Look But Don't Touch

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Justpeachy02
Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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Thoughts on this old saying?!
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  • Peter_Brady
    Peter_Brady Posts: 3,750 Member
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    ejinvt wrote: »
    As it applies to...?

    What he says
  • cathed42
    cathed42 Posts: 88 Member
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    And the point is?.......
  • meredithgir199
    meredithgir199 Posts: 243 Member
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    Only as it applies to infidelity
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    I'm just saying that I've heard men say this but then get really jealous when the shoe is on the other foot.
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    sunn_lighter wrote: »
    are you trying to ask men if they mind if women watch porn

    No. I'm asking how people feel about this quote. Are you totally okay with the you can look but don't touch thing. Because most people say they are but then get really jealous, especially men if we as women say for instance talk about another mans looks. But it's totally okay when they talk about other women.
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    Big_Gulps_Huh wrote: »
    I prefer touch but don't look.

    To each their own I guess. Lol

  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    Big_Gulps_Huh wrote: »
    The old double standard. People are going to look. It's human nature. Nothing wrong with it.

    Exactly!
  • DearestWinter
    DearestWinter Posts: 595 Member
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    Isn't this what you tell kids at the museum? I have never heard it in reference to relationships.
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    DearestWinter wrote: »
    Isn't this what you tell kids at the museum? I have never heard it in reference to relationships.
    I've heard many ( especially male ) friends say this who are in relationships throughout the years
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    Just wanted honest input from men on how they really feel about their SO when it comes to this? If you notice them looking- jealous or no?!
  • DearestWinter
    DearestWinter Posts: 595 Member
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    I think everyone can look but it has to be discreet. It's important to me to not date a cretin who makes women uncomfortable by leering at them. I'd hope he thinks the same of me. And if the looking is discreet then chances that the other person will notice are slim.
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    DearestWinter wrote: »
    I think everyone can look but it has to be discreet. It's important to me to not date a cretin who makes women uncomfortable by leering at them. I'd hope he thinks the same of me. And if the looking is discreet then chances that the other person will notice are slim.
    Right on! There's a big difference in noticing than gawking. We've been out with friends when the gawking is quite noticeable and uncomfortable.
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    Big_Gulps_Huh wrote: »
    Unfortunately, I've been told, that when I have too many adult beverages I tend to gawk a bit. Sorry ladies.

    Lol....
  • DaddieCat
    DaddieCat Posts: 3,646 Member
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    https://youtu.be/TTIaRZYdGJo
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 48,529 Member
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    Personally, if my DW wants to oogle at other men, I don't care. I'm not insecure and untrusting, so I don't feel any jealousy at all.

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  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
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    Sounds like you have an issue with a specific person in your life? Maybe you should discuss it with him.

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