Look But Don't Touch

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  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
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    Thoughts on this old saying?!

    What about blind people?
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    Sounds like you have an issue with a specific person in your life? Maybe you should discuss it with him.
    Oh no! Not at all. Just a discussion my girlfriends and I were having.
  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
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    Sounds like you have an issue with a specific person in your life? Maybe you should discuss it with him.
    Oh no! Not at all. Just a discussion my girlfriends and I were having.

    Do you touch your girlfriends?
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    This just got weird.

    Ummm yes it did
  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
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    Sounds like you have an issue with a specific person in your life? Maybe you should discuss it with him.
    Oh no! Not at all. Just a discussion my girlfriends and I were having.

    Men enjoy looking at women and women enjoy looking at men. I don't see the issue so long as no one is slack jawed or weird about it.
  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
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    Sounds like you have an issue with a specific person in your life? Maybe you should discuss it with him.
    Oh no! Not at all. Just a discussion my girlfriends and I were having.

    Men enjoy looking at women and women enjoy looking at men. I don't see the issue so long as no one is slack jawed or weird about it.

    Slack jawed or weird? Which one would 'hiding in the bushes' fall under?
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    This has always been mine and my husbands thoughts as well. A girlfriend of mine was just denying she looks at other men. Myself and other girlfriends were like " yeah right " I think it's just human nature to notice an appealing person. No harm no foul!
  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
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    This has always been mine and my husbands thoughts as well. A girlfriend of mine was just denying she looks at other men. Myself and other girlfriends were like " yeah right " I think it's just human nature to notice an appealing person. No harm no foul!

    Sounds like my wife and me. Is your girlfriend in a new relationship?
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    This has always been mine and my husbands thoughts as well. A girlfriend of mine was just denying she looks at other men. Myself and other girlfriends were like " yeah right " I think it's just human nature to notice an appealing person. No harm no foul!

    Sounds like my wife and me. Is your girlfriend in a new relationship?

    No been married almost 20 years. My girlfriends and I included her in a group text where we were looking at a photo of a certain male whom we all think is great looking and she told us to grow up! Haha alrighty then. Mind you we are all late 30's-40's just having a little fun.
  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
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    This has always been mine and my husbands thoughts as well. A girlfriend of mine was just denying she looks at other men. Myself and other girlfriends were like " yeah right " I think it's just human nature to notice an appealing person. No harm no foul!

    Sounds like my wife and me. Is your girlfriend in a new relationship?

    No been married almost 20 years. My girlfriends and I included her in a group text where we were looking at a photo of a certain male whom we all think is great looking and she told us to grow up! Haha alrighty then. Mind you we are all late 30's-40's just having a little fun.

    Some people are more uncomfortable than others I suppose
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    This has always been mine and my husbands thoughts as well. A girlfriend of mine was just denying she looks at other men. Myself and other girlfriends were like " yeah right " I think it's just human nature to notice an appealing person. No harm no foul!

    Sounds like my wife and me. Is your girlfriend in a new relationship?

    No been married almost 20 years. My girlfriends and I included her in a group text where we were looking at a photo of a certain male whom we all think is great looking and she told us to grow up! Haha alrighty then. Mind you we are all late 30's-40's just having a little fun.

    Some people are more uncomfortable than others I suppose

    I guess. We will leave her out of the group texts. Lol
  • MsAmandaNJ
    MsAmandaNJ Posts: 1,248 Member
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    Looking AT someone is fine, looking FOR someone is not. Neither is touching. I think it's unreasonable to not look at other people. Beauty on all levels should be appreciated.
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    MsAmandaNJ wrote: »
    Looking AT someone is fine, looking FOR someone is not. Neither is touching. I think it's unreasonable to not look at other people. Beauty on all levels should be appreciated.

    Agree
  • Iguessicandothis
    Iguessicandothis Posts: 2,132 Member
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    I thought this was going to be about food.
  • ncboiler89
    ncboiler89 Posts: 2,408 Member
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    I thought this was going to be about food.

    Pervert
  • DaddieCat
    DaddieCat Posts: 3,646 Member
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    Show us on the doll where the bad person touched you.
  • Staceym2112
    Staceym2112 Posts: 892 Member
    edited April 2016
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    I think this depends on the situation

    Children at a store with glass objects and a sign that says you break it, you buy it.... DON'T TOUCH

    Anything that I spent money on and you have no respect for- DON'T TOUCH

    My significant other- DON'T TOUCH

    Flowers in my garden or on a tree outside my house- as long as you don't take them all and cut them at the right angle you can touch

    My dog- as long as you don't hurt her or try to steal her, you can touch.

    My toothbrush, toothpaste, shower accessories, or clothes- DON'T TOUCH

    In a relationship though as it applies to other people. I think it's okay to look or say you have crushes on celebrities but not to touch definitely. I feel it's more respectful to only look when not with your s/o though. I don't want to be sitting across from him at a meal while he's looking at every female that walks past us.
  • tony56pr
    tony56pr Posts: 141 Member
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    Jealousy comes from insecurity, I'm secure and it does not make me jealous, I tease her about it in fact (just like she teases me in return). However I have been in a relationship were I was not secure and it did make me jealous when my ex-wife commented about another man. It has to do with how secure one is (I'm also 10 years older, perhaps that makes more security)
  • Justpeachy02
    Justpeachy02 Posts: 11,817 Member
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    I think this depends on the situation

    Children at a store with glass objects and a sign that says you break it, you buy it.... DON'T TOUCH

    Anything that I spent money on and you have no respect for- DON'T TOUCH

    My significant other- DON'T TOUCH

    Flowers in my garden or on a tree outside my house- as long as you don't take them all and cut them at the right angle you can touch

    My dog- as long as you don't hurt her or try to steal her, you can touch.

    My toothbrush, toothpaste, shower accessories, or clothes- DON'T TOUCH

    In a relationship though as it applies to other people. I think it's okay to look or say you have crushes on celebrities but not to touch definitely. I feel it's more respectful to only look when not with your s/o though. I don't want to be sitting across from him at a meal while he's looking at every female that walks past us.

    Yes!