Girl trouble at work?

sixibabey

when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

CountingCaloriesSuxass

3 years younger?? You are kidding, right...unless you're 16 and she is 13, wtf is the problem

skullshank

when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

TyTy76

when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

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BrainyBurro

when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

not everyone sees it that way.

for example,

- the police
- judges
- juries
- prison wardens

yo_andi

when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

*I
*boyfriends
*you're

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*LOL'd
*for sure

Lone_Wolf70

3 years younger?? You are kidding, right...unless you're 16 and she is 13, wtf is the problem

Her dad mightbe the problem. lol

celtbell3

I have a policy of not dating guys I work with, it's just a bad career move.

Agreed: Potential Problem with a BIG "P"

__delete

when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

*I
*boyfriends
*you're

SRS
no
wai

erickirb

Club her over the head and drag her back to your apartment

TyTy76

when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

*I
*boyfriends
*you're

SRS
no
wai

SRS

rml_16

Depends on where you live, in some places age of consent laws are 16. Three year age difference is nothing, especially with a 20-year-old and 17-year-old.

I would say be extremely cautious of a situation like this, you don't want a sexual harassment complaint against you, especially if she is still considered a minor in your jurisdiction.

Legally maybe. Emotionally, not a good idea I think. Just my opinion.

Unless you actually know the parties involved, you can't know that. Some people mature faster than others. I've always dated older (up to 15 years when I wasa 19). My daughter's father was 20 when I was 17 and there wasn't a maturity difference between us. We were the same level of dumb, though, clearly. :-)

Either way, OP, it sounds like she's not interested. Not even a little. Back off.

Factory_Reset

when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

*I
*boyfriends
*you're

I you

Stump_Likker

Depends on where you live, in some places age of consent laws are 16. Three year age difference is nothing, especially with a 20-year-old and 17-year-old.

I would say be extremely cautious of a situation like this, you don't want a sexual harassment complaint against you, especially if she is still considered a minor in your jurisdiction.

Legally maybe. Emotionally, not a good idea I think. Just my opinion.

Unless you actually know the parties involved, you can't know that. Some people mature faster than others. I've always dated older (up to 15 years when I wasa 19). My daughter's father was 20 when I was 17 and there wasn't a maturity difference between us. We were the same level of dumb, though, clearly. :-)

Either way, OP, it sounds like she's not interested. Not even a little. Back off.

We were the same level of dumb, though, clearly. :-)

My point exactly

zyxst

when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

not everyone sees it that way.

for example,

- the police
- judges
- juries
- prison wardens

I was just going to post similarly.

OP, if she's under 18 (whatever the age of legal majority is where you live), just wait. The hassle of living life with statutory rape on your police record is not worth it.

TyTy76

when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

*I
*boyfriends
*you're

I you

tcunbeliever

2. Everytime i suggest we hang out or do something she comes up with an excuse of some kind, we have gone for a walk and lunch a few times but recently nothing

If you ask a girl out and she is interested, but busy, she will usually offer an alternative...such as...oh, I'd really love to but Friday just isn't going to work for me, would Saturday be ok...if she isn't suggesting an alternative then she isn't really interested, she's just trying to be polite...be nice, be friends, look elsewhere for a relationship...

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when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

*I
*boyfriends
*you're

SRS
no
wai

SRS

rml_16

Depends on where you live, in some places age of consent laws are 16. Three year age difference is nothing, especially with a 20-year-old and 17-year-old.

I would say be extremely cautious of a situation like this, you don't want a sexual harassment complaint against you, especially if she is still considered a minor in your jurisdiction.

Legally maybe. Emotionally, not a good idea I think. Just my opinion.

Unless you actually know the parties involved, you can't know that. Some people mature faster than others. I've always dated older (up to 15 years when I wasa 19). My daughter's father was 20 when I was 17 and there wasn't a maturity difference between us. We were the same level of dumb, though, clearly. :-)

Either way, OP, it sounds like she's not interested. Not even a little. Back off.

We were the same level of dumb, though, clearly. :-)

My point exactly

If that is your point, then teenagers shouldn't date anyone, ever, regardless of age. Your point was he's too mature for her based on age. That's a different argument.

Factory_Reset

when i was 16-17 i had a lot of older bfs in there 20s and 30s age is just a number if ur mature

*I
*boyfriends
*you're

I you

:grumble: I thought I was already.