True Confessions - Don't Judge

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  • slivesey77
    slivesey77 Posts: 2,450 Member
    slivesey77 wrote: »
    I confess I don't get why random people just out of the blue FR when you've never met them, never talked to them, and have never seen them in any rooms and have no common friends to speak of. And then when you place a paragraph on your profile requesting that, if you are one of those kinds of people, at least leave a little line saying hello and why you're making the FR, and they still don't, my mind doesn't know how to wrap around that kind of ridiculousness.

    You better tone down that sexy appeal ..you're asking for trouble stud muffin :D:*

    Wait ... what? :p
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    moya_bleh wrote: »
    I confess that these forums are really making me feel like *kitten* about myself. I notice that whenever ANYBODY else posts any kind of progress pic/selfie etc. they get some kind of "How YOU doin'?" type response. I get tumbleweed, confirming that I am indeed physically repulsive. Time to crawl under a rock.

    Heyy I loved your beard pic as did another lady :( don't I count :*

    Wheres the beard pic?

    Its in the beard thread
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    Kasner1975 wrote: »
    slivesey77 wrote: »
    I confess I don't get why random people just out of the blue FR when you've never met them, never talked to them, and have never seen them in any rooms and have no common friends to speak of. And then when you place a paragraph on your profile requesting that, if you are one of those kinds of people, at least leave a little line saying hello and why you're making the FR, and they still don't, my mind doesn't know how to wrap around that kind of ridiculousness.

    I get these often, which I decline. Random people that I've never seen before in any way. Especially those I've never seen that leave no opening message. Yeah, sorry but no.

    Same
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    KyleGrace8 wrote: »
    I've turned 28 today and all I can think to celebrate is eat all the food. So far so good. :)

    Happy 28th Birthday! Goodness, you're just a baby!

    I know. I'm jealous. Lol
    Happy Birthday @KyleGrace8 :)
  • Cerealsensei
    Cerealsensei Posts: 1,625 Member
    I confess that I'm bored out of my mind right now
  • KyleGrace8
    KyleGrace8 Posts: 2,205 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    KyleGrace8 wrote: »
    I've turned 28 today and all I can think to celebrate is eat all the food. So far so good. :)

    Happy 28th Birthday! Goodness, you're just a baby!
    J_Surita3 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    KyleGrace8 wrote: »
    I've turned 28 today and all I can think to celebrate is eat all the food. So far so good. :)

    Happy 28th Birthday! Goodness, you're just a baby!

    I know. I'm jealous. Lol
    Happy Birthday @KyleGrace8 :)

    Thank you kindly ladies! :smiley:
  • rkd1206
    rkd1206 Posts: 9 Member
    I confess that I buy super cheap food at the dollar store to put in my "food for a disaster" cupboard....and most of it is gone - that truly IS a disaster!
  • angelxsss
    angelxsss Posts: 2,402 Member
    rkd1206 wrote: »
    I confess that I buy super cheap food at the dollar store to put in my "food for a disaster" cupboard....and most of it is gone - that truly IS a disaster!

    I'm pretty sure I would just by super cheap food at the dollar store as my everyday food
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    I confess that I'm so exhausted that I'm thinking of taking Motrin PM with a glass of wine in a desperate attempt to sleep tonight. Is that really bad?

    No it is not bad, especially if it's something you only do occasionally. I am so use to getting up at 3 am 6 days a week that on the 7th day I take a sleeping pill so I can sleep till 6/6:30 and not wide awake at 3 tossing and turning.
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    I confess that I'm so exhausted that I'm thinking of taking Motrin PM with a glass of wine in a desperate attempt to sleep tonight. Is that really bad?

    No it is not bad, especially if it's something you only do occasionally. I am so use to getting up at 3 am 6 days a week that on the 7th day I take a sleeping pill so I can sleep till 6/6:30 and not wide awake at 3 tossing and turning.

    I rarely drink, and Motrin PM or Tylenol PM don't usually do much for me. I'm desperate. Its taking forever to fall asleep and then I'm sleeping like *kitten* because I can't exhaust myself physically by working out.

    Sounds frustrating. I hope you get some sleep. Have you ever tried melatonin?
  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    I confess that I'm so exhausted that I'm thinking of taking Motrin PM with a glass of wine in a desperate attempt to sleep tonight. Is that really bad?

    No it is not bad, especially if it's something you only do occasionally. I am so use to getting up at 3 am 6 days a week that on the 7th day I take a sleeping pill so I can sleep till 6/6:30 and not wide awake at 3 tossing and turning.

    I rarely drink, and Motrin PM or Tylenol PM don't usually do much for me. I'm desperate. Its taking forever to fall asleep and then I'm sleeping like *kitten* because I can't exhaust myself physically by working out.

    Sounds frustrating. I hope you get some sleep. Have you ever tried melatonin?

    I actually did just try it a few months ago. After dealing with not sleeping due to my shoulder surgery for so long, even after it started feeling better I wan't sleeping well so I tried Melatonin for about a month I think. It didn't really help. Now i'm recovering again and sleeping even worse because I can't work out during this one.

    Bummer. It works great for me and I feel ok with it cuz it's natural. Sounds like you need a total sleep reset, but idk how you would do it lol
  • chocolate_owl
    chocolate_owl Posts: 1,695 Member
    KyleGrace8 wrote: »
    I confess I teared up when my 4 year old niece sang me happy birthday on the phone. She left me a voicemail too bc I missed the call but called back two minutes later so I have one song on recording as well. :')

    Happy birthday!!! Hope you had a fabulous day :)
  • chocolate_owl
    chocolate_owl Posts: 1,695 Member
    slivesey77 wrote: »
    I confess I don't get why random people just out of the blue FR when you've never met them, never talked to them, and have never seen them in any rooms and have no common friends to speak of. And then when you place a paragraph on your profile requesting that, if you are one of those kinds of people, at least leave a little line saying hello and why you're making the FR, and they still don't, my mind doesn't know how to wrap around that kind of ridiculousness.

    In their defense, you can't see profiles on the app, only on PC. Not in their defense, do you ever expect someone to be your friend IRL without ever talking to them? So odd.
  • chocolate_owl
    chocolate_owl Posts: 1,695 Member
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    jtegirl1 wrote: »
    I confess that I'm so exhausted that I'm thinking of taking Motrin PM with a glass of wine in a desperate attempt to sleep tonight. Is that really bad?

    No it is not bad, especially if it's something you only do occasionally. I am so use to getting up at 3 am 6 days a week that on the 7th day I take a sleeping pill so I can sleep till 6/6:30 and not wide awake at 3 tossing and turning.

    I rarely drink, and Motrin PM or Tylenol PM don't usually do much for me. I'm desperate. Its taking forever to fall asleep and then I'm sleeping like *kitten* because I can't exhaust myself physically by working out.

    Sounds frustrating. I hope you get some sleep. Have you ever tried melatonin?

    I actually did just try it a few months ago. After dealing with not sleeping due to my shoulder surgery for so long, even after it started feeling better I wan't sleeping well so I tried Melatonin for about a month I think. It didn't really help. Now i'm recovering again and sleeping even worse because I can't work out during this one.

    Have you tried NyQuil? Sleeping pills and PM meds don't work well for me, but NyQuil puts me into a perfect sleep.
  • looklucklove
    looklucklove Posts: 128 Member
    I confess that I wasn't going to comment here, because you all get a little too naughty for me sometimes. I've been lurking for a while now, and I know you've moved on from this topic, but here are my thoughts.
    moya_bleh wrote: »
    I confess that these forums are really making me feel like *kitten* about myself. I notice that whenever ANYBODY else posts any kind of progress pic/selfie etc. they get some kind of "How YOU doin'?" type response. I get tumbleweed, confirming that I am indeed physically repulsive. Time to crawl under a rock.

    and

    There's several reasons I haven't posted in the selfie thread yet, but a big one is that I'd be letting my self-esteem hinge on validation from strangers on the internet. I'm not in a good place about my appearance, and not getting a bunch of super-positive comments would hurt. I would interpret it as "I'm not attractive" rather than not being one of the regulars that always comment on each other, or posting at a time where people were too busy to comment, or someone else posting an AMAZING selfie that's grabbing everyone's attention at the moment.

    Maybe I'm hot, maybe I'm not, but I want to value myself enough that my appearance is not the sum of my worth. The number of likes on my selfie would not change how good of a friend, wife, and daughter I am, how I perform at my job, how well I cook, or how generous I am to those in need. So I'm not going to put myself in that situation until I get my head straight, like myself a little more, and appreciate my body as it is.

    1. To @moya_bleh I believe you also have an issue about your height, correct? I'm 5'11", so I guess I kinda have the reverse problem-- it was pretty hard to get a date to prom when all the guys are two inches shorter than you are! But there was someone for me, and there's someone for you, too. You just need to love yourself enough to let other people see what you have to offer. And your profile pic shows your awesome transformation, so you keep on doing what you're doing.

    2. To @chocolate_owl This. A million times this. You said exactly what I WANT to feel, but I'm not quite there yet. I lurk there too, many of the same people post here and there, and everyone is SO NICE. It's rare that I see a selfie that doesn't get a comment... a "Hey, how YOU doin'?" or "Luv dem eyes" or something equally as flattering. True, there's some damn beautiful people there, but they're all encouraging to one another. My fear is that when I do get up the nerve to post something, there'll be crickets. I wish I was more confident with how I looked, but I guess that's why I'm here in the first place-- yes, to lose weight, but really to feel good about myself.

    When I hit 20 pounds lost, maybe I'll celebrate by posting a progression shot on the selfie thread and then we can all say how fabulous we ALL look. Maybe.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    I confess that I wasn't going to comment here, because you all get a little too naughty for me sometimes. I've been lurking for a while now, and I know you've moved on from this topic, but here are my thoughts.
    moya_bleh wrote: »
    I confess that these forums are really making me feel like *kitten* about myself. I notice that whenever ANYBODY else posts any kind of progress pic/selfie etc. they get some kind of "How YOU doin'?" type response. I get tumbleweed, confirming that I am indeed physically repulsive. Time to crawl under a rock.

    and

    There's several reasons I haven't posted in the selfie thread yet, but a big one is that I'd be letting my self-esteem hinge on validation from strangers on the internet. I'm not in a good place about my appearance, and not getting a bunch of super-positive comments would hurt. I would interpret it as "I'm not attractive" rather than not being one of the regulars that always comment on each other, or posting at a time where people were too busy to comment, or someone else posting an AMAZING selfie that's grabbing everyone's attention at the moment.

    Maybe I'm hot, maybe I'm not, but I want to value myself enough that my appearance is not the sum of my worth. The number of likes on my selfie would not change how good of a friend, wife, and daughter I am, how I perform at my job, how well I cook, or how generous I am to those in need. So I'm not going to put myself in that situation until I get my head straight, like myself a little more, and appreciate my body as it is.

    1. To @moya_bleh I believe you also have an issue about your height, correct? I'm 5'11", so I guess I kinda have the reverse problem-- it was pretty hard to get a date to prom when all the guys are two inches shorter than you are! But there was someone for me, and there's someone for you, too. You just need to love yourself enough to let other people see what you have to offer. And your profile pic shows your awesome transformation, so you keep on doing what you're doing.

    2. To @chocolate_owl This. A million times this. You said exactly what I WANT to feel, but I'm not quite there yet. I lurk there too, many of the same people post here and there, and everyone is SO NICE. It's rare that I see a selfie that doesn't get a comment... a "Hey, how YOU doin'?" or "Luv dem eyes" or something equally as flattering. True, there's some damn beautiful people there, but they're all encouraging to one another. My fear is that when I do get up the nerve to post something, there'll be crickets. I wish I was more confident with how I looked, but I guess that's why I'm here in the first place-- yes, to lose weight, but really to feel good about myself.

    When I hit 20 pounds lost, maybe I'll celebrate by posting a progression shot on the selfie thread and then we can all say how fabulous we ALL look. Maybe.

    Darlin..I can already tell you are beautiful :*
  • SweatsOnSunday
    SweatsOnSunday Posts: 514 Member
    Ok, I've been reading all these posts, and I confess that I have no idea what *kitten* means...

    Anyone want to enlighten me by private message?
  • Gimsteinn
    Gimsteinn Posts: 7,678 Member
    edited February 2017
    Ok, I've been reading all these posts, and I confess that I have no idea what *kitten* means...

    Anyone want to enlighten me by private message?

    No... but... *kitten* is the mods way to censor out bad language.. so when you say *kitten* or *kitten* it get's automatically turned into *kitten*.. so if you say for example *kitten* or *kitten* you or even something as vile as: your *kitten* is so *kitten* that *kitten* *kitten* as *kitten* it gets automatically turned into *kitten*"
  • Gimsteinn
    Gimsteinn Posts: 7,678 Member
    Gimsteinn wrote: »
    Ok, I've been reading all these posts, and I confess that I have no idea what *kitten* means...

    Anyone want to enlighten me by private message?

    No... but... *kitten* is the mods way to censor out bad language.. so when you say *kitten* or *kitten* it get's automatically turned into *kitten*.. so if you say for example *kitten* or *kitten* you or even something as vile as: your *kitten* is so *kitten* that *kitten* *kitten* as *kitten* it gets automatically turned into *kitten*"

    Oh *kitten*!!! :angry:
  • MalkinMagic71
    MalkinMagic71 Posts: 1,433 Member
    I confess that I'm friggin happy it's Friday finally.
  • LittleHearseDriver
    LittleHearseDriver Posts: 2,677 Member
    I confess that I'm friggin happy it's Friday finally.
    Ditto, payday is always sweet!


  • evilokc
    evilokc Posts: 263 Member
    I confess that I slept with my ex's best friend after we broke up to get back at him for breaking my heart (fyi: I completely regret this decision now)

    Um...i also know your ex? So .. Ya know if your still angry..
  • MalkinMagic71
    MalkinMagic71 Posts: 1,433 Member
    I confess that I'm friggin happy it's Friday finally.
    Ditto, payday is always sweet!


    Payday not till next Friday for me.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    I confess that I wasn't going to comment here, because you all get a little too naughty for me sometimes.

    I confess that I wish @looklucklove liked it when we got too naughty.

  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Bless my wife, she TRYYYYS to do some healthy thing when cooking, but there are some things I continually tell her NOT to try and adjust, compensate for, or substitute. I confess, she made shrimp scampi with olive oil and DANGIT, it isn't even right. Stop messing with mah butter and put it in there! Butter. garlic, lemon....grrrrr
  • looklucklove
    looklucklove Posts: 128 Member
    jnichel wrote: »
    I confess that I wasn't going to comment here, because you all get a little too naughty for me sometimes.

    I confess that I wish @looklucklove liked it when we got too naughty.

    Oh, don't get me wrong, I like it, I just can't keep up with it!
  • looklucklove
    looklucklove Posts: 128 Member

    Darlin..I can already tell you are beautiful :*

    Thank you! I'm trying... inside and out!
  • PhedraJD
    PhedraJD Posts: 1,392 Member
    I confess I do not want to work today.