Any advice for someone who hates exercise ?

sophiemaecoates1996
sophiemaecoates1996 Posts: 8 Member
edited December 1 in Fitness and Exercise
I hate exercise and have failed to fing anything that i enjoy any advice?
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  • lemonychild
    lemonychild Posts: 654 Member
    make a deficit with food only
  • Sabine_Stroehm
    Sabine_Stroehm Posts: 19,263 Member
    Walk
  • ShodanPrime
    ShodanPrime Posts: 226 Member
    I hate exercise and have failed to fing anything that i enjoy any advice?

    Learn to like it. It's not bad. Getting strong and fit let's you make other things in life a breeze.
  • Adi4Fitness
    Adi4Fitness Posts: 97 Member
    make a deficit with food only
    + Go Low carb high fat
    + walk to do your groceries
  • ShodanPrime
    ShodanPrime Posts: 226 Member
    make a deficit with food only
    + Go Low carb high fat
    + walk to do your groceries

    Lchf isn't special. You can go lfhc and get similar results.
  • rankinsect
    rankinsect Posts: 2,238 Member
    edited April 2016
    You don't really NEED to exercise... but it is a very good idea. Not for weight loss, you could do that in other ways, but for overall physical fitness.

    You don't need to be crazy about it, either. My scheduled exercise is slightly under 3 hours per week (about 50 minutes x 3 days). Beyond that, I often do things I enjoy, like taking walks, but I do this for pleasure, not for the fact I feel like I need to.

    Sports in general are a great way to build fitness and do something fun - do you like any in particular? I'm personally fond of tennis, but pick something you like, and find groups in your area that like the same thing.
  • MeanderingMammal
    MeanderingMammal Posts: 7,866 Member
    I hate exercise and have failed to fing anything that i enjoy any advice?

    What is it you don't enjoy?

    In the absence of anything useful you're just going to get the thread of random nonsense tbh
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    I hate exercise and have failed to fing anything that i enjoy any advice?

    What is it you don't enjoy?

    In the absence of anything useful you're just going to get the thread of random nonsense tbh

    Agreed.

    What don't you like about exercise?
  • Therealobi1
    Therealobi1 Posts: 3,262 Member
    I hate exercise and have failed to fing anything that i enjoy any advice?

    Learn to like it. It's not bad. Getting strong and fit let's you make other things in life a breeze.

    I agree with this
    i still havent found anything i love, but what i love is the feeling of being stronger and fit. Not being out of breath after a few seconds of doing not much. Also if its the sweating issue, it comes out in the shower
  • R_is_for_Rachel
    R_is_for_Rachel Posts: 381 Member
    I don't exercise per say, but I try and walk as much as possible and I've started cycling to town rather than driving. Just need to incorporate it into your day. Walk up stairs rather than using the elevator, etc. Get a fit bit as it will encourage you more.
  • californiagirl2012
    californiagirl2012 Posts: 2,625 Member
    I hated exercise a long time ago. When you push through to let your body adapt and your life becomes empowered then you have a reason to keep doing it. If you don't step into action and push through to that point it will remain drudgery.
  • Dula73
    Dula73 Posts: 29 Member
    I keep motivated by exercising with friends a couple of times a week and through that got into doing it on my own.

    Also I respond well when I can monitor my progress - lifting weights and I completed C25k. When I can actively record my progress (adding weight or reps and running a bit further each time) I find it more satisfying than doing a class.
  • Eating at a calorie defeciet for sure, and then try to do things like go for long walks or go hiking or bike riding. All are great excersize even if you don't look at them as such.
  • heyaberg wrote: »
    I hated exercise as well - Used to donate to my gym every month.
    I accidentally stumbled into a pole dancing class and now I'm hooked. It's the most fun I've ever had and because of it I'm now showing up to the gym to get more strength for the more advanced moves :D
    Try to find something you love, try pole dancing, ballet, ballroom dancing or what ever you think you might enjoy :D

    I have never really thought outside the box its defintly something i would consider :)
  • Also I do second what someone else said above. I used to HATE excersizing until I started forcing myself to go to the gym, and now I just love how it makes me feel! I feel myself getting stronger and now I challenge myself every time to do the stationary bike faster or lift heavier. On days that I don't go to the gym I feel sluggish. And if someone had said that I'd feel that way just 6 months ago I would have laughed!
  • 2snakeswoman
    2snakeswoman Posts: 655 Member
    You can be active without formal exercise. Clean your house; make those baseboards shine! Do yard work. Garden. Mow. Rake. Things like this aren't fun either, but at least you can enjoy the results.
  • Also I do second what someone else said above. I used to HATE excersizing until I started forcing myself to go to the gym, and now I just love how it makes me feel! I feel myself getting stronger and now I challenge myself every time to do the stationary bike faster or lift heavier. On days that I don't go to the gym I feel sluggish. And if someone had said that I'd feel that way just 6 months ago I would have laughed!

    I suppose its just that though of going outside of my comfort zone and the thought of people staring at me while working out but then we r all there for the same reason i guess
  • MissusMoon
    MissusMoon Posts: 1,900 Member
    Right now I wake up every morning and say "I'm not going to the gym. Nooooooooo!" But my gym clothes are laid out, and I put them on and I go. I used to be really into how the endorphins felt when I worked out, but I'm not there yet this time around. What I DO love? The numbers on the scale getting smaller. I also loved that this morning, taking a walk with my dog was relaxing rather than a chore.

    Do you like to dance? Would you dance alone at home to your favorite tunes? Could you get some ankle and wrist weights and use them when you go to the grocery store? I promise, you will feel so much better when you get into an active routine. You just have to get over the hump.
  • rankinsect
    rankinsect Posts: 2,238 Member
    Also I do second what someone else said above. I used to HATE excersizing until I started forcing myself to go to the gym, and now I just love how it makes me feel! I feel myself getting stronger and now I challenge myself every time to do the stationary bike faster or lift heavier. On days that I don't go to the gym I feel sluggish. And if someone had said that I'd feel that way just 6 months ago I would have laughed!

    I suppose its just that though of going outside of my comfort zone and the thought of people staring at me while working out but then we r all there for the same reason i guess

    You can get equipment and work out at home if it's the social aspect you don't like.

    Or, again, pick any of the other forms of physical activity that aren't the gym - take up a sport or a physical hobby like walking, running, hiking, etc. Lots of very fun and relaxing ways to get active. It doesn't have to be standing on a machine in a giant row of people all staring at the wall.
  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
    get over it and get to it
  • 100df
    100df Posts: 668 Member
    Also I do second what someone else said above. I used to HATE excersizing until I started forcing myself to go to the gym, and now I just love how it makes me feel! I feel myself getting stronger and now I challenge myself every time to do the stationary bike faster or lift heavier. On days that I don't go to the gym I feel sluggish. And if someone had said that I'd feel that way just 6 months ago I would have laughed!

    I suppose its just that though of going outside of my comfort zone and the thought of people staring at me while working out but then we r all there for the same reason i guess

    I absolutely hate it. Much rather do something else with my time. I walk 4-5 miles a day. Most of the time I do laps in my basement. Sometimes I walk on my treadmill. Occasionally I will walk outside. When I started I could barely get 1 mile done. The endurance from walking builds up fast. I saw improvement every week. I listen to music, pod casts, audio books, political news or watch tv/movies. I have been fairly consistent with it since July. I keep waiting for the "omg I love this" feeling but it hasn't happened yet. Sometimes it just doesn't suck as much as normal.

    I joined a gym that's opening at the end of the month to use their weight machines. I hope I can make myself go.

    Despite my hatred of exercise, I think it's necessary for me to feel good. The benefits are not as many aches and pains, being able to climb stairs without feeling like a heart attack is imminent and an extra little snack a day.

    If I wait to find something I love, I'll be dead first. For me I just have to suck it up because not willing to go back to how I felt without the walking for exercise.
  • upoffthemat
    upoffthemat Posts: 679 Member
    Find something physical to do you consider play. Maybe join a class with a friend, dance, karate, hiking/photography, kayaking, bicycling, maybe some kind of sport.

    Exercise doesn't have to be done on a machine in a gym although I honestly have never had a negative experience in a gym and I am a big guy that could definitely be made fun of. Never has happened, people aren't always friendly, but for the most part they are there doing their thing and leave me to do mine. I just am not a real social person, I see others that seem to connect and actually make friends at the gym as well.
  • dragon_girl26
    dragon_girl26 Posts: 2,187 Member
    If my only option of exercise was to go to a gym and walk on a treadmil or elliptical for 30 mins, I wouldn't do it either. I'd be bored after 5 minutes.
    I started with yoga, then belly dancing...then bought a road bike, good walking shoes - none of it requires going to a gym for me, though I have a membership to the Y. Exercise doesn't have to be hum-drum and torture; it's just finding fun ways to get up out of the chair and move.
  • sijomial
    sijomial Posts: 19,809 Member
    Also I do second what someone else said above. I used to HATE excersizing until I started forcing myself to go to the gym, and now I just love how it makes me feel! I feel myself getting stronger and now I challenge myself every time to do the stationary bike faster or lift heavier. On days that I don't go to the gym I feel sluggish. And if someone had said that I'd feel that way just 6 months ago I would have laughed!

    I suppose its just that though of going outside of my comfort zone and the thought of people staring at me while working out but then we r all there for the same reason i guess

    No - I'm not there for the same reason, I go to the gym to stare at people.... :)

    In reality most people are in their own little bubble and concentrating on themselves.
    You are 19 and self-conscious but believe me it won't be the last time you have to push yourself or just "fake it until you make it". A gym is just a room with some people in it - not really anything to fear.

    Even if you just tolerate exercise you will love the results it brings and the feeling of energy and well-being.

  • itsbasschick
    itsbasschick Posts: 1,584 Member
    you can work out in your livingroom. there are tons of full workouts online you can do, or if you want you can get something like Shaun T's Rockin' Body DVD Workout and do that at home. it's fun, too.
  • takobutt
    takobutt Posts: 28 Member
    going to the shopping center and walking all day is great ^.^ and fun. if you dont like exercise walking is the best option i think. or sign up to a sport thing. i go to my college's pool personally
  • chey282
    chey282 Posts: 96 Member
    I hate getting sweaty!! And between fibromyalgia and arthritis, bad neck and bad low back, was petrified of how much more pain I would be in. When I sweat it seems to all be in my face, and any kind of excess activity meant several days to a week recovery time. But, I was determined to not only lose the weight but keep up with my son and be his den leader for scouts. I also HATE asking for help doing stuff, so it killed me to ask someone to help load the camping stuff every time we went out and then needing help unloading and setting up! Well, as I lost the weight (started with a 40lb loss) it got easier, knees still weren't happy with me, but it was doable. Came home at the end and slept the entire day! Now, after a year and a half of sweating my rear off, and pushing thru the pain, I can load all but one item for a camp out, totally set up and unload by myself! Still can't do much walking, but working on it! I'm down a total of 60lbs with another 60 to go. You have to find your motivation. Your reason for doing it, or it gets too easy to quit! I've been working on that 60 lbs for almost 3 yrs now. But, I'm setting an example for my son, there's no way I can quit or give up! I've also motivated a number of others, and that in itself has become motivation! From almost bedridden to the Roman chair and yoga ball, and lifting weights regularly, do I still hurt? Every day, but when I work out I feel better for longer and the longer I've done it, the more progress I've made, the better I feel and more motivated I am! Find YOUR motivation. I use MFP to track, have several tracking watches and a hrm chest strap. Whether it's ten lbs or 110 lbs, you have to find your own personal reasons! When my friend commented she could see my muscles peeking through the fat, it made my day! Do I love exercise now? Heck no, do I love what I does for me and how I feel? He double hockey sticks YES!!!
  • Lounmoun
    Lounmoun Posts: 8,423 Member
    I hate exercise and have failed to fing anything that i enjoy any advice?

    What is your goal?
    Is it to just burn more calories? Increase your steps? Manage stress? Train for a race? Learn a new sport? Meet people? Get in your top physical shape? Have fun?
    You could take a class.
    You could find an exercise group or partner.
    You can lose weight without exercise just eat the right number of calories.
    Get a pedometer or fitness tracker.
    If you want to run a race you are going to have to run.
    If you want to get stronger you should probably lift weights.
    You could exercise at home. There are lots of workouts on you tube that you could try. You could get a treadmill or home gym.
    You could walk outside or around the mall.
    You could ride a bike or walk to work instead of driving.
    You could turn on music and dance in your home.
    You could play active video games. Just Dance for example.
    You could play with kids.
    Walk your dog. Walk a neighbor's dog.
    You could go roller skating, bowling, play golf, tennis, play frisbee, volleyball, swimming, basketball, football, soccer, boxing, jump rope, hula hoop, baseball, climbing, belly dancing, Celtic dancing, square dancing, horseback riding.

  • pomegranatecloud
    pomegranatecloud Posts: 812 Member
    Surely you haven't tried everything. There are so many options beyond going to the gym and just doing some (boring) cardio or lifting weights. Have you tried group fitness classes? There are so many different classes, and it's great to just to show up to a class and be told what to do.

    What have you tried that you haven't liked? Are you just not liking it because you feel uncomfortable or out of place? Everyone feels this way when trying a new gym, routine, or class.

    I enjoy: running (outside only), spinning, pilates, swimming, rowing, kayaking, hiking, and yoga (vinyasa). I really want to try barre, paddle boarding, and TRX. I never enjoyed running until I started running outside instead of on a treadmill. I never thought running could be something I looked forward to doing.
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