Ever loved somebody...

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  • JustAboutDelicious_wechanged
    JustAboutDelicious_wechanged Posts: 2,486 Member
    Save some for me. :smooched:
    Always some for you. :smooched:
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    It happens bro, first round at the strip club is on me.:drinker:

    that may be where he found this girl and why he's in this problem. my former trainer and I became very close after I couldn't train with him due to my injury we became friends after his 3rd call to check up on me and realizing I was never coming back. one of the things I found out during our friendship was that he was having his heart broken repeatedly by an emotionally unavailable stripper. sad too cause he was so hot. and so kind. and so hot. and so buff. and so hot. and so smart. and so hot. Is it getting hot in here?:blushing:
  • jppd47
    jppd47 Posts: 737 Member
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  • jppd47
    jppd47 Posts: 737 Member
    It happens bro, first round at the strip club is on me.:drinker:

    that may be where he found this girl and why he's in this problem. my former trainer and I became very close after I couldn't train with him due to my injury we became friends after his 3rd call to check up on me and realizing I was never coming back. one of the things I found out during our friendship was that he was having his heart broken repeatedly by an emotionally unavailable stripper. sad too cause he was so hot. and so kind. and so hot. and so buff. and so hot. and so smart. and so hot. Is it getting hot in here?:blushing:


    Ouch. Never been a fan of strip clubs here
  • Iknewyouweretrouble
    Iknewyouweretrouble Posts: 561 Member
    tell us some more about this cold heartless girl
  • ladyark
    ladyark Posts: 1,101 Member
    Ever loved somebody and have them flip a 180 one day and just say they dont want it any more?
    Then find out they have a history of commitment problems and run away when things get serious.
    Then have them lead you on for 2 months?

    feeling sucks

    I'm sorry that you had to go through this :(
    Im not really a strip club or drinking kind of person but, heres :flowerforyou: ( supposed to be an emoticon?) and a hug! You will be okay ....
  • jppd47
    jppd47 Posts: 737 Member
    tell us some more about this cold heartless girl

    Never said she was heartless, just sucks to find out about her commitment problems after I loved her.

    Meh, time heals all wounds right
  • legreene515
    legreene515 Posts: 276 Member
    Yes. Dated for 3 years. Sucked balls, because he was not a commitment fan, so he was on and off the whole time and I put him on a stupid pedestal. It took me 10 years to get over him and realize that he was not the "one," because if he were he wouldn't have treated me that way! I don't believe in the one now...just the one you decide to be with and make it work, because that's what a committed relationship is about: making it work, commitment, companionship and love.
  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    tell us some more about this cold heartless girl

    Never said she was heartless, just sucks to find out about her commitment problems after I loved her.

    Meh, time heals all wounds right
    i like your attitude.
  • lilRicki
    lilRicki Posts: 4,555 Member
    No, I have a little more pride then to let someone treat me like a piece of *kitten* because I'm stupid enough to fall in love. I fell in love with a man that deserves it, and we both work damn hard to maintain it. I didn't run around romanticizing constantly about being in love, and hoping that one day it would happen. If you let her treat you like that, she's going to continue to treat you like that. How about you grab some confidence and stop being a door mat?


    Hope you've learned to be a little more cautious now...maybe get to know them before you confess your love
  • PapasMaMitas
    PapasMaMitas Posts: 17
    Ever loved somebody and have them flip a 180 one day and just say they dont want it any more?
    Then find out they have a history of commitment problems and run away when things get serious.
    Then have them lead you on for 2 months?

    feeling sucks

    no
  • SarahofTwins
    SarahofTwins Posts: 1,169 Member
    Live, love, learn...move on:drinker:
  • kkclif
    kkclif Posts: 155 Member
    Mine didnt turn 180, only 90 and went with my brother.

    :flowerforyou:
  • Zangpakto
    Zangpakto Posts: 336 Member
    Love sucks and everybody lies...
  • Trueray
    Trueray Posts: 1,189 Member
    Life sucks bro. That's what your hand and some porn is for. Moments like this.
  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    No, I have a little more pride then to let someone treat me like a piece of *kitten* because I'm stupid enough to fall in love. I fell in love with a man that deserves it, and we both work damn hard to maintain it. I didn't run around romanticizing constantly about being in love, and hoping that one day it would happen. If you let her treat you like that, she's going to continue to treat you like that. How about you grab some confidence and stop being a door mat?


    Hope you've learned to be a little more cautious now...maybe get to know them before you confess your love
    that post is dumb.

    unless you're a mind reader, anyone can be fooled. especially as sometimes that person is fooling themselves too.

    how is it being a doormat to get dumped?
  • AspiringPinkPinUp
    AspiringPinkPinUp Posts: 448
    It happens bro, first round at the strip club is on me.:drinker:

    I may be a girl. But im in for drinks and the strip club!

    I think its happened to us all at least once!

    I wanna go!! Let's do this! :drinker:
  • bio01979
    bio01979 Posts: 313
    that sucks :( some people just suck :(

    you will find someone that you love that is willing/able to commit :)
  • bio01979
    bio01979 Posts: 313
    No, I have a little more pride then to let someone treat me like a piece of *kitten* because I'm stupid enough to fall in love. I fell in love with a man that deserves it, and we both work damn hard to maintain it. I didn't run around romanticizing constantly about being in love, and hoping that one day it would happen. If you let her treat you like that, she's going to continue to treat you like that. How about you grab some confidence and stop being a door mat?


    Hope you've learned to be a little more cautious now...maybe get to know them before you confess your love

    that's just ridiculous, a person should just prevent themselves from falling in love until they know that the other person loves them? Well that would never work because everyone would be waiting for hte other person to fall in love

    that is an emotionally closed off way to live.

    I mean, don't fall in love with everyone you date (stage 5 clinger alert) but I do think not being closed off is a good thing :)
  • lilRicki
    lilRicki Posts: 4,555 Member
    You can't tell me there were no red flags, or just a whiff of crazy? I didn't say to wait for the other person to fall in love, I said don't be stupid and keep your eyes open
  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    You can't tell me there were no red flags, or just a whiff of crazy? I didn't say to wait for the other person to fall in love, I said don't be stupid and keep your eyes open
    everyone has a whiff of crazy.
    ...unless they're too dumb to be.
  • jppd47
    jppd47 Posts: 737 Member
    You can't tell me there were no red flags, or just a whiff of crazy? I didn't say to wait for the other person to fall in love, I said don't be stupid and keep your eyes open
    everyone has a whiff of crazy.
    ...unless they're too dumb to be.

    Truth
  • PinkyKiwii
    PinkyKiwii Posts: 512 Member
    Yes :cry:

    Am I the only one that goes from feeling depressed to :mad: to :explode: then back to depressed? :grumble:
  • irvisscott
    irvisscott Posts: 18 Member
    I was married 13 years, my ex met someone she thought was a billionaire and I was kicked out of the house a week later. She said the two things had nothing to do with each other , that we were drifting apart and had different goals, but I was under the impression things were going fairly well. He turned out to be no where near that well off , then his company went under and last I heard he was broke. I found this rather amusing.
  • mestacy010
    mestacy010 Posts: 577 Member
    Ever loved somebody and have them flip a 180 one day and just say they dont want it any more?
    Then find out they have a history of commitment problems and run away when things get serious.
    Then have them lead you on for 2 months?

    feeling sucks

    Yep, happened about four months ago, broke mine and my sons heart


    I'm healing fine... My son on the other hand..
  • NoeHead
    NoeHead Posts: 516 Member
    :( sorry that you're going through this. I along with many others on here have gone through that. I don't know what it was about this one dude, but after he decided he didn't want to see me anymore all I could do was lay in my bed and cry. two weeks later I got laid off from my 8-5 office job. that same week, I met a guy who worked night shifts doing IT work. We're now married. The point is no matter how cliché this sounds, things happen for a reason. For one I totally give you props for being able to be strong enough to admit you loved her. A lot of people I know including me took forever to do that.

    somehow all the crappy feelings you have right now will be all worth it when the one meant for you loves you as much as you love her.

    sorry for sounding...mushy but I hope this helps....on random news...strip bars a tons of fun!
  • jppd47
    jppd47 Posts: 737 Member
    Having a kid adds a nither level to it. My daughter is strong but it makes your heartbreak again trying to explain it.
  • mestacy010
    mestacy010 Posts: 577 Member
    Having a kid adds a nither level to it. My daughter is strong but it makes your heartbreak again trying to explain it.

    Yes dealing with their pain and anger, is the worse part of it all
  • marieskee
    marieskee Posts: 120 Member
    Ever loved somebody and have them flip a 180 one day and just say they dont want it any more?
    Then find out they have a history of commitment problems and run away when things get serious.
    Then have them lead you on for 2 months?

    feeling sucks

    Commitment issues can run deep.
    The best thing you can do is love that person from a distance. Try to put yourself first because you can NOT change
    someone who does not want to change.
  • sparkly86
    sparkly86 Posts: 520 Member
    yes, and will not again.

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