There are 'BAD' foods

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  • janejellyroll
    janejellyroll Posts: 25,763 Member
    edited January 2016
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    My point is that is a completely different thing than a *nutritional* position that eating something is bad. A vegan doesn't think chicken is a "bad food." They think that eating a chicken is doing wrong to the chicken as an individual. It's completely different.

    Please don't loop in an ethical position on animal exploitation to support your argument that some foods are "bad" and evil.
  • Annie_01
    Annie_01 Posts: 3,096 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    But a lot of omnivores have no such ethical reservations and absolutely consider chicken breast a very "good" food. So whose definition is right?

    Both but both are absolute and not vague in their stance.

    So there is no absolute overall definition of good and bad foods because each individual chooses to assign good or bad to their foods. Is it really inconceivable that some people would choose to not assign value to their food choices?
    .
    No it isn't inconceivable that 'some' people would choose to not assign value to their food choices but deep down they know when they've eaten something they shouldn't, they just won't admit it, but hey if it works for them fine.

    I eat things quite often that I know I shouldn't (anything that has too much sodium). I have never called those foods bad. What I do recognize is that I didn't adhere to my allowed sodium level...my ankles swell...I put on 3lbs of water weight...then try to adhere the next day.

    There are many foods that I shouldn't eat...doesn't make the food "bad"...just means that I can't eat it.
  • suziecue20
    suziecue20 Posts: 567 Member
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    queenliz99 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2y8Sx4B2Sk

    In the red corner - 67 year old woman from Wales - in the blue corner lots of bodybuilders from America lol

    You are from Wales and I am 55 and from the U.S., same difference. The good, the bad and the ugly. I eat all foods in moderation. I am at my goal weight and holding. Let go of the thought that there is bad food. Food that has spoiled or way past expiration and foods that cause anphalaxic death are bad foods. Live a little, life's too short.[/quote

    Yes I know life's too short lol. I also eat ALL foods in moderation but I realise that some of them are not good for me - no big deal in my eyes. I admire your maintenance by the way and I hope you take that at face value.
    ,
  • rankinsect
    rankinsect Posts: 2,238 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    No it isn't inconceivable that 'some' people would choose to not assign value to their food choices but deep down they know when they've eaten something they shouldn't, they just won't admit it, but hey if it works for them fine.

    The only foods I really shouldn't ever eat are things that are spoiled or toxic. Anything else is a matter of context. A food I shouldn't eat today (because it can't fit into my nutritional goals for today) may be perfectly fine tomorrow when it can. The food is neither bad nor good - it merely fits or doesn't fit my specific goals on a particular day.
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
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    Um, sorry no.

    There are no bad foods. "Bad" in the context of food is just arbitrary value judgement.

    I just ate 6 pot stickers and had sugar in my coffee today, I met my macros and am under my calories for the day. My health is no worse off had I skipped those things and had the calories in carrots.

    I feel no guilt because eating never causes me to feel guilt, even if I am 1,000-2,000 calories over for the day. I'm not trying to cope with anything by lying to myself.
  • suziecue20
    suziecue20 Posts: 567 Member
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    Annie_01 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    But a lot of omnivores have no such ethical reservations and absolutely consider chicken breast a very "good" food. So whose definition is right?

    Both but both are absolute and not vague in their stance.

    So there is no absolute overall definition of good and bad foods because each individual chooses to assign good or bad to their foods. Is it really inconceivable that some people would choose to not assign value to their food choices?
    .
    No it isn't inconceivable that 'some' people would choose to not assign value to their food choices but deep down they know when they've eaten something they shouldn't, they just won't admit it, but hey if it works for them fine.

    I eat things quite often that I know I shouldn't (anything that has too much sodium). I have never called those foods bad. What I do recognize is that I didn't adhere to my allowed sodium level...my ankles swell...I put on 3lbs of water weight...then try to adhere the next day.

    There are many foods that I shouldn't eat...doesn't make the food "bad"...just means that I can't eat it.

    Exactly, you RECOGNISE something isn't good for you. You don't call it bad but it certainly isn't good [for you] and you act accordingly - this is what I'm saying.
  • nutmegoreo
    nutmegoreo Posts: 15,532 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    But a lot of omnivores have no such ethical reservations and absolutely consider chicken breast a very "good" food. So whose definition is right?

    Both but both are absolute and not vague in their stance.

    So there is no absolute overall definition of good and bad foods because each individual chooses to assign good or bad to their foods. Is it really inconceivable that some people would choose to not assign value to their food choices?
    .
    No it isn't inconceivable that 'some' people would choose to not assign value to their food choices but deep down they know when they've eaten something they shouldn't, they just won't admit it, but hey if it works for them fine.

    I used to consider foods as good and bad at some point in the past. In my experience, when I consumed a bad food I would feel bad about the choice and then bad about myself. Often leading to feelings of failure and then giving up. I hate for anyone to have to experience these emotions with regards to food. I have come to accept that for me, it makes no sense to assign values to foods. If you are able to assign labels to your food without having those feelings tied to it, then that is great. The reality is that for many people, they experience guilt and shame around their food choices. This is not a good mind frame to be approaching life from. So no, I eat my ice cream and I don't consider it a bad food. I enjoy a beer and I don't consider it a bad food.
  • queenliz99
    queenliz99 Posts: 15,317 Member
    edited January 2016
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    queenliz99 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G2y8Sx4B2Sk

    In the red corner - 67 year old woman from Wales - in the blue corner lots of bodybuilders from America lol

    You are from Wales and I am 55 and from the U.S., same difference. The good, the bad and the ugly. I eat all foods in moderation. I am at my goal weight and holding. Let go of the thought that there is bad food. Food that has spoiled or way past expiration and foods that cause anphalaxic death are bad foods. Live a little, life's too short.[/quote

    Yes I know life's too short lol. I also eat ALL foods in moderation but I realise that some of them are not good for me - no big deal in my eyes. I admire your maintenance by the way and I hope you take that at face value.
    ,

    What do you mean at face value? I am proud of the fact that I am finally at my goal weight. It took me many years to figure out how to do this. I used to eat low fat because the "experts" said fats were bad. Thinking fast foods were bad. Eating carbs were bad. I have found that eating too many calories are bad. I now have perfect blood tests and have finally lost that last 20 pounds that have taken me 30 years to lose. Nope, no bad food just too many calories.
  • MKEgal
    MKEgal Posts: 3,250 Member
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    queenliz wrote:
    Unrefrigerated foods left out on the counter are bad and may make you sick.
    Foods past their expiration date can be bad.
    Food dropped on the floor not so bad, if you use the 4 second rule.
    The 4-second rule is a myth.
    Hard food (crackers) pick up fewer microbes & less dirt than wet food (lunchmeat),
    but they'll both have ick.

    http://www.discovery.com/tv-shows/mythbusters/videos/five-second-rule-minimyth/

    The good news is that in the vast panoply of microbes, there aren't many that can hurt us.
    And of those, there aren't many that can survive the extreme acid environment of our stomachs.
    But the ones that survive can be pretty nasty.
    I've picked up a pill or hard candy off the floor & eaten it. Wouldn't do it with eggs.
  • suziecue20
    suziecue20 Posts: 567 Member
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    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    But a lot of omnivores have no such ethical reservations and absolutely consider chicken breast a very "good" food. So whose definition is right?

    Both but both are absolute and not vague in their stance.

    So there is no absolute overall definition of good and bad foods because each individual chooses to assign good or bad to their foods. Is it really inconceivable that some people would choose to not assign value to their food choices?
    .
    No it isn't inconceivable that 'some' people would choose to not assign value to their food choices but deep down they know when they've eaten something they shouldn't, they just won't admit it, but hey if it works for them fine.

    I don't approach it as I occasionally eat cookies but know I really shouldn't. I tend to be kind of rigid, so if I decided I shouldn't eat cookies I just wouldn't and if I ever did I'd feel bad about it.

    Plus, I don't understand why I shouldn't ever eat a cookie, so I'd go mad trying to justify the rule to myself.

    I do genuinely believe that it's better not to eat so many cookies that I gain weight or fail to eat a balanced, nutrient rich diet, so would concede that if I eat a lunch of cookies I probably shouldn't have. I don't think of a planned dessert that fits into a sensible, calorie-appropriate day as something I shouldn't eat or a "cheat" or the like.

    You seem to be arguing that calling it "bad" and acknowledging we "shouldn't" eat them is more honest. I don't understand that way of thinking. If it works for you, whatever, but it doesn't work for me, and I think it actually makes things harder for many people, so why not say what I believe: nothing wrong with an occasional cookie. Just eat an overall nutritious diet and don't overeat.

    this^^^^^.
    If I felt I shouldn't eat something, I just wouldn't eat it. Why would you ever eat something that would make you feel bad about yourself? That seems like a path to self-loathing to me. Just don't eat it if you feel that way. There. Problem solved.

    Plan your treats and enjoy them. Nothing wrong with that at all.

    For goodness sake I have no self-loathing. If I can fit the baddies into my calories I do but I know darn well that the options hot chocolate I like before bed [full of artificial this and that] is not good for me - is that so hard to understand?

  • queenliz99
    queenliz99 Posts: 15,317 Member
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    MKEgal wrote: »
    queenliz wrote:
    Unrefrigerated foods left out on the counter are bad and may make you sick.
    Foods past their expiration date can be bad.
    Food dropped on the floor not so bad, if you use the 4 second rule.
    The 4-second rule is a myth.
    Hard food (crackers) pick up fewer microbes & less dirt than wet food (lunchmeat),
    but they'll both have ick.

    http://www.discovery.com/tv-shows/mythbusters/videos/five-second-rule-minimyth/

    The good news is that in the vast panoply of microbes, there aren't many that can hurt us.
    And of those, there aren't many that can survive the extreme acid environment of our stomachs.
    But the ones that survive can be pretty nasty.
    I've picked up a pill or hard candy off the floor & eaten it. Wouldn't do it with eggs.

    I use the 4 second rule a lot but I have definitely pushed this limit on this. Microbes do not scare me with exception of the ebola type germs and SARS. Ask me how I know that microbes do not scare me. I am living proof.
  • janejellyroll
    janejellyroll Posts: 25,763 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    But a lot of omnivores have no such ethical reservations and absolutely consider chicken breast a very "good" food. So whose definition is right?

    Both but both are absolute and not vague in their stance.

    So there is no absolute overall definition of good and bad foods because each individual chooses to assign good or bad to their foods. Is it really inconceivable that some people would choose to not assign value to their food choices?
    .
    No it isn't inconceivable that 'some' people would choose to not assign value to their food choices but deep down they know when they've eaten something they shouldn't, they just won't admit it, but hey if it works for them fine.

    I don't approach it as I occasionally eat cookies but know I really shouldn't. I tend to be kind of rigid, so if I decided I shouldn't eat cookies I just wouldn't and if I ever did I'd feel bad about it.

    Plus, I don't understand why I shouldn't ever eat a cookie, so I'd go mad trying to justify the rule to myself.

    I do genuinely believe that it's better not to eat so many cookies that I gain weight or fail to eat a balanced, nutrient rich diet, so would concede that if I eat a lunch of cookies I probably shouldn't have. I don't think of a planned dessert that fits into a sensible, calorie-appropriate day as something I shouldn't eat or a "cheat" or the like.

    You seem to be arguing that calling it "bad" and acknowledging we "shouldn't" eat them is more honest. I don't understand that way of thinking. If it works for you, whatever, but it doesn't work for me, and I think it actually makes things harder for many people, so why not say what I believe: nothing wrong with an occasional cookie. Just eat an overall nutritious diet and don't overeat.

    this^^^^^.
    If I felt I shouldn't eat something, I just wouldn't eat it. Why would you ever eat something that would make you feel bad about yourself? That seems like a path to self-loathing to me. Just don't eat it if you feel that way. There. Problem solved.

    Plan your treats and enjoy them. Nothing wrong with that at all.

    For goodness sake I have no self-loathing. If I can fit the baddies into my calories I do but I know darn well that the options hot chocolate I like before bed [full of artificial this and that] is not good for me - is that so hard to understand?

    How is it hurting you?
  • nutmegoreo
    nutmegoreo Posts: 15,532 Member
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    MKEgal wrote: »
    queenliz wrote:
    Unrefrigerated foods left out on the counter are bad and may make you sick.
    Foods past their expiration date can be bad.
    Food dropped on the floor not so bad, if you use the 4 second rule.
    The 4-second rule is a myth.
    Hard food (crackers) pick up fewer microbes & less dirt than wet food (lunchmeat),
    but they'll both have ick.

    http://www.discovery.com/tv-shows/mythbusters/videos/five-second-rule-minimyth/

    The good news is that in the vast panoply of microbes, there aren't many that can hurt us.
    And of those, there aren't many that can survive the extreme acid environment of our stomachs.
    But the ones that survive can be pretty nasty.
    I've picked up a pill or hard candy off the floor & eaten it. Wouldn't do it with eggs.

    In my own home, I'd eat pretty much anything off the floor. I might rinse it first, depending on if it's appropriate for washing and how many cat hairs are on it. At work, I wouldn't eat anything that hit the floor. Not even a jellybean if it was the only thing I would have to eat for the next 6 hours.
  • queenliz99
    queenliz99 Posts: 15,317 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    But a lot of omnivores have no such ethical reservations and absolutely consider chicken breast a very "good" food. So whose definition is right?

    Both but both are absolute and not vague in their stance.

    So there is no absolute overall definition of good and bad foods because each individual chooses to assign good or bad to their foods. Is it really inconceivable that some people would choose to not assign value to their food choices?
    .
    No it isn't inconceivable that 'some' people would choose to not assign value to their food choices but deep down they know when they've eaten something they shouldn't, they just won't admit it, but hey if it works for them fine.

    I don't approach it as I occasionally eat cookies but know I really shouldn't. I tend to be kind of rigid, so if I decided I shouldn't eat cookies I just wouldn't and if I ever did I'd feel bad about it.

    Plus, I don't understand why I shouldn't ever eat a cookie, so I'd go mad trying to justify the rule to myself.

    I do genuinely believe that it's better not to eat so many cookies that I gain weight or fail to eat a balanced, nutrient rich diet, so would concede that if I eat a lunch of cookies I probably shouldn't have. I don't think of a planned dessert that fits into a sensible, calorie-appropriate day as something I shouldn't eat or a "cheat" or the like.

    You seem to be arguing that calling it "bad" and acknowledging we "shouldn't" eat them is more honest. I don't understand that way of thinking. If it works for you, whatever, but it doesn't work for me, and I think it actually makes things harder for many people, so why not say what I believe: nothing wrong with an occasional cookie. Just eat an overall nutritious diet and don't overeat.

    this^^^^^.
    If I felt I shouldn't eat something, I just wouldn't eat it. Why would you ever eat something that would make you feel bad about yourself? That seems like a path to self-loathing to me. Just don't eat it if you feel that way. There. Problem solved.

    Plan your treats and enjoy them. Nothing wrong with that at all.

    For goodness sake I have no self-loathing. If I can fit the baddies into my calories I do but I know darn well that the options hot chocolate I like before bed [full of artificial this and that] is not good for me - is that so hard to understand?

    Yes, very hard to understand. Chocolate and sugar and powdered milk.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 17,959 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    But a lot of omnivores have no such ethical reservations and absolutely consider chicken breast a very "good" food. So whose definition is right?

    Both but both are absolute and not vague in their stance.

    So there is no absolute overall definition of good and bad foods because each individual chooses to assign good or bad to their foods. Is it really inconceivable that some people would choose to not assign value to their food choices?
    .
    No it isn't inconceivable that 'some' people would choose to not assign value to their food choices but deep down they know when they've eaten something they shouldn't, they just won't admit it, but hey if it works for them fine.

    I don't approach it as I occasionally eat cookies but know I really shouldn't. I tend to be kind of rigid, so if I decided I shouldn't eat cookies I just wouldn't and if I ever did I'd feel bad about it.

    Plus, I don't understand why I shouldn't ever eat a cookie, so I'd go mad trying to justify the rule to myself.

    I do genuinely believe that it's better not to eat so many cookies that I gain weight or fail to eat a balanced, nutrient rich diet, so would concede that if I eat a lunch of cookies I probably shouldn't have. I don't think of a planned dessert that fits into a sensible, calorie-appropriate day as something I shouldn't eat or a "cheat" or the like.

    You seem to be arguing that calling it "bad" and acknowledging we "shouldn't" eat them is more honest. I don't understand that way of thinking. If it works for you, whatever, but it doesn't work for me, and I think it actually makes things harder for many people, so why not say what I believe: nothing wrong with an occasional cookie. Just eat an overall nutritious diet and don't overeat.

    this^^^^^.
    If I felt I shouldn't eat something, I just wouldn't eat it. Why would you ever eat something that would make you feel bad about yourself? That seems like a path to self-loathing to me. Just don't eat it if you feel that way. There. Problem solved.

    Plan your treats and enjoy them. Nothing wrong with that at all.

    For goodness sake I have no self-loathing. If I can fit the baddies into my calories I do but I know darn well that the options hot chocolate I like before bed [full of artificial this and that] is not good for me - is that so hard to understand?

    I have ice cream every night. It fits my calories and my macros, gives me protein and calcium and makes me happy. It is in no way 'bad'.
  • brianpperkins
    brianpperkins Posts: 6,124 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    But a lot of omnivores have no such ethical reservations and absolutely consider chicken breast a very "good" food. So whose definition is right?

    Both but both are absolute and not vague in their stance.

    So there is no absolute overall definition of good and bad foods because each individual chooses to assign good or bad to their foods. Is it really inconceivable that some people would choose to not assign value to their food choices?
    .
    No it isn't inconceivable that 'some' people would choose to not assign value to their food choices but deep down they know when they've eaten something they shouldn't, they just won't admit it, but hey if it works for them fine.

    I don't approach it as I occasionally eat cookies but know I really shouldn't. I tend to be kind of rigid, so if I decided I shouldn't eat cookies I just wouldn't and if I ever did I'd feel bad about it.

    Plus, I don't understand why I shouldn't ever eat a cookie, so I'd go mad trying to justify the rule to myself.

    I do genuinely believe that it's better not to eat so many cookies that I gain weight or fail to eat a balanced, nutrient rich diet, so would concede that if I eat a lunch of cookies I probably shouldn't have. I don't think of a planned dessert that fits into a sensible, calorie-appropriate day as something I shouldn't eat or a "cheat" or the like.

    You seem to be arguing that calling it "bad" and acknowledging we "shouldn't" eat them is more honest. I don't understand that way of thinking. If it works for you, whatever, but it doesn't work for me, and I think it actually makes things harder for many people, so why not say what I believe: nothing wrong with an occasional cookie. Just eat an overall nutritious diet and don't overeat.

    this^^^^^.
    If I felt I shouldn't eat something, I just wouldn't eat it. Why would you ever eat something that would make you feel bad about yourself? That seems like a path to self-loathing to me. Just don't eat it if you feel that way. There. Problem solved.

    Plan your treats and enjoy them. Nothing wrong with that at all.

    For goodness sake I have no self-loathing. If I can fit the baddies into my calories I do but I know darn well that the options hot chocolate I like before bed [full of artificial this and that] is not good for me - is that so hard to understand?

    To paraphrase Shakespeare .... a food is neither good nor bad, the mind just makes it so. Explain in logical terms how that hot chocolate "is not good for" you. Does it give you macro and micro nutrients? Can you fit it into your caloric goals for the day? If so, how is it "bad"?
  • stevencloser
    stevencloser Posts: 8,911 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    But a lot of omnivores have no such ethical reservations and absolutely consider chicken breast a very "good" food. So whose definition is right?

    Both but both are absolute and not vague in their stance.

    So there is no absolute overall definition of good and bad foods because each individual chooses to assign good or bad to their foods. Is it really inconceivable that some people would choose to not assign value to their food choices?
    .
    No it isn't inconceivable that 'some' people would choose to not assign value to their food choices but deep down they know when they've eaten something they shouldn't, they just won't admit it, but hey if it works for them fine.

    I don't approach it as I occasionally eat cookies but know I really shouldn't. I tend to be kind of rigid, so if I decided I shouldn't eat cookies I just wouldn't and if I ever did I'd feel bad about it.

    Plus, I don't understand why I shouldn't ever eat a cookie, so I'd go mad trying to justify the rule to myself.

    I do genuinely believe that it's better not to eat so many cookies that I gain weight or fail to eat a balanced, nutrient rich diet, so would concede that if I eat a lunch of cookies I probably shouldn't have. I don't think of a planned dessert that fits into a sensible, calorie-appropriate day as something I shouldn't eat or a "cheat" or the like.

    You seem to be arguing that calling it "bad" and acknowledging we "shouldn't" eat them is more honest. I don't understand that way of thinking. If it works for you, whatever, but it doesn't work for me, and I think it actually makes things harder for many people, so why not say what I believe: nothing wrong with an occasional cookie. Just eat an overall nutritious diet and don't overeat.

    this^^^^^.
    If I felt I shouldn't eat something, I just wouldn't eat it. Why would you ever eat something that would make you feel bad about yourself? That seems like a path to self-loathing to me. Just don't eat it if you feel that way. There. Problem solved.

    Plan your treats and enjoy them. Nothing wrong with that at all.

    For goodness sake I have no self-loathing. If I can fit the baddies into my calories I do but I know darn well that the options hot chocolate I like before bed [full of artificial this and that] is not good for me - is that so hard to understand?

    I have ice cream every night. It fits my calories and my macros, gives me protein and calcium and makes me happy. It is in no way 'bad'.

    Yeah.
  • ForecasterJason
    ForecasterJason Posts: 2,577 Member
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    I don't normally eat donuts, but I do sometimes when they're provided as refreshments at my church. I don't necessarily feel bad about eating it, but even still I don't think of them as being "good" for me. They're a source of calories that doesn't feel me up much (which is good since a lot of the foods I eat are fairly filling and I'm trying to maintain on the higher end of my calorie maintenance). But otherwise, nutritionally I don't think they're any good for me (well, I'd say anyone but I guess that's a whole different point).
  • suziecue20
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    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    But a lot of omnivores have no such ethical reservations and absolutely consider chicken breast a very "good" food. So whose definition is right?

    Both but both are absolute and not vague in their stance.

    So there is no absolute overall definition of good and bad foods because each individual chooses to assign good or bad to their foods. Is it really inconceivable that some people would choose to not assign value to their food choices?
    .
    No it isn't inconceivable that 'some' people would choose to not assign value to their food choices but deep down they know when they've eaten something they shouldn't, they just won't admit it, but hey if it works for them fine.

    I used to consider foods as good and bad at some point in the past. In my experience, when I consumed a bad food I would feel bad about the choice and then bad about myself. Often leading to feelings of failure and then giving up. I hate for anyone to have to experience these emotions with regards to food. I have come to accept that for me, it makes no sense to assign values to foods. If you are able to assign labels to your food without having those feelings tied to it, then that is great. The reality is that for many people, they experience guilt and shame around their food choices. This is not a good mind frame to be approaching life from. So no, I eat my ice cream and I don't consider it a bad food. I enjoy a beer and I don't consider it a bad food.
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    But a lot of omnivores have no such ethical reservations and absolutely consider chicken breast a very "good" food. So whose definition is right?

    Both but both are absolute and not vague in their stance.

    So there is no absolute overall definition of good and bad foods because each individual chooses to assign good or bad to their foods. Is it really inconceivable that some people would choose to not assign value to their food choices?
    .
    No it isn't inconceivable that 'some' people would choose to not assign value to their food choices but deep down they know when they've eaten something they shouldn't, they just won't admit it, but hey if it works for them fine.

    I don't approach it as I occasionally eat cookies but know I really shouldn't. I tend to be kind of rigid, so if I decided I shouldn't eat cookies I just wouldn't and if I ever did I'd feel bad about it.

    Plus, I don't understand why I shouldn't ever eat a cookie, so I'd go mad trying to justify the rule to myself.

    I do genuinely believe that it's better not to eat so many cookies that I gain weight or fail to eat a balanced, nutrient rich diet, so would concede that if I eat a lunch of cookies I probably shouldn't have. I don't think of a planned dessert that fits into a sensible, calorie-appropriate day as something I shouldn't eat or a "cheat" or the like.

    You seem to be arguing that calling it "bad" and acknowledging we "shouldn't" eat them is more honest. I don't understand that way of thinking. If it works for you, whatever, but it doesn't work for me, and I think it actually makes things harder for many people, so why not say what I believe: nothing wrong with an occasional cookie. Just eat an overall nutritious diet and don't overeat.

    this^^^^^.
    If I felt I shouldn't eat something, I just wouldn't eat it. Why would you ever eat something that would make you feel bad about yourself? That seems like a path to self-loathing to me. Just don't eat it if you feel that way. There. Problem solved.

    Plan your treats and enjoy them. Nothing wrong with that at all.

    For goodness sake I have no self-loathing. If I can fit the baddies into my calories I do but I know darn well that the options hot chocolate I like before bed [full of artificial this and that] is not good for me - is that so hard to understand?

    How is it hurting you?

    How is what hurting me?
  • nutmegoreo
    nutmegoreo Posts: 15,532 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    nutmegoreo wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Good and bad are not vague terms, they are absolute. You can never have good without bad.

    Then go ask a vegan and a keto dieter if they consider an all-natural, free-range organic chicken breast as good or bad. See how absolute your absolute is.
    ;

    One man's meat is another man's poison - but a vegan's 'bad' is absolute to them

    Vegans don't avoid chicken breast for nutritional reasons. This is kinda comparing apples and oranges. If I offered chocolate of an unknown origin to someone who was strongly opposed to slave labor (the kind involved in harvesting chocolate), they would turn it down. But they aren't saying chocolate is bad -- they're simply taking an ethical position on the chocolate.

    Oh please I do know that. Their ethical position is that eating chicken is bad = absolute

    But a lot of omnivores have no such ethical reservations and absolutely consider chicken breast a very "good" food. So whose definition is right?

    Both but both are absolute and not vague in their stance.

    So there is no absolute overall definition of good and bad foods because each individual chooses to assign good or bad to their foods. Is it really inconceivable that some people would choose to not assign value to their food choices?
    .
    No it isn't inconceivable that 'some' people would choose to not assign value to their food choices but deep down they know when they've eaten something they shouldn't, they just won't admit it, but hey if it works for them fine.

    I don't approach it as I occasionally eat cookies but know I really shouldn't. I tend to be kind of rigid, so if I decided I shouldn't eat cookies I just wouldn't and if I ever did I'd feel bad about it.

    Plus, I don't understand why I shouldn't ever eat a cookie, so I'd go mad trying to justify the rule to myself.

    I do genuinely believe that it's better not to eat so many cookies that I gain weight or fail to eat a balanced, nutrient rich diet, so would concede that if I eat a lunch of cookies I probably shouldn't have. I don't think of a planned dessert that fits into a sensible, calorie-appropriate day as something I shouldn't eat or a "cheat" or the like.

    You seem to be arguing that calling it "bad" and acknowledging we "shouldn't" eat them is more honest. I don't understand that way of thinking. If it works for you, whatever, but it doesn't work for me, and I think it actually makes things harder for many people, so why not say what I believe: nothing wrong with an occasional cookie. Just eat an overall nutritious diet and don't overeat.

    this^^^^^.
    If I felt I shouldn't eat something, I just wouldn't eat it. Why would you ever eat something that would make you feel bad about yourself? That seems like a path to self-loathing to me. Just don't eat it if you feel that way. There. Problem solved.

    Plan your treats and enjoy them. Nothing wrong with that at all.

    For goodness sake I have no self-loathing. If I can fit the baddies into my calories I do but I know darn well that the options hot chocolate I like before bed [full of artificial this and that] is not good for me - is that so hard to understand?

    To paraphrase Shakespeare .... a food is neither good nor bad, the mind just makes it so. Explain in logical terms how that hot chocolate "is not good for" you. Does it give you macro and micro nutrients? Can you fit it into your caloric goals for the day? If so, how is it "bad"?

    I love hot chocolate. It helps me feel sleepy. Getting a good nights sleep helps with reducing stress, which helps with weight loss and feeling more functional and coherent. By those standards, hot chocolate is good.