Do your spouse or boyfriend look at skinnier women

trjjoy

I've never seen him look at another woman. Ever. I'm sure he looks, but he's probably super discreet about it.

pie_eyes

HeidiMightyRawr wrote: »

He looks at women he finds attractive, as do I with men I find attractive - but I don't think either of us make it obvious! Sometimes those women are skinnier, sometimes they're not. I honestly don't think their weight or size enters his head, it's more just physical attraction. If he finds them attractive, he'll look.

The way I see it, it's natural to be attracted to others. It's only bad when he disrespects you in the process...makes you feel less attractive than them, puts you down, compares you or makes a point of looking / checking them out when he knows it upsets you (there are ways to be subtle!)

If he's not doing any of those things and he makes you feel attractive, wanted, loved, I don't see the issue. Not saying it's not common to feel the way you are, lots of people do, men and women. I just think it's mostly due to insecurities on their part, which need to be addressed so you don't feel bad in the future. Because nobody deserves to feel like that.

That accept I mostly don't look at other men

Very rare for me

KeepingUpWithKari

Lol. Im ok with it cause I look at women and men hahaha

ladymuaythai

Not that I'm aware of lmao. I'm sure if I noticed his neck would get snapped