My wife is at a plateau...

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  • jemhh
    jemhh Posts: 14,261 Member
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    Fuzzipeg wrote: »
    My first thought, I'm pleased to say wrongly, was domestic abuse. This is a pet hate of mine and I would hope everyone else's. My first picture was of a man deciding his wife was not loosing to the weight or shape he wanted her to be, trying to use a forum like this to support his expectations.

    I can well understand someone not being at ease with things on here. I'm only able to say what I think but not add pictures, links, bold, quote, whatever.

    That was one jaw-dropping leap you made. Sheesh.
  • Fuzzipeg
    Fuzzipeg Posts: 2,300 Member
    edited April 2016
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    Sorry, when it, domestic abuse happens to someone you know and you discover its not easy to get out of, Its the pits. To react as I did shows to my mind that I actually care for the partner, even though I have been proved wrong I had to question his not her posting. Emotional control is just as damaging when it happens as actual violence.
  • MommyMeggo
    MommyMeggo Posts: 1,222 Member
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    Fuzzipeg wrote: »
    My first thought, I'm pleased to say wrongly, was domestic abuse. This is a pet hate of mine and I would hope everyone else's. My first picture was of a man deciding his wife was not loosing to the weight or shape he wanted her to be, trying to use a forum like this to support his expectations.

    I can well understand someone not being at ease with things on here. I'm only able to say what I think but not add pictures, links, bold, quote, whatever.

    Whoa nelly. O.o
    ...lets not take a turn to Negative Town with your own issues projecting on innocent people. You could have easily kept that to yourself.
  • MommyMeggo
    MommyMeggo Posts: 1,222 Member
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    Fuzzipeg wrote: »
    Sorry, when it, domestic abuse happens to someone you know and you discover its not easy to get out of, Its the pits. To react as I did shows to my mind that I actually care for the partner, even though I have been proved wrong I had to question his not her posting. Emotional control is just as damaging when it happens as actual violence.

    I would have no problem posting a question for my better half to get help from the MFP community since he isnt a poster and I am. I would be ticked had someone thought I had him in the basement<which we dont have> chained to our treadmill<which we also dont have> withholding lunch until he finished his run <which he also doesnt do>.
  • bogwoppt1
    bogwoppt1 Posts: 159 Member
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    Yeah, I was just seeing supportive partner. No wonder people do not like posting on forums.
  • Oversyte
    Oversyte Posts: 482 Member
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    @Fuzzipeg
    Ohhh, I understand... no, that's not the case. But I'm glad you put that in perspective. This really happened before?? Or IS happening? That's quite unsettling... I apologize for causing the thought of it...

    @kshama2001
    I want to share her info, but I don't want to give it out if she's not ready to deal with other people. She likes doing things on her time. I respect that. Since she asked me for help that I didnt have the answers to, I asked them here.
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 27,996 Member
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    Oversyte wrote: »
    @kshama2001
    I want to share her info, but I don't want to give it out if she's not ready to deal with other people. She likes doing things on her time. I respect that. Since she asked me for help that I didnt have the answers to, I asked them here.

    That's fine. Let her know we can give better advice when we can see someone's diary.

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