Ever loved somebody...

jppd47
jppd47 Posts: 737 Member
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Ever loved somebody and have them flip a 180 one day and just say they dont want it any more?
Then find out they have a history of commitment problems and run away when things get serious.
Then have them lead you on for 2 months?

feeling sucks
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  • ltgarrow
    ltgarrow Posts: 342 Member
    It happens bro, first round at the strip club is on me.:drinker:
  • nblais06
    nblais06 Posts: 376 Member
    It happens bro, first round at the strip club is on me.:drinker:

    I may be a girl. But im in for drinks and the strip club!

    I think its happened to us all at least once!
  • ltgarrow
    ltgarrow Posts: 342 Member
    You're on. There's no better cure for a broken heart than getting drunk to see and bang a stripper.
  • nblais06
    nblais06 Posts: 376 Member
    Not into girls but get me drunk enough and you never know :wink:
  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    Ever loved somebody and have them flip a 180 one day and just say they dont want it any more?
    Then find out they have a history of commitment problems and run away when things get serious.
    Only once. But he's not a bad person.
    He has issues. Don't we all?
    I made the effort, after the dust settled, to be friends.
    I don't regret our time together.
    Hopefully, one day, he'll meet the right girl and get past this.
  • Chadomaniac
    Chadomaniac Posts: 1,785 Member
    Don't take it personally mate ... Some women have heavy issues that will probably affect all their relationships. Move on
  • Stump_Likker
    Stump_Likker Posts: 2,059 Member
    I've said it before, I'll say it again:

    Sometimes people just suck.
  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    Don't take it personally mate ... Some PEOPLE have heavy issues that will probably affect all their relationships. Move on
    fyp :smile:
  • Crossfit112
    Crossfit112 Posts: 269 Member
    Don't take it personally mate ... Some women have heavy issues that will probably affect all their relationships. Move on

    This ^^
  • 2stepscloser
    2stepscloser Posts: 2,900 Member
    I think it's probably happened to all of us. I've known both women and men who have serious commitment issues. If its meant to be, let her go and she'll come back around.
  • JustPeachy044
    JustPeachy044 Posts: 770 Member
    "It's not you, it's me." kinda thing, huh. Just remember, it IS her. apparently she has issues. I guess you have to decide if you are going to hang around and hope that she works through them or cut your losses. Tough decision.
  • jppd47
    jppd47 Posts: 737 Member
    Ain't that the truth
  • So_Much_Fab
    So_Much_Fab Posts: 1,146 Member
    It sucks but better to learn that in 2 months rather than 6 or 12 or so on....
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    Mine didnt turn 180, only 90 and went with my brother.
  • GTAFrank
    GTAFrank Posts: 730 Member
    Yep ..does indeed suck. I would cover a round at the strip club as well. Lite beer only! :)
  • labeachgirl
    labeachgirl Posts: 158 Member
    It's better to know that now than after you're married with kids... Thank goodness you dodged that bullet
  • Stump_Likker
    Stump_Likker Posts: 2,059 Member
    Mine didnt turn 180, only 90 and went with my brother.

    Wow.
  • NormInv
    NormInv Posts: 3,303 Member
    Mine didnt turn 180, only 90 and went with my brother.

    Wow.

    pity sex is in order! wear your HRM
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Yup happens...

    Let them go. Move on with your life. Nothing bothers a person more than knowing you can live a happy and fulfilling life without them.
  • Ophidion
    Ophidion Posts: 2,065 Member
    Mine didnt turn 180, only 90 and went with my brother.

    Wow.

    pity sex is in order! wear your HRM

    10/10 for coping abilities
  • summertime_girl
    summertime_girl Posts: 3,945 Member
    Yeah. My husband of 19 years just left out of the blue for someone 15 years younger than he is. Totally blindsided.
  • lingading
    lingading Posts: 258 Member
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OYHL6AYAwQU

    ETA: NSFW but made me laugh considering the subject matter.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    Yeah. My husband of 19 years just left out of the blue for someone 15 years younger than he is. Totally blindsided.

    I'm so very sorry. I believe in karma.
  • Stump_Likker
    Stump_Likker Posts: 2,059 Member
    Yeah. My husband of 19 years just left out of the blue for someone 15 years younger than he is. Totally blindsided.

    I'm so very sorry. I believe in karma.

    Exactly. Karma is a big ol' *****.
  • MightyDomo
    MightyDomo Posts: 1,265 Member
    Story of my life! This happened to me last year after dating a guy for over a year and he wanted to get married... I was the hesitant one and then one day he flips the switch and decides he's not ready to commit to our relationship and runs off and then two months later he comes back and talks to be about how he is a commitment phobe and has never even gotten engaged and he should have at least once by his age have wanted to ask someone... Made me realize how much of a waste of my life that was to like him...

    If you need a drinking/strip bar/club/bar buddy and you're in my town then lemme know. I am always down for it!
  • MissEBK
    MissEBK Posts: 23
    Ever loved somebody and have them flip a 180 one day and just say they dont want it any more?
    Then find out they have a history of commitment problems and run away when things get serious.
    Then have them lead you on for 2 months?

    feeling sucks


    Yep! Feels like your heart has been ripped out and stomped on and handed back to you. It makes you question yourself and then it makes it hard to trust again. Don't let it deter you. Your soul mate is out there. I am waiting patiently on mine but I know he is out there so don't give up. Her loss!
  • thesupremeforce
    thesupremeforce Posts: 1,206 Member
    I agree with the sentiment that people do often suck. Those people rarely stop, so try not to look back or dwell too much.
  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    Mine didnt turn 180, only 90 and went with my brother.
    :cry:
    *hugs and boobie squishes*
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
    Save some for me. :smooched:
  • jppd47
    jppd47 Posts: 737 Member
    Never had this happen before. Does suck. Sorry to hear about all yours. Good to know your not alone.

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