Would you take a vacation without your S.O.?

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  • huntersvonnegut
    huntersvonnegut Posts: 1,177 Member
    We've spent short periods of time apart doing our own things but not what I'd call a vacation. We love each other's company but we ain't clingy.
  • dsboohead
    dsboohead Posts: 1,899 Member
    I haven't ever. Neither has she.

    Same here :'(
  • 123tacos
    123tacos Posts: 661 Member
    When I had a SO...yup we would do seperate trips...we were both aware of our financial situation and stayed respectful...
  • orangegato
    orangegato Posts: 6,572 Member
    Yeah. Wife went on a girls trip. Turned out she went to the same place we vacationed together. But to meet a guy, not her girlfriends. She’s my ex wife now. Bad memories. But to answer the question sure I’d do a guys long weekend trip. And I’d hope that I wouldn’t go mad wondering about my SO if she went away as well. My imaginary SO of course....
  • TonyB0588
    TonyB0588 Posts: 9,520 Member
    Have you ever taken a vacation without your significant other, or have you been left at home while they go away? If so, what sort of parameters do you set as far as budget and duration?

    Vacation together certainly. I've done two business trips without her, and she's done a trip to follow up family issues without me. And those were the only three times we were apart in 30 years.

    Budget - not applicable.

    Duration - just a few days each time.
  • 123tacos
    123tacos Posts: 661 Member
    orangegato wrote: »
    Yeah. Wife went on a girls trip. Turned out she went to the same place we vacationed together. But to meet a guy, not her girlfriends. She’s my ex wife now. Bad memories. But to answer the question sure I’d do a guys long weekend trip. And I’d hope that I wouldn’t go mad wondering about my SO if she went away as well. My imaginary SO of course....

    Yup...same..but reverse it...i was sent on a girls trip ..so he could do his thang...equally divorced..surprise surprise
  • pogiguy05
    pogiguy05 Posts: 1,583 Member
    For the past 5 years I have gone on vacation to Bonaire to go scuba diving of course. Me and my dive buddy have gone for 2 weeks and my NON diving wife i dont think would like being there that long. not much else to do there but diving.

    Two weeks including air fair,hotel,rental truck, all you can breath nitrox and the marine park fee $3500. Most do a 1 week trip for half the price, but that only gives you 5 full days of diving VS 11 days when you go for 2 weeks.
  • Deisler26
    Deisler26 Posts: 357 Member
    I had one where she went to Vegas for the weekend and I went to Holland to watch football/soccer

    A few days are fine IMO, you can’t be joined at the hip
  • Roobyzooby
    Roobyzooby Posts: 189 Member
    I have done short trips away to visit family and friends as we no longer live in the country we are originally from. My hubby isnt a beach/pool person and needs to sit in the shade, and would much rather my daughter and I enjoy two weeks somewhere hot and beachy while he stays at home and potters about. My mother in law is the only one who seems to think this is odd! That said when my daughter and I fly off to the Canarys in the summer she won't enter in to my thoughts at all
  • justlog
    justlog Posts: 125 Member
    We have done it and we still do it. Most trips are together though.
  • GreenGoddess22
    GreenGoddess22 Posts: 3,818 Member
    Yes, I'm going to FL with a girlfriend for four days at the end of the month.
  • azironasun
    azironasun Posts: 137 Member
    My buddies and I go on a 10 day motorcycle trip every year, without our wives.
    'Absence makes the heart grow fonder.'
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