Have you ever cheated
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Nope, I don't think I could either. I'm single and have been for years and find most girls unnatractive, its only the odd one I find good looking.0
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lislisa123 wrote: »MonkeyMel21 wrote: »I feel like no one is going to admit that they are currently cheating in this thread, lol. Of course there will always be the "I was young and dumb" posts, cause those are always excused!
lol someone messaged me privately to say it. They are too scared to put it out there lol
Honestly, I feel like if your willing to cheat you should be willing to deal with the consequences of your acts. Why are people so scared to say they cheated before wether here or to the person they cheated on? I think it's only fair to be honest to the people you betrayed and why not be honest on here?
Yes, some of us anti cheaters might not like what you did and feel there is no excuse to cheat but we don't know you personally, so if you can't be honest to some strangers how are you ever going to be honest to yourself about what you did or the people you hurt in your life?
Just my thoughts.
Ummm, I really don't think most people are going to willingly subject themselves to the hate they would receive in a thread like this. For pretty much no reason. What type of response do you think it would get if someone just says that "Yeah, I cheat, and it's super hot when I get away with it! Makes my life more fun and interesting!!".0 -
leut_underpants wrote: »MonkeyMel21 wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »MonkeyMel21 wrote: »I feel like no one is going to admit that they are currently cheating in this thread, lol. Of course there will always be the "I was young and dumb" posts, cause those are always excused!
lol someone messaged me privately to say it. They are too scared to put it out there lol
Honestly, I feel like if your willing to cheat you should be willing to deal with the consequences of your acts. Why are people so scared to say they cheated before wether here or to the person they cheated on? I think it's only fair to be honest to the people you betrayed and why not be honest on here?
Yes, some of us anti cheaters might not like what you did and feel there is no excuse to cheat but we don't know you personally, so if you can't be honest to some strangers how are you ever going to be honest to yourself about what you did or the people you hurt in your life?
Just my thoughts.
Ummm, I really don't think most people are going to willingly subject themselves to the hate they would receive in a thread like this. For pretty much no reason. What type of response do you think it would get if someone just says that "Yeah, I cheat, and it's super hot when I get away with it! Makes my life more fun and interesting!!".
You've thought this through, I see. :laugh:
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lislisa123 wrote: »MonkeyMel21 wrote: »I feel like no one is going to admit that they are currently cheating in this thread, lol. Of course there will always be the "I was young and dumb" posts, cause those are always excused!
lol someone messaged me privately to say it. They are too scared to put it out there lol
Honestly, I feel like if your willing to cheat you should be willing to deal with the consequences of your acts. Why are people so scared to say they cheated before wether here or to the person they cheated on? I think it's only fair to be honest to the people you betrayed and why not be honest on here?
Yes, some of us anti cheaters might not like what you did and feel there is no excuse to cheat but we don't know you personally, so if you can't be honest to some strangers how are you ever going to be honest to yourself about what you did or the people you hurt in your life?
Just my thoughts.
Maybe just maybe, since they're strangers and you don't know them personally, it's simply nobody's business.
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sunn_lighter wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »if you can't be honest to some strangers how are you ever going to be honest to yourself
what
Just saying if you cheat and you can't be honest about it; how are you ever going to be honest? That comment was aimed towards the cheaters who never took the time to figure out what they did was wrong and act like they never cheated.
If you cheated, own it. That's all I'm saying. And if you can't even own your cheating than maybe you should have never cheated to begin with.0 -
Yep.
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lislisa123 wrote: »sunn_lighter wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »if you can't be honest to some strangers how are you ever going to be honest to yourself
what
Just saying if you cheat and you can't be honest about it; how are you ever going to be honest? That comment was aimed towards the cheaters who never took the time to figure out what they did was wrong and act like they never cheated.
If you cheated, own it. That's all I'm saying. And if you can't even own your cheating than maybe you should have never cheated to begin with.
I'm not so sure that everyone is that concerned about honesty.0 -
lislisa123 wrote: »sunn_lighter wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »if you can't be honest to some strangers how are you ever going to be honest to yourself
what
Just saying if you cheat and you can't be honest about it; how are you ever going to be honest? That comment was aimed towards the cheaters who never took the time to figure out what they did was wrong and act like they never cheated.
If you cheated, own it. That's all I'm saying. And if you can't even own your cheating than maybe you should have never cheated to begin with.
Maybe the cheaters do own it but still don't feel the need to post it on a public message board.0 -
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leonsinned wrote: »It kind of depends on how you define "cheating" doesn't it?
Is flirting cheating?
What about a kiss?
Or what if you develop feelings beyond friendship with someone but you never sleep with them. Is that cheating?
I've heard yes answers to all of these, and I've been guilty of at least one of them.
I plead the 5th
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MonkeyMel21 wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »MonkeyMel21 wrote: »I feel like no one is going to admit that they are currently cheating in this thread, lol. Of course there will always be the "I was young and dumb" posts, cause those are always excused!
lol someone messaged me privately to say it. They are too scared to put it out there lol
Honestly, I feel like if your willing to cheat you should be willing to deal with the consequences of your acts. Why are people so scared to say they cheated before wether here or to the person they cheated on? I think it's only fair to be honest to the people you betrayed and why not be honest on here?
Yes, some of us anti cheaters might not like what you did and feel there is no excuse to cheat but we don't know you personally, so if you can't be honest to some strangers how are you ever going to be honest to yourself about what you did or the people you hurt in your life?
Just my thoughts.
Ummm, I really don't think most people are going to willingly subject themselves to the hate they would receive in a thread like this. For pretty much no reason. What type of response do you think it would get if someone just says that "Yeah, I cheat, and it's super hot when I get away with it! Makes my life more fun and interesting!!".
I don't think anyone would be stupid enough to make such a comment but than again, some people are known to say stupid things. I think if they don't want to be judged a simple yes or no to the question would suffice. But of course if they went into detail about it and tried to reason why they cheated then yeah, prepared to be judged.0 -
Yup. Young and dumb. We both did.0
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Yeah, I cheat, and it's super hot when I get away with it! Makes my life more fun and interesting!!0
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I'm usually just the side dish anyhow, so that's not cheating.0
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ManiNorthernstar wrote: »Yeah, I cheat, and it's super hot when I get away with it! Makes my life more fun and interesting!!
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lislisa123 wrote: »sunn_lighter wrote: »lislisa123 wrote: »if you can't be honest to some strangers how are you ever going to be honest to yourself
what
Just saying if you cheat and you can't be honest about it; how are you ever going to be honest? That comment was aimed towards the cheaters who never took the time to figure out what they did was wrong and act like they never cheated.
If you cheated, own it. That's all I'm saying. And if you can't even own your cheating than maybe you should have never cheated to begin with.
Maybe the cheaters do own it but still don't feel the need to post it on a public message board.
Fair enough. I was just going based off the fact the lady who made this post commented that some people were too scared to say they cheated. That is not owning the fact you cheated in my opinion.0 -
No . Real men dont cheat. Cheaters are not good girlfriend or wife material. Sex playmate is all they will be. Rememder a leopard dose not change its spots.0
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Ive admitted it twice now......am i 'owning' it?0
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I caught eyes with a cat the other day, does that count?0
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ManiNorthernstar wrote: »Ive admitted it twice now......am i 'owning' it?
AND no one has attacked you for it, not even lisa! Well played, sir.0 -
I don't think a thread on a weight loss message board is the place anyone is going to have their come to Jesus moment.
I tend to think a large majority of people have cheated or are capable of cheating in the right circumstances, but I don't know that they're going to post about it. I've never been married so it's not my issue. I cheated on a boyfriend in college but I was like 19 so I file that under the irrelevant/young-and-dumb category, like most things in college.0 -
I don't think a thread on a weight loss message board is the place anyone is going to have their come to Jesus moment.
I tend to think a large majority of people have cheated or are capable of cheating in the right circumstances, but I don't know that they're going to post about it. I've never been married so it's not my issue. I cheated on a boyfriend in college but I was like 19 so I file that under the irrelevant/young-and-dumb category, like most things in college.
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leonsinned wrote: »It kind of depends on how you define "cheating" doesn't it?
Is flirting cheating?
What about a kiss?
Or what if you develop feelings beyond friendship with someone but you never sleep with them. Is that cheating?
I've heard yes answers to all of these, and I've been guilty of at least one of them.
In my opinion there are two types of cheating in a relationship. Emotional cheating and physical cheating. So based on what you said, flirting is not cheating as
Long as it's not sexual flirting. But I don't recommend flirting with anyone other than the person your dating. Kissing someone else while in a relationship is cheating. Developing deep feelings beyond friendship is not cheating unless you sext or sexual flirt with the person. However if you feel that way you should either end your relationship with your partner and try a relationship with your friend or stay with your partner and end the friendship. However, everyone has different ideas of what cheating is to them. So I suggest you talk to your current partner and ask them what they think is cheating. In the end if you love them, their opinion is the one that matters. You should also tell them what you consider cheating so you both are clear and on the same page.0 -
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I also think the “holier than thou” judgmental attitudes come from lack of certain experiences. Never say never because you just don’t know until you’re there.0
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ManiNorthernstar wrote: »Ive admitted it twice now......am i 'owning' it?
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