Look But Don't Touch
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lynnismynameshoppingmygame wrote: »sunnybeaches105 wrote: »lynnismynameshoppingmygame wrote: »This has always been mine and my husbands thoughts as well. A girlfriend of mine was just denying she looks at other men. Myself and other girlfriends were like " yeah right " I think it's just human nature to notice an appealing person. No harm no foul!
Sounds like my wife and me. Is your girlfriend in a new relationship?
No been married almost 20 years. My girlfriends and I included her in a group text where we were looking at a photo of a certain male whom we all think is great looking and she told us to grow up! Haha alrighty then. Mind you we are all late 30's-40's just having a little fun.
Some people are more uncomfortable than others I suppose0 -
sunnybeaches105 wrote: »lynnismynameshoppingmygame wrote: »sunnybeaches105 wrote: »lynnismynameshoppingmygame wrote: »This has always been mine and my husbands thoughts as well. A girlfriend of mine was just denying she looks at other men. Myself and other girlfriends were like " yeah right " I think it's just human nature to notice an appealing person. No harm no foul!
Sounds like my wife and me. Is your girlfriend in a new relationship?
No been married almost 20 years. My girlfriends and I included her in a group text where we were looking at a photo of a certain male whom we all think is great looking and she told us to grow up! Haha alrighty then. Mind you we are all late 30's-40's just having a little fun.
Some people are more uncomfortable than others I suppose
I guess. We will leave her out of the group texts. Lol0 -
Looking AT someone is fine, looking FOR someone is not. Neither is touching. I think it's unreasonable to not look at other people. Beauty on all levels should be appreciated.0
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MsAmandaNJ wrote: »Looking AT someone is fine, looking FOR someone is not. Neither is touching. I think it's unreasonable to not look at other people. Beauty on all levels should be appreciated.
Agree0 -
I thought this was going to be about food.0
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Iguessicandothis wrote: »I thought this was going to be about food.
Pervert0 -
Show us on the doll where the bad person touched you.0
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I think this depends on the situation
Children at a store with glass objects and a sign that says you break it, you buy it.... DON'T TOUCH
Anything that I spent money on and you have no respect for- DON'T TOUCH
My significant other- DON'T TOUCH
Flowers in my garden or on a tree outside my house- as long as you don't take them all and cut them at the right angle you can touch
My dog- as long as you don't hurt her or try to steal her, you can touch.
My toothbrush, toothpaste, shower accessories, or clothes- DON'T TOUCH
In a relationship though as it applies to other people. I think it's okay to look or say you have crushes on celebrities but not to touch definitely. I feel it's more respectful to only look when not with your s/o though. I don't want to be sitting across from him at a meal while he's looking at every female that walks past us.0 -
Jealousy comes from insecurity, I'm secure and it does not make me jealous, I tease her about it in fact (just like she teases me in return). However I have been in a relationship were I was not secure and it did make me jealous when my ex-wife commented about another man. It has to do with how secure one is (I'm also 10 years older, perhaps that makes more security)0
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Staceym2112 wrote: »I think this depends on the situation
Children at a store with glass objects and a sign that says you break it, you buy it.... DON'T TOUCH
Anything that I spent money on and you have no respect for- DON'T TOUCH
My significant other- DON'T TOUCH
Flowers in my garden or on a tree outside my house- as long as you don't take them all and cut them at the right angle you can touch
My dog- as long as you don't hurt her or try to steal her, you can touch.
My toothbrush, toothpaste, shower accessories, or clothes- DON'T TOUCH
In a relationship though as it applies to other people. I think it's okay to look or say you have crushes on celebrities but not to touch definitely. I feel it's more respectful to only look when not with your s/o though. I don't want to be sitting across from him at a meal while he's looking at every female that walks past us.
Yes!0 -
Jealousy comes from insecurity, I'm secure and it does not make me jealous, I tease her about it in fact (just like she teases me in return). However I have been in a relationship were I was not secure and it did make me jealous when my ex-wife commented about another man. It has to do with how secure one is (I'm also 10 years older, perhaps that makes more security)
This is the honesty I was looking for from a man's point of view0 -
I doubt you'll find anyone (if they are truly being honest) of not having a FANTASY FLING in their mind with someone other than their SO.
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Jealousy comes from insecurity, I'm secure and it does not make me jealous, I tease her about it in fact (just like she teases me in return). However I have been in a relationship were I was not secure and it did make me jealous when my ex-wife commented about another man. It has to do with how secure one is (I'm also 10 years older, perhaps that makes more security)
All of this is true, but I think it also depends on how much the significant other is commenting as well. If he/she keeps going on and on, then it can become an annoyance.0 -
MasterBroshi wrote: »Jealousy comes from insecurity, I'm secure and it does not make me jealous, I tease her about it in fact (just like she teases me in return). However I have been in a relationship were I was not secure and it did make me jealous when my ex-wife commented about another man. It has to do with how secure one is (I'm also 10 years older, perhaps that makes more security)
All of this is true, but I think it also depends on how much the significant other is commenting as well. If he/she keeps going on and on, then it can become an annoyance.
Oh yes, very true0 -
I doubt you'll find anyone (if they are truly being honest) of not having a FANTASY FLING in their mind with someone other than their SO.
A.C.E. Certified Personal and Group Fitness Trainer
IDEA Fitness member
Kickboxing Certified Instructor
Been in fitness for 30 years and have studied kinesiology and nutrition
Thanks for the honesty0
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