Have you ever cheated

crssftlv
crssftlv Posts: 715 Member
edited November 22 in Chit-Chat
A loaded question for you... Have you ever cheated on a spouse, significant other?
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  • crssftlv
    crssftlv Posts: 715 Member
    Or you can just tell a different dark secret :open_mouth:
  • yusaku02
    yusaku02 Posts: 3,472 Member
    Nope.

    My girlfriend has though... so... that's always in the back of my mind...
  • therealklane
    therealklane Posts: 2,172 Member
    Nope. Been cheated on though..so that was lovely.
  • jeromeirving
    jeromeirving Posts: 33 Member
    Nope. Been cheated as well. Took 2 years to recover
  • yopeeps025
    yopeeps025 Posts: 8,680 Member
    I don't see the point of cheating so nope.
  • thankyou4thevenom
    thankyou4thevenom Posts: 1,581 Member
    Eating chocolate cake when they're not around because they were being a *kitten* about my weight? Yes
    With another person? No
  • LloydGK
    LloydGK Posts: 86 Member
    Yep. Just the once.
    We've now been together 10 years, married for 5 and have a spectacular little boy to show for it.
    Best thing we ever did - <3:)
  • _lyndseybrooke_
    _lyndseybrooke_ Posts: 2,561 Member
    Nope. Probably the dumbest thing anyone could do - I don't get it. If you're unhappy or want to be with someone else, man up and end things with your partner instead of being a total sleaze and cheating on them.
  • Love2Rappel
    Love2Rappel Posts: 449 Member
    Nope, see no purpose. If you have the need to drift, then why be in the current relationship?
  • crssftlv
    crssftlv Posts: 715 Member
    therealklane wrote: »
    Nope. Been cheated on though..so that was lovely.

    That is lovely isn't it? I was cheated on once about 5 years ago... he's dead now or dead to me anyway lol
  • barbecuesauce
    barbecuesauce Posts: 1,771 Member
    I didn't realize I was the other woman for several months (I was in my early 20s, he was 11 years older, he had a beach house in my town and primarily lived in another city). Then I stayed for a few more months. It took realizing he had a third girlfriend to get me to split. I was young and dumb.
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    I'm gonna go out of the limb and say yes once... Was it wrong yes... Did I regret it yes... Am I glad it happened yes... Because it ruined a already poisonous relationship I would've other wise gotten back into
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    When I was younger, yes.

    In almost 20 years of marriage I haven't been with anyone but my wife. I have my issues but having an affair hasn't been one.
  • Steam_Powered_Awesome
    Steam_Powered_Awesome Posts: 301 Member
    No I haven't but i have been accused of it. my husband keeps thinking I'm going to meet someone better at the gym.
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    Steam_Powered_Awesome wrote: »
    No I haven't but i have been accused of it. my husband keeps thinking I'm going to meet someone better at the gym.

    Yep my relationship I was in where I cheated was toxic like that. Accuse accuse accuse
  • MonkeyMel21
    MonkeyMel21 Posts: 2,396 Member
    I feel like no one is going to admit that they are currently cheating in this thread, lol. Of course there will always be the "I was young and dumb" posts, cause those are always excused!
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    edited July 2015
    MonkeyMel21 wrote: »
    I feel like no one is going to admit that they are currently cheating in this thread, lol. Of course there will always be the "I was young and dumb" posts, cause those are always excused!

    I think if you come clean not matter the situation you'll be judged for it and people will use the term "once a cheater always a cheater". Some people cheat sexually some people cheat emotionally so neither is right but we can't pretend everyone is innocent. But as they say innocent until proven guilty I guess
  • The_Invisible_Boy
    The_Invisible_Boy Posts: 568 Member
    Nope. Been cheated on and know what that feels like. Could never do that to someone else. Not to mention if you want to be with someone else then why are you with the one your with.
  • asianfashionista86
    asianfashionista86 Posts: 5,039 Member
    edited July 2015
    iDeltaBigBoy wrote: »
    Nope. Been cheated on and know what that feels like. Could never do that to someone else. Not to mention if you want to be with someone else then why are you with the one your with.

    The reason why I cheated was because he treated me lesser and always accused me of cheating often. I just became unhappy and was at one point just like f it I started talking to a guy he was nice and technically I broke up with my then boyfriend before me and the other guy started the relationship but neither relationship panned out in the end so in a way I got a fresh new start. Leaving that situation behind me which was ultimately a breath of fresh air.


  • ExileFromTheNorth
    ExileFromTheNorth Posts: 3,038 Member
    Yep - simple as.
  • lislisa123
    lislisa123 Posts: 941 Member
    edited July 2015
    Nope, never. And I never will. I'm all for loyalty and honesty and if my partner can't respect and love me enough to be loyal to me, than they don't deserve me and they know where the door is.

    And yes, unfortunately I have been cheated on. It's not a fun experience at all.
  • dawnna76
    dawnna76 Posts: 987 Member
    edited July 2015
    on my husband no, but on random boyfriends in my 20's yes. but i never considered any of them serious (didnt lead them to think it was either) and didnt live with anyone.
  • lislisa123
    lislisa123 Posts: 941 Member
    LyndseyLovesToLift wrote: »
    Nope. Probably the dumbest thing anyone could do - I don't get it. If you're unhappy or want to be with someone else, man up and end things with your partner instead of being a total sleaze and cheating on them.

    My thoughts exactly.
  • freak4iron
    freak4iron Posts: 995 Member
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  • dfranch
    dfranch Posts: 207 Member
    I used to work with a guy who years earlier cheated on his wife. He later married his mistress, and she would call almost daily looking for him, and if he wasn't there you learned not to pick up his phone. She wouldn't believe you if you said he was in a meeting, as if you were covering for him. she could get quite irate.
  • crssftlv
    crssftlv Posts: 715 Member
    dfranch wrote: »
    I used to work with a guy who years earlier cheated on his wife. He later married his mistress, and she would call almost daily looking for him, and if he wasn't there you learned not to pick up his phone. She wouldn't believe you if you said he was in a meeting, as if you were covering for him. she could get quite irate.

    hahaha I guess that's Karma
  • crssftlv
    crssftlv Posts: 715 Member
    MonkeyMel21 wrote: »
    I feel like no one is going to admit that they are currently cheating in this thread, lol. Of course there will always be the "I was young and dumb" posts, cause those are always excused!

    lol someone messaged me privately to say it. They are too scared to put it out there lol
  • MonkeyMel21
    MonkeyMel21 Posts: 2,396 Member
    crssftlv wrote: »
    MonkeyMel21 wrote: »
    I feel like no one is going to admit that they are currently cheating in this thread, lol. Of course there will always be the "I was young and dumb" posts, cause those are always excused!

    lol someone messaged me privately to say it. They are too scared to put it out there lol

    lol, that's awesome!
  • lislisa123
    lislisa123 Posts: 941 Member
    crssftlv wrote: »
    MonkeyMel21 wrote: »
    I feel like no one is going to admit that they are currently cheating in this thread, lol. Of course there will always be the "I was young and dumb" posts, cause those are always excused!

    lol someone messaged me privately to say it. They are too scared to put it out there lol

    Honestly, I feel like if your willing to cheat you should be willing to deal with the consequences of your acts. Why are people so scared to say they cheated before wether here or to the person they cheated on? I think it's only fair to be honest to the people you betrayed and why not be honest on here?

    Yes, some of us anti cheaters might not like what you did and feel there is no excuse to cheat but we don't know you personally, so if you can't be honest to some strangers how are you ever going to be honest to yourself about what you did or the people you hurt in your life?

    Just my thoughts.
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