Look But Don't Touch

sunnybeaches105 wrote: »

lynnismynameshoppingmygame wrote: »

sunnybeaches105 wrote: »

lynnismynameshoppingmygame wrote: »

This has always been mine and my husbands thoughts as well. A girlfriend of mine was just denying she looks at other men. Myself and other girlfriends were like " yeah right " I think it's just human nature to notice an appealing person. No harm no foul!

Sounds like my wife and me. Is your girlfriend in a new relationship?

No been married almost 20 years. My girlfriends and I included her in a group text where we were looking at a photo of a certain male whom we all think is great looking and she told us to grow up! Haha alrighty then. Mind you we are all late 30's-40's just having a little fun.

Some people are more uncomfortable than others I suppose

MsAmandaNJ wrote: »

Looking AT someone is fine, looking FOR someone is not. Neither is touching. I think it's unreasonable to not look at other people. Beauty on all levels should be appreciated.

Staceym2112 wrote: »

I think this depends on the situation

Children at a store with glass objects and a sign that says you break it, you buy it.... DON'T TOUCH

Anything that I spent money on and you have no respect for- DON'T TOUCH

My significant other- DON'T TOUCH

Flowers in my garden or on a tree outside my house- as long as you don't take them all and cut them at the right angle you can touch

My dog- as long as you don't hurt her or try to steal her, you can touch.

My toothbrush, toothpaste, shower accessories, or clothes- DON'T TOUCH

In a relationship though as it applies to other people. I think it's okay to look or say you have crushes on celebrities but not to touch definitely. I feel it's more respectful to only look when not with your s/o though. I don't want to be sitting across from him at a meal while he's looking at every female that walks past us.

MasterBroshi wrote: »

tony56pr wrote: »

Jealousy comes from insecurity, I'm secure and it does not make me jealous, I tease her about it in fact (just like she teases me in return). However I have been in a relationship were I was not secure and it did make me jealous when my ex-wife commented about another man. It has to do with how secure one is (I'm also 10 years older, perhaps that makes more security)

All of this is true, but I think it also depends on how much the significant other is commenting as well. If he/she keeps going on and on, then it can become an annoyance.