socks off.0
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I do when it doesn't turn inappropriate!
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Yes0
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Laneysmom25 wrote: »I would like to get hit. But honestly no guy has ever hit on me most likely becsuse of how I look :-/
you and me both girl... my best friend gets hit on all the time, guys buy her stuff, etc. I couldn't get the time of day lol and quite honestly I really don't care about that anymore. it used to bother me because I'd be with her and it was like I was invisible but I don't sweat it anymore.0 -
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If it would happen, yea lol0
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It's been a long, long, long time ago but I enjoyed it.0
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If it's classy I appreciate it, but I'm not that social so I don't want to make small talk with people hitting on me.0
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estepicursor wrote: »I have no idea when I am being hit on. I have an easier time recognizing poison ivy.
^^ This, so much this
Too daft to recognise it on the rare occasions I think it might have happened.
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Never happened to me so I would love it if it happened, but I can totally understand why people who get hit on a lot might really dislike it in the end. I don't have the confidence to hit on girls either, I often imagine it which end up in me imagining certain rejection lol It must be a huge confidence booster though!0
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I enjoy it for the most part, it can be annoying when they're persistent after I've tried to let them down easy. I also don't like married guys hitting on me. Oh and girls, it makes me feel really awkward when girls hit on me.0
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I don't mind getting hit on by attractive women. As it is, I've had self-confidence issues for a while, and getting hit on is honestly a bit of a boost.0
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It depends on how the person is hitting on me, but for the most part yes, I do find it flattering. I'm a happily married lady, so I always shut them down. But it is flattering. And my hubby takes it as a compliment that people notice his wife. We were out one time and this guy came over and said, "You're hot!" and was clearly drunk, and then he looked at my husband and said, "Sorry, but your wife is hot." and my hubby just laughed and said, "You're right. She is." And that was that, lol. And in return, I try to be mature about it when women hit on my hubby.0
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Jonny15121983 wrote: »Never happened to me so I would love it if it happened, but I can totally understand why people who get hit on a lot might really dislike it in the end. I don't have the confidence to hit on girls either, I often imagine it which end up in me imagining certain rejection lol It must be a huge confidence booster though!
Rejection is Better than regret my friend
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Jonny15121983 wrote: »Never happened to me so I would love it if it happened, but I can totally understand why people who get hit on a lot might really dislike it in the end. I don't have the confidence to hit on girls either, I often imagine it which end up in me imagining certain rejection lol It must be a huge confidence booster though!
Rejection is Better than regret my friend
Lol that's true, but I also really don't want to make the girl feel uncomfortable along the way either :P
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In general, no. I like flirting with friends and Mr. Pineapple, but don't enjoy comments from strangers, be it positive or negative. I tend to prefer to go unnoticed.0
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Give a a lady an honest compliment, without expectation of anything else. That is how it should be, in my opinion. If a lady smiles and says thank you, you have brighten her day. If she looks at you like you are some slobbering nut job just because you paid her an honest compliment, that is her problem, in my opinion.Jonny15121983 wrote: »Jonny15121983 wrote: »Never happened to me so I would love it if it happened, but I can totally understand why people who get hit on a lot might really dislike it in the end. I don't have the confidence to hit on girls either, I often imagine it which end up in me imagining certain rejection lol It must be a huge confidence booster though!
Rejection is Better than regret my friend
Lol that's true, but I also really don't want to make the girl feel uncomfortable along the way either :P
Be yourself. Be respectful and show that you aren't afraid to given an honest compliment when due.
When I tell a married lady she is beautiful, has a lovely outfit on, or shares a lovely picture etc., that doesn't mean I am trying to make some kind of sex move or relationship move on her. And a lot of ladies assume that right off the bat and it is wrong to do so. There are also a lot of ladies who do all they can to get attention, and then bellyache when they get attention, as if they aren't playing some kind of game. Same thing goes for how a lot of guys act with ladies.
A lady can tell if you are being honest with her. She can usually tell if you are trying to use some stupid pick up line. Be yourself and show confidence. Even if a lady may not be attracted to you physically at first, she will appreciate your sincerity and confidence. And who knows, a friendship could build from that.0 -
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BasicGreatGuy wrote: »
Give a a lady an honest compliment, without expectation of anything else. That is how it should be, in my opinion. If a lady smiles and says thank you, you have brighten her day. If she looks at you like you are some slobbering nut job just because you paid her an honest compliment, that is her problem, in my opinion.Jonny15121983 wrote: »Jonny15121983 wrote: »Never happened to me so I would love it if it happened, but I can totally understand why people who get hit on a lot might really dislike it in the end. I don't have the confidence to hit on girls either, I often imagine it which end up in me imagining certain rejection lol It must be a huge confidence booster though!
Rejection is Better than regret my friend
Lol that's true, but I also really don't want to make the girl feel uncomfortable along the way either :P
Be yourself. Be respectful and show that you aren't afraid to given an honest compliment when due.
When I tell a married lady she is beautiful, has a lovely outfit on, or shares a lovely picture etc., that doesn't mean I am trying to make some kind of sex move or relationship move on her. And a lot of ladies assume that right off the bat and it is wrong to do so. There are also a lot of ladies who do all they can to get attention, and then bellyache when they get attention, as if they aren't playing some kind of game. Same thing goes for how a lot of guys act with ladies.
A lady can tell if you are being honest with her. She can usually tell if you are trying to use some stupid pick up line. Be yourself and show confidence. Even if a lady may not be attracted to you physically at first, she will appreciate your sincerity and confidence. And who knows, a friendship could build from that.
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Jonny15121983 wrote: »Jonny15121983 wrote: »Never happened to me so I would love it if it happened, but I can totally understand why people who get hit on a lot might really dislike it in the end. I don't have the confidence to hit on girls either, I often imagine it which end up in me imagining certain rejection lol It must be a huge confidence booster though!
Rejection is Better than regret my friend
Lol that's true, but I also really don't want to make the girl feel uncomfortable along the way either :P
A Man is direct and goes for what he wants.
Eye contact, if she smiles approach and be sincere about what you like about her as an authentic expression of your masculine heart.
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WickedPineapple wrote: »In general, no. I like flirting with friends and Mr. Pineapple, but don't enjoy comments from strangers, be it positive or negative. I tend to prefer to go unnoticed.
She forgot her disclaimer: Unless he is handsome, then it feels good.
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If it's done in a polite and respectful way, then yes. Acting like a horny pervert trying to get into my pants is what I do not like at all. Also if someone is 15+ years older than me, it creeps me out no matter how polite they may be.0
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I'm indifferent. Most of the time I can't tell and second when I can tell they are hitting on me, I don't believe it's genuine so I don't care. I feel the types of guys who hit on me just hit on any girl in sight so it's not flattering at all.0
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What really bothers me is when I'm walking down the street and people are honking their horns at me. I CAN'T STAND IT. And I'm not even that in shape or really that good looking either. Does not compute.0
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You're a cartoon!! They are probably freaked out0
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