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  • TR0berts
    TR0berts Posts: 7,739 Member
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    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Weightloss businesses such as Weightwatchers and Slimming World have no problem defining some foods as 'bad' - Slimming World by categorising some calorie dense foods as 'syns' [sin = bad]. The new Weightwatchers plan by penalising the dieter by upping the points on foods they deem undesirable [bad]. I am sure both these organisations employ qualified nutritionists.

    Let me lay this out a second time. When I was at my strictest with weight loss and foods, I was regularly breaking into tears in restaurants while I was out with my family. I was regularly having breakdowns in my friends' driveways because I didn't know what kind of snacks they had laid out or did and knew that I couldn't moderate myself well with them. I was not in a good place and dieting, good/bad foods, were seriously affecting my mental health.

    Fortunately, my therapist saw it and insisted that I stop the diet for a while until we could work through what was going on. We also worked out some things so that I could continue losing weight without it becoming a full blown eating disorder (closing my diary at the time and accepting the foods that I eat as being neutral rather than good or bad).

    I was completely convinced by the dieting industry and posts like this one that what I was going through was normal and I would just have to suffer through it until the end. If not for my therapist, I would have continued down that path. Knowing my history, I likely would have killed myself along the way.

    Every time you put down or belittle people for not believing that foods are good or bad (and many people in this thread have made it a point to do so) this is what you believe is a healthy thing for me.

    Stop it.

    Once upon a time, I was a 12 year old boy whose mother was on WW. I retrieved an unopened bag of M&Ms from the cabinet and proceeded to attempt to open them. Watching me struggle to get the bag open, my mom became agitated at the thought that she wouldn't be allowed to have any of those M&Ms. As I continued to struggle, she became furious that I was making "such a big show" about opening a bag of something delicious that she couldn't have. So she snatched the bag out of my hand, ripped it open and said "and if you say one word about how good they are I'll shove one up your nose! It's bad enough I can't have any and here you are putting on a show about opening the bag."
    Dad, sitting next to me at the table, says "Hey, Carlos, let me have one of those." Then my dad, crazy lunatic that he is, popped the M&M into his mouth and says, "Mmm, this is sooo goooood!!"

    My mother then grabbed my dad by the face and literally shoved an M&M up his nose.



    Thank you for letting this thread not be a complete waste.
  • stealthq
    stealthq Posts: 4,298 Member
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    stealthq wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    So come on, admit it folks, there are 'bad' foods.

    I have no problem admitting it. I call foods good and bad all the time. Bad, crap, junk. I've never had anyone IRL ask we what I meant by those terms. They know. We all know.

    Isn't the point of the counter-argument that actually you don't know because there is no consensus on what 'bad' means. You know what you mean by it. Other people hear you say 'bad' and think it's what they mean by it. But in reality, it's unlikely you both are thinking the same thing.

    It's like the 'clean eating' label. No two people ever seem to mean it the same way, which makes it a meaningless term unless the personal definition is also provided.

    I think it's colloquial.

    If meanings were really so different responses would not be so consistent when specific foods are mentioned. "What's bad about my daily ice cream?" "I had chips yesterday and I'm not dead." "I eat fast food once a week and I've lost X lbs."

    There will be some arguable points but generally we all know what is meant. Whether we admit it or agree, we know.

    We're on MFP, where every two seconds someone is posting about 'is my ice cream bad?' or 'how can I eat bad food such as cake and still lose weight?'. We're bombarded with every food or ingredient anyone or any government has ever thought could be defined as bad. Even baking soda.

    People on here for any length of time would have to be complete morons to not know which foods are most commonly considered 'bad' whether they agree or not. So they respond with those and figure there's a good chance they're right.

    But then they're wrong because one poster thinks baked Lays are fine because they're lower fat and low-ish cals for a snack (plus you can get a single-portion bag! Bonus!) and the next thinks they're the worst because of the added sugar. And a third thinks they're not a problem nutritionally, it's just that they can't stop eating them - so it's just non-filling, crunchy, salty foods that are 'bad'.

    So no, we really don't know what is meant.
  • sunandmoons
    sunandmoons Posts: 415 Member
    edited January 2016
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Weightloss businesses such as Weightwatchers and Slimming World have no problem defining some foods as 'bad' - Slimming World by categorising some calorie dense foods as 'syns' [sin = bad]. The new Weightwatchers plan by penalising the dieter by upping the points on foods they deem undesirable [bad]. I am sure both these organisations employ qualified nutritionists.

    Let me lay this out a second time. When I was at my strictest with weight loss and foods, I was regularly breaking into tears in restaurants while I was out with my family. I was regularly having breakdowns in my friends' driveways because I didn't know what kind of snacks they had laid out or did and knew that I couldn't moderate myself well with them. I was not in a good place and dieting, good/bad foods, were seriously affecting my mental health.

    Fortunately, my therapist saw it and insisted that I stop the diet for a while until we could work through what was going on. We also worked out some things so that I could continue losing weight without it becoming a full blown eating disorder (closing my diary at the time and accepting the foods that I eat as being neutral rather than good or bad).

    I was completely convinced by the dieting industry and posts like this one that what I was going through was normal and I would just have to suffer through it until the end. If not for my therapist, I would have continued down that path. Knowing my history, I likely would have killed myself along the way.

    Every time you put down or belittle people for not believing that foods are good or bad (and many people in this thread have made it a point to do so) this is what you believe is a healthy thing for me.

    Stop it.

    I haven't belittled anyone. I'm sorry you have issues with your relationship with food and if I missed a previous post of yours please accept my apologies but it has been a bit busy on here.

    And you love the attention OP. YOU are the one who has food relationship issues.
  • suziecue20
    suziecue20 Posts: 567 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    VeryKatie wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    I see lots of posts stating that there are no 'bad' foods but if this is the case why do we have expressions like 'naughty but nice' when we have eaten something scrumptious we know we shouldn't have?

    I know that with CICO I could spend all or most of my daily calories on foods like full fat cheeses, cakes, pastries, biscuits [cookies], ice cream, deep fried chips [fries], sausages, fatty meat and still lose weight but at what cost to my health?

    There are lots of foods that are 'bad' but obviously only when they are eaten in high volume and too frequently.

    I eat 'bad' foods occasionally under the premise that 'a little bit of what you fancy does you good' and the fact that they stop me feeling deprived and becoming a self-righteous martyr.

    So come on, admit it folks, there are 'bad' foods.

    I do agree with you. You're more specific. But you mean the same thing as everyone who says "there are no bad foods" since all they mean is that eating a little to some of it as part of an overall balanced and healthy diet is fine.

    I still call them bad though because I differentiate between my main daily diet and my 'naughty' snacks.

    Serious question, why do you have to label them naughty? Why not just "snacks"? And what is naughty about it if it fits in your day and doesn't keep you from eating your nutritious foods?

    Valid question -Because if I didn't Steven I would eat too much of them too many times and my MFP plan would go flying out of the window - truthful answer.

    So calling a food "naughty" is simply a way to keep yourself from over-eating it? It has no meaning beyond that?

    I could easily over-eat pineapple if I didn't set goals for myself -- I find it so delicious. Does that mean you'd agree that it's accurate to call pineapple a "naughty" food?

    If I felt I could over-eat pineapple [which I actually can take or leave] then yes to me it would be naughty.

  • diannethegeek
    diannethegeek Posts: 14,776 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    VeryKatie wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    I see lots of posts stating that there are no 'bad' foods but if this is the case why do we have expressions like 'naughty but nice' when we have eaten something scrumptious we know we shouldn't have?

    I know that with CICO I could spend all or most of my daily calories on foods like full fat cheeses, cakes, pastries, biscuits [cookies], ice cream, deep fried chips [fries], sausages, fatty meat and still lose weight but at what cost to my health?

    There are lots of foods that are 'bad' but obviously only when they are eaten in high volume and too frequently.

    I eat 'bad' foods occasionally under the premise that 'a little bit of what you fancy does you good' and the fact that they stop me feeling deprived and becoming a self-righteous martyr.

    So come on, admit it folks, there are 'bad' foods.

    I do agree with you. You're more specific. But you mean the same thing as everyone who says "there are no bad foods" since all they mean is that eating a little to some of it as part of an overall balanced and healthy diet is fine.

    I still call them bad though because I differentiate between my main daily diet and my 'naughty' snacks.

    Serious question, why do you have to label them naughty? Why not just "snacks"? And what is naughty about it if it fits in your day and doesn't keep you from eating your nutritious foods?

    Valid question -Because if I didn't Steven I would eat too much of them too many times and my MFP plan would go flying out of the window - truthful answer.

    So calling a food "naughty" is simply a way to keep yourself from over-eating it? It has no meaning beyond that?

    I could easily over-eat pineapple if I didn't set goals for myself -- I find it so delicious. Does that mean you'd agree that it's accurate to call pineapple a "naughty" food?

    If I felt I could over-eat pineapple [which I actually can take or leave] then yes to me it would be naughty.

    And I could go along with that in general. Except that you're making a case all over this thread that everyone secretly has a list of naught foods or that everyone should have one. That's simply not true. And trying to make it true by twisting words or hammering your assumptions into place is belittling. Whether that was your intention or not.
  • janejellyroll
    janejellyroll Posts: 25,763 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    VeryKatie wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    I see lots of posts stating that there are no 'bad' foods but if this is the case why do we have expressions like 'naughty but nice' when we have eaten something scrumptious we know we shouldn't have?

    I know that with CICO I could spend all or most of my daily calories on foods like full fat cheeses, cakes, pastries, biscuits [cookies], ice cream, deep fried chips [fries], sausages, fatty meat and still lose weight but at what cost to my health?

    There are lots of foods that are 'bad' but obviously only when they are eaten in high volume and too frequently.

    I eat 'bad' foods occasionally under the premise that 'a little bit of what you fancy does you good' and the fact that they stop me feeling deprived and becoming a self-righteous martyr.

    So come on, admit it folks, there are 'bad' foods.

    I do agree with you. You're more specific. But you mean the same thing as everyone who says "there are no bad foods" since all they mean is that eating a little to some of it as part of an overall balanced and healthy diet is fine.

    I still call them bad though because I differentiate between my main daily diet and my 'naughty' snacks.

    Serious question, why do you have to label them naughty? Why not just "snacks"? And what is naughty about it if it fits in your day and doesn't keep you from eating your nutritious foods?

    Valid question -Because if I didn't Steven I would eat too much of them too many times and my MFP plan would go flying out of the window - truthful answer.

    So calling a food "naughty" is simply a way to keep yourself from over-eating it? It has no meaning beyond that?

    I could easily over-eat pineapple if I didn't set goals for myself -- I find it so delicious. Does that mean you'd agree that it's accurate to call pineapple a "naughty" food?

    If I felt I could over-eat pineapple [which I actually can take or leave] then yes to me it would be naughty.

    What is the point of using demonizing language like "naughty" or "bad" when what we're really trying to communicate is "this is a food I could over-eat if I wasn't careful"?

    If my food is tropical fruit and yours is hot chocolate, some else's is pork sausage, yet another person's is whole wheat pancakes -- and there is no overlap (that is, I never have to watch myself with hot chocolate or pork sausage or whole wheat pancakes), what is the benefit of using "naughty"? What does it mean to say that a food is "bad"?

    That someone, somewhere, might be tempted to over-eat it? Then every food is naughty. Every food is bad.
  • rankinsect
    rankinsect Posts: 2,238 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    VeryKatie wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    I see lots of posts stating that there are no 'bad' foods but if this is the case why do we have expressions like 'naughty but nice' when we have eaten something scrumptious we know we shouldn't have?

    I know that with CICO I could spend all or most of my daily calories on foods like full fat cheeses, cakes, pastries, biscuits [cookies], ice cream, deep fried chips [fries], sausages, fatty meat and still lose weight but at what cost to my health?

    There are lots of foods that are 'bad' but obviously only when they are eaten in high volume and too frequently.

    I eat 'bad' foods occasionally under the premise that 'a little bit of what you fancy does you good' and the fact that they stop me feeling deprived and becoming a self-righteous martyr.

    So come on, admit it folks, there are 'bad' foods.

    I do agree with you. You're more specific. But you mean the same thing as everyone who says "there are no bad foods" since all they mean is that eating a little to some of it as part of an overall balanced and healthy diet is fine.

    I still call them bad though because I differentiate between my main daily diet and my 'naughty' snacks.

    Serious question, why do you have to label them naughty? Why not just "snacks"? And what is naughty about it if it fits in your day and doesn't keep you from eating your nutritious foods?

    Valid question -Because if I didn't Steven I would eat too much of them too many times and my MFP plan would go flying out of the window - truthful answer.

    So calling a food "naughty" is simply a way to keep yourself from over-eating it? It has no meaning beyond that?

    I could easily over-eat pineapple if I didn't set goals for myself -- I find it so delicious. Does that mean you'd agree that it's accurate to call pineapple a "naughty" food?

    If I felt I could over-eat pineapple [which I actually can take or leave] then yes to me it would be naughty.

    If I called every food I could over-eat "naughty" then the only "nice" foods left would be completely unpalatable to me, and the "naughtiest" foods out there would be milk and cheese.
  • suziecue20
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    WinoGelato wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    clobern80 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Weightloss businesses such as Weightwatchers and Slimming World have no problem defining some foods as 'bad' - Slimming World by categorising some calorie dense foods as 'syns' [sin = bad]. The new Weightwatchers plan by penalising the dieter by upping the points on foods they deem undesirable [bad]. I am sure both these organisations employ qualified nutritionists.

    And want you to purchase their products.

    Totally missed the point!

    This is ironic. I think YOU are the one missing the point. You are taking your direction from both for profit businesses, like WW and Slimming World, as well as not for profit but certainly not totally unbiased organizations like the article you listed earlier stating that eating bacon every day causes cancer.

    You seem to want to form all your opinions based on (compelling) statements from large organizations (which certainly have bias and ulterior motives to convince people to follow their direction) and hold those as absolute truths. Many people in this thread have pointed out to you that the subjectivity and variability in those opinions makes them largely unhelpful as clear, defining terms which can be objectively applied across a population.

    It's fine if you want to call things "naughty" and use that as a means to help control your food intake. What is not fine is insisting that the rest of us are somehow deluded or dishonest if we don't also use that terminology to describe our own food choices.

    Other people feel as I do, so it's not 'the rest of us' but OK you don't use my terminology and I wont use yours.
  • ForecasterJason
    ForecasterJason Posts: 2,577 Member
    edited January 2016
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    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    I am absolutely flabbergasted that anyone could be so naive as to say there are bad foods.

    LOL And I feel the exact opposite.

    I am absolutely flabbergasted that anyone could be so naive as to say there are not bad foods.

    So which foods are bad? Name them and there's a thousand people who don't feel that way and another thousand who will tell you some of the foods you think are "good" are bad.
    The fact we can argue about this for so many pages, with a good dose of woo in here too to argue for "bad" foods, shows there is no such thing. It's just as arbitrary as clean and all that other stuff where ten people will have ten different ideas of what it means.
    But as I also previously stated, I've never had anyone IRL argue with it or even question what it meant. Never.
    This 100%. I too don't think I know anyone IRL who would argue against the idea that bad foods exist.

    Did you see my post about people using two different meanings of "bad" and talking past each other.

    I'm curious if you think everyone would agree that foods fall in the second meaning, which is what is being rejected. (I'd personally give you transfats, which I avoid.)

    Obviously everyone agrees that some foods aren't that nutritious. To me, that doesn't make them bad. They might be very good in the right circumstances, in fact (if they are tasty).

    Or my argument that most people just don't care enough to start an argument on the street about this kind of stuff.
    Ok, maybe not everyone I know would use the term "bad food". But I'm pretty sure people I know who buy mostly organic and non-GMO food would refer to foods such as pop tarts and other artificially colored foods as being "bad". And I'm also pretty sure I know a lot of people who would use the term "junk food" as well.
  • queenliz99
    queenliz99 Posts: 15,317 Member
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    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Weightloss businesses such as Weightwatchers and Slimming World have no problem defining some foods as 'bad' - Slimming World by categorising some calorie dense foods as 'syns' [sin = bad]. The new Weightwatchers plan by penalising the dieter by upping the points on foods they deem undesirable [bad]. I am sure both these organisations employ qualified nutritionists.

    Let me lay this out a second time. When I was at my strictest with weight loss and foods, I was regularly breaking into tears in restaurants while I was out with my family. I was regularly having breakdowns in my friends' driveways because I didn't know what kind of snacks they had laid out or did and knew that I couldn't moderate myself well with them. I was not in a good place and dieting, good/bad foods, were seriously affecting my mental health.

    Fortunately, my therapist saw it and insisted that I stop the diet for a while until we could work through what was going on. We also worked out some things so that I could continue losing weight without it becoming a full blown eating disorder (closing my diary at the time and accepting the foods that I eat as being neutral rather than good or bad).

    I was completely convinced by the dieting industry and posts like this one that what I was going through was normal and I would just have to suffer through it until the end. If not for my therapist, I would have continued down that path. Knowing my history, I likely would have killed myself along the way.

    Every time you put down or belittle people for not believing that foods are good or bad (and many people in this thread have made it a point to do so) this is what you believe is a healthy thing for me.

    Stop it.

    Once upon a time, I was a 12 year old boy whose mother was on WW. I retrieved an unopened bag of M&Ms from the cabinet and proceeded to attempt to open them. Watching me struggle to get the bag open, my mom became agitated at the thought that she wouldn't be allowed to have any of those M&Ms. As I continued to struggle, she became furious that I was making "such a big show" about opening a bag of something delicious that she couldn't have. So she snatched the bag out of my hand, ripped it open and said "and if you say one word about how good they are I'll shove one up your nose! It's bad enough I can't have any and here you are putting on a show about opening the bag."
    Dad, sitting next to me at the table, says "Hey, Carlos, let me have one of those." Then my dad, crazy lunatic that he is, popped the M&M into his mouth and says, "Mmm, this is sooo goooood!!"

    My mother then grabbed my dad by the face and literally shoved an M&M up his nose.

    Thank you for this little snippet. LOL
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    AnvilHead wrote: »
    So it is something that works for you. Great! But there are no bad foods.

    Exactly. It's one thing to say "it's a mind game that works for me because I can't help myself from bingeing". It's quite something else to insist that everybody else think in the same mind frame.

    Bingo. I don't care if someone wants to use it personally, but this thread is an argument that there is some reason everyone should accept the term for themselves. Even apart from the serious concerns that diannethegeek brings up, I think it can be extremely counterproductive for many, as it may interfere with them thinking logically and unemotionally about food or in some cases may make foods more alluring (the whole forbidden fruit thing).

    I cringe when other women feel compelled to say "being naughty" when ordering a baked good in front of me in line for coffee, and part of why is that my mother used to do that and would tell my sister and I not to tell my dad if we all stopped for a treat or lunch out, and I think the urge to hide what you are eating and to feel guilty about it which the language encourages -- yes, for some people, not all -- was not unrelated to her overeating or the overeating of others I know. It's also related to many bingeing conditions -- guilt, shame, restrictiveness, excess, the feeling that you are bad and ruined everything, so might as well eat more.

    I really think that logical, unemotional thinking about food is something to be encouraged. From that perspective, I just don't understand what's wrong with eating some ice cream in appropriate portions, so the "bad" language for it makes no sense to me.

    You are reading far too much into things - the women you refer to are just acknowledging they are knowingly going to eat something naughty - nothing shameful in that and they are like millions and millions of other people in real life.

    I have known LOTS of women who struggle with feeling shame around food choices, and it seems to be unhelpful (as it would be for me). So no, at least in some cases it's something that happens.

    "Naughty" to me is a childish word (other than the sexual implications usage). I would never say something was "naughty." Maybe that's a language difference thing, though.
  • rugbyphreak
    rugbyphreak Posts: 509 Member
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    Bad food. Good food. Whatever. When I want something, I want it, and I will not tell myself no just because it's basically sugar flavored chemicals.
  • _Terrapin_
    _Terrapin_ Posts: 4,301 Member
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    WinoGelato wrote: »
    _Terrapin_ wrote: »
    Why do people have to black and white about this? All food is good. All of it.

    You haven't tasted vegemite.

    or cottage cheese, celery, avocados, olives

    I was starting to like you B) but now, without these foods :'( life is incomplete without olives. They really aren't the pits.

    Olive you.

    I feel like an extra virgin...*blushing*
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
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    lets stop labeling foods good or bad and lets just enjoy life YOLO.. o:)

    I've lived long enough to know I can do both.

    So I just haven't lived long enough is what you're saying. Holy dismissive posts, Batman.

    IF you think no one can label foods good or bad and live a happy life, then yes.
  • Clobern80
    Clobern80 Posts: 714 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    clobern80 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Weightloss businesses such as Weightwatchers and Slimming World have no problem defining some foods as 'bad' - Slimming World by categorising some calorie dense foods as 'syns' [sin = bad]. The new Weightwatchers plan by penalising the dieter by upping the points on foods they deem undesirable [bad]. I am sure both these organisations employ qualified nutritionists.

    And want you to purchase their products.

    Totally missed the point!

    No I didn't. They label things as "bad" so you feel guilty for eating it, and instead buy their product. You only feel bad because you're told to. I eat pizza and I love it, I don't feel bad about it. I eat a candybar and I love it, I don't feel bad about it. I eat fried chicken and I love it, I don't feel bad about it.

    I felt bad when I OVERINDULGED on those (and any other) things. Not the food, the act.
  • _Terrapin_
    _Terrapin_ Posts: 4,301 Member
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    MommyL2015 wrote: »
    Why do people have to black and white about this? All food is good. All of it.

    Unless it has mold growing on it, or smells like something died. Or fell on the floor and is now covered in dog fur.


    2 out of 3 would be cheese of some sort. Where is Andrew Zimmern when you need him?
  • suziecue20
    suziecue20 Posts: 567 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Weightloss businesses such as Weightwatchers and Slimming World have no problem defining some foods as 'bad' - Slimming World by categorising some calorie dense foods as 'syns' [sin = bad]. The new Weightwatchers plan by penalising the dieter by upping the points on foods they deem undesirable [bad]. I am sure both these organisations employ qualified nutritionists.

    Let me lay this out a second time. When I was at my strictest with weight loss and foods, I was regularly breaking into tears in restaurants while I was out with my family. I was regularly having breakdowns in my friends' driveways because I didn't know what kind of snacks they had laid out or did and knew that I couldn't moderate myself well with them. I was not in a good place and dieting, good/bad foods, were seriously affecting my mental health.

    Fortunately, my therapist saw it and insisted that I stop the diet for a while until we could work through what was going on. We also worked out some things so that I could continue losing weight without it becoming a full blown eating disorder (closing my diary at the time and accepting the foods that I eat as being neutral rather than good or bad).

    I was completely convinced by the dieting industry and posts like this one that what I was going through was normal and I would just have to suffer through it until the end. If not for my therapist, I would have continued down that path. Knowing my history, I likely would have killed myself along the way.

    Every time you put down or belittle people for not believing that foods are good or bad (and many people in this thread have made it a point to do so) this is what you believe is a healthy thing for me.

    Stop it.

    I haven't belittled anyone. I'm sorry you have issues with your relationship with food and if I missed a previous post of yours please accept my apologies but it has been a bit busy on here.

    And you love the attention OP. YOU are the one who has food relationship issues.

    I get castigated for missing and not answering posts and castigated by you for answering them...hmmm


  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    Packerjohn wrote: »
    susan100df wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    So come on, admit it folks, there are 'bad' foods.

    I have no problem admitting it. I call foods good and bad all the time. Bad, crap, junk. I've never had anyone IRL ask we what I meant by those terms. They know. We all know.

    Only on MFP have I encountered the militant phenomenon of "no food is bad". I think it's whacky thinking. Not determining that some foods are bad is how I got into this predicament to begin with. And if I have a prayer of maintaining my loss, I have to continue thinking that some foods are bad for me.

    Are there obese people that gained their weight via vegetables? I've never met one.

    I don't typically quiz the obese people I meet on how they gained their weight. How would I know?

    That said, if someone eats vegetables as part of a diet that exceeds their energy consumption they will gain weight. If I burn 2,000 calories a day and eat 2,200, it isn't like my body is turning specific foods to fat. I gain weight because my total energy consumption is less than what I'm eating. It isn't like the vegetables are "free" foods. It's all contributing.

    Speak to a doctor or nutritionist about the food log of their obese patients. I doubt they would respond any of the logs they reviewed would show the patient got to that state eating too many fruits ir vegetables.

    Too many Cokes cakes, chips, Cookies coupled with too little activity will be the cause.

    No it won't be. Consuming too many calories was the cause. acaloriecounter.com/blog/why-am-i-not-losing-weight/

    Agreed. My mother never drank soda and loathed junk food. Ate nothing but lean meats (she hates bacon, FYI), fruits, veggies, whole grains ... And she's been obese her entire life because she's an emotional/binge eater.
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
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    rankinsect wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    VeryKatie wrote: »
    suziecue20 wrote: »
    I see lots of posts stating that there are no 'bad' foods but if this is the case why do we have expressions like 'naughty but nice' when we have eaten something scrumptious we know we shouldn't have?

    I know that with CICO I could spend all or most of my daily calories on foods like full fat cheeses, cakes, pastries, biscuits [cookies], ice cream, deep fried chips [fries], sausages, fatty meat and still lose weight but at what cost to my health?

    There are lots of foods that are 'bad' but obviously only when they are eaten in high volume and too frequently.

    I eat 'bad' foods occasionally under the premise that 'a little bit of what you fancy does you good' and the fact that they stop me feeling deprived and becoming a self-righteous martyr.

    So come on, admit it folks, there are 'bad' foods.

    I do agree with you. You're more specific. But you mean the same thing as everyone who says "there are no bad foods" since all they mean is that eating a little to some of it as part of an overall balanced and healthy diet is fine.

    I still call them bad though because I differentiate between my main daily diet and my 'naughty' snacks.

    Serious question, why do you have to label them naughty? Why not just "snacks"? And what is naughty about it if it fits in your day and doesn't keep you from eating your nutritious foods?

    Valid question -Because if I didn't Steven I would eat too much of them too many times and my MFP plan would go flying out of the window - truthful answer.

    So calling a food "naughty" is simply a way to keep yourself from over-eating it? It has no meaning beyond that?

    I could easily over-eat pineapple if I didn't set goals for myself -- I find it so delicious. Does that mean you'd agree that it's accurate to call pineapple a "naughty" food?

    If I felt I could over-eat pineapple [which I actually can take or leave] then yes to me it would be naughty.

    If I called every food I could over-eat "naughty" then the only "nice" foods left would be completely unpalatable to me, and the "naughtiest" foods out there would be milk and cheese.

    I'm the same way.

    We started with the statement that everyone knows some foods are naughty, but it's okay to eat them occasionally.

    Now anything you can overeat is naughty.

    So my dinner last night -- roasted chicken breast, sweet potatoes, beets, cauliflower (with some olive oil) -- is all naughty, because I only choose to eat foods I think are tasty. (I also avoid overeating by choosing to be mindful as to how much I eat.)

    The claim that "naughty"=anything you can overeat is inconsistent with the claim that we should only eat "naughty" foods occasionally. Unless the idea is that we should strive to eat mostly not palatable foods and if so, no thanks.
  • Need2Exerc1se
    Need2Exerc1se Posts: 13,575 Member
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    suziecue20 wrote: »
    Why do people have to black and white about this? All food is good. All of it.

    Oh and I suppose your statement isn't black and white.

    No it's not.

    It's not black and white to say all food is good.

    You don't understand nutrition of you think there are bad foods.

    That last sentence isn't black and white at all. ;)