ok ladies, what's a good way to a womens heart???

dave8623
dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
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Just asking :)
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  • Ssthrnbby
    Ssthrnbby Posts: 731 Member
    Just be real! Be yourself! And don't lie!
    Smile a lot and listen to what she likes , thinks and needs. :) it's simple
  • Steam_Powered_Awesome
    Steam_Powered_Awesome Posts: 301 Member
    Depends on the women
    What works on one might/will not on another.
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    Hmmmm good point,
  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    Compassion and kindness to others, let her know that you care about her thoughts, always treat her with respect and make her feel beautiful every day! :)
  • priscillam31
    priscillam31 Posts: 1,356 Member
    Good morning beautiful texts, or flowers delivered to their job, wine and roses. You know all that mushy stuff but with legit feeling behind it of course. No shady stuff. Show interest in intellect not just body. Some women only have body to offer so they will lead with that but most women want appreciation for the total package.
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  • fatgirlclub
    fatgirlclub Posts: 550 Member
    FabulousFantasticFifty wrote: »
    Compassion and kindness to others, let her know that you care about her thoughts, always treat her with respect and make her feel beautiful every day! :)

    100% agree!! I will also add that most ladies want your undivided attention as well. :)
  • oh_happy_day
    oh_happy_day Posts: 1,137 Member
    priscillam31 wrote: »
    Good morning beautiful texts, or [/b]flowers delivered to their job, wine and roses[/b]. You know all that mushy stuff but with legit feeling behind it of course. No shady stuff. Show interest in intellect not just body. Some women only have body to offer so they will lead with that but most women want appreciation for the total package.

    I would hate that. It's totally individual.

    Just be yourself, then you'll win over the right person. Don't be something you're not.

  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    Good stuff ladies,
    Keep it coming :)
    "Oh yea don't forget to add me as a friend"
    Lol
  • kryss247
    kryss247 Posts: 120 Member
    Food :)... and being spoiled
  • usmcmp
    usmcmp Posts: 21,219 Member
    Be genuine and do thoughtful things.
  • katnroyal1987
    katnroyal1987 Posts: 3,449 Member
    Make me laugh!
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,211 Member
    Right between the third and fourth rib. A bone saw is best, but a good pair of secateurs will do in a pinch.
  • BasicGreatGuy
    BasicGreatGuy Posts: 857 Member
    dave8623 wrote: »
    Just asking :)
    1. Be honest with yourself and with her at all times.
    2. Don't play mind games with her head or her heart.
    3. Be emotionally vulnerable. That means not hiding behind walls.
    4. Forget the macho man stereotype drivel that is seen and promoted on t.v. It is crap.
    5. Nothing wrong with a man crying. Nothing wrong with a man expressing his needs and feelings to a lady, without waiting on her to open up first.
    6. Say what you mean and mean what you say to a lady. Don't make her beg you to tell her what you meant all the time.
    7. Never ever tell a lady you love her, unless you truly mean it.
    8. Build a foundation with her. That means grow to be her best friend, confidant, and lover; in that order. Otherwise, you have a house built on sand with no real support or depth.
    9. There is a difference between having sex and making love to a woman. You better be very clear of your intentions, her intentions and heart before proceeding down that path.
    10. Relationships take time to grow and mature. They are a living entity. Take the time to enjoy getting to know each other.
    11. There is no such thing as 'the little things." Everything a man does (or doesn't do) to express how he feels about a lady is big, at least it should be. A lady shouldn't have to wonder how you feel about her and whether or not she can trust you, after you have gotten to know one another. If she does, there is a problem. In showing how you care and how you are committed to her as her best friend, confidant and lover, make sure it comes from the heart, and not because you feel you have to do x,y, and z because it is tradition or because others do so. Otherwise, your big things become empty along with your words.
  • jessica22222
    jessica22222 Posts: 374 Member
    Chivalrous men get my heart. Open doors, pull out chairs, pay for dinner, walk on outside of sidewalk, buy flowers.
    Also have a great sense of humour. Humour is the key to my heart for sure along with being easy going. Not too easy going though stand by your values and be assertive with the world.
    Excellent grooming habits a must also. Most of all, be real and consistent.

    I just described my husband ❤️
  • LiveLoveLift48
    LiveLoveLift48 Posts: 379 Member
    Feed her and make sure she always has her supplements....lol
  • EnrgizerBnny
    EnrgizerBnny Posts: 1,081 Member
    First Make her laugh
    Second be a friend let her know how amazing you are by being yourself
    Third Make her smile not just from laughing but compliment her and see how she reacts if she blushes then shes interested

    The end
  • angelxbaby714
    angelxbaby714 Posts: 937 Member
    Pizza <3
  • katnroyal1987
    katnroyal1987 Posts: 3,449 Member
    BasicGreatGuy wrote: »
    dave8623 wrote: »
    Just asking :)
    1. Be honest with yourself and with her at all times.
    2. Don't play mind games with her head or her heart.
    3. Be emotionally vulnerable. That means not hiding behind walls.
    4. Forget the macho man stereotype drivel that is seen and promoted on t.v. It is crap.
    5. Nothing wrong with a man crying. Nothing wrong with a man expressing his needs and feelings to a lady, without waiting on her to open up first.
    6. Say what you mean and mean what you say to a lady. Don't make her beg you to tell her what you meant all the time.
    7. Never ever tell a lady you love her, unless you truly mean it.
    8. Build a foundation with her. That means grow to be her best friend, confidant, and lover; in that order. Otherwise, you have a house built on sand with no real support or depth.
    9. There is a difference between having sex and making love to a woman. You better be very clear of your intentions, her intentions and heart before proceeding down that path.
    10. Relationships take time to grow and mature. They are a living entity. Take the time to enjoy getting to know each other.
    11. There is no such thing as 'the little things." Everything a man does (or doesn't do) to express how he feels about a lady is big, at least it should be. A lady shouldn't have to wonder how you feel about her and whether or not she can trust you, after you have gotten to know one another. If she does, there is a problem. In showing how you care and how you are committed to her as her best friend, confidant and lover, make sure it comes from the heart, and not because you feel you have to do x,y, and z because it is tradition or because others do so. Otherwise, your big things become empty along with your words.

    Be my valentine!?!?! :)
  • senecarr
    senecarr Posts: 5,377 Member
    I often hear women claim they want humor but I think they're more specifically looking for word play and someone who's a cunning linguist.
  • erigann
    erigann Posts: 45 Member
    Being a genuine real person, not overly eager to please or the flip side
    Doing housework definitely helps a lot
    Cooking skills a plus
    I really dislike when guys tell me what to do or what I should be doing
    Luckily I've been married for 13 years, so he kinda knows not to do that
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  • kami3006
    kami3006 Posts: 4,979 Member
    edited August 2015
    senecarr wrote: »
    I often hear women claim they want humor but I think they're more specifically looking for word play and someone who's a cunning linguist.

    ;)
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    angelxbaby714 wrote: »
    Pizza <3
    I love it!!!!!! :)
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    sunn_lighter wrote: »
    There's no real answer to this, because women aren't a math problem.

    Just find the right one for you and you will be good together and it will work out. :)
    I totally agree with you.
  • dave8623
    dave8623 Posts: 61 Member
    jessica22222 wrote: »
    Chivalrous men get my heart. Open doors, pull out chairs, pay for dinner, walk on outside of sidewalk, buy flowers.
    Also have a great sense of humour. Humour is the key to my heart for sure along with being easy going. Not too easy going though stand by your values and be assertive with the world.
    Excellent grooming habits a must also. Most of all, be real and consistent.

    I just described my husband ❤️

    :) very nice of you to appreciate your husband like that
  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,332 Member
    Make me smile
    Make me get butterflies
    Make me dinner
    Make me laugh
    Make me feel special
    Make me....finish... ;-)
    Make me forget every other guy <3
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  • morning_joy
    morning_joy Posts: 1,063 Member
    jessica22222 wrote: »
    Chivalrous men get my heart. Open doors, pull out chairs, pay for dinner, walk on outside of sidewalk, buy flowers.
    Also have a great sense of humour. Humour is the key to my heart for sure along with being easy going. Not too easy going though stand by your values and be assertive with the world.
    Excellent grooming habits a must also. Most of all, be real and consistent.

    I just described my husband ❤️

    I have to agree with several items here and...sounds like a great guy...hold on to him,

    I love flowers at unexpected times. love good morning texts. Most of all, I want someone to do nothing he is not interested in doing for 20 years...in other words. Not take her dancing if you don't enjoy it. Don't go to seafood restaurants if you can't stand seafood. Be yourself!!
  • Hey_Its_That_One_Guy
    Hey_Its_That_One_Guy Posts: 21,763 Member
    Act disinterested, have a lot of fun and do things you like, smile a lot, be charming but but don't get involved in their problems, have money.

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