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LittleHearseDriver
LittleHearseDriver Posts: 2,677 Member
edited May 2016 in Chit-Chat
A lot of women on here, including myself, keep getting those "Hey there ;)" messages all the time. It gets really old. I'm married so I have no interest in being hit on.I'm here to reach my goals and better myself. It would be awesome to see guys that are on the same journey. The ladies that I'm friends with are awesome, but it would just be nice to see a guys perspective.
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  • serenityfrye
    serenityfrye Posts: 360 Member
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    I have quite a few supportive and non flirtatious guys on my friend list. They're definitely around and are pretty awesome :)
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,369 Member
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    I have a bunch too. They're great.
    The flirty guys are cool too as long as they aren't icky
  • pie_eyes
    pie_eyes Posts: 12,965 Member
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    LittleHearseDriver wrote: »
    A lot of women on here, including myself, keep getting those "Hey there ;)" messages all the time. It gets really old. I'm married so I have no interest in being hit on.I'm here to reach my goals and better myself. It would be awesome to see guys that are on the same journey. The ladies that I'm friends with are awesome, but it would just be nice to see a guys perspective.

    Lol
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,369 Member
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    ejinvt wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    I have a bunch too. They're great.
    The flirty guys are cool too as long as they aren't icky

    Hey there ;)

    We're you flirting with me? or are you trying to be icky
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,369 Member
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    Haha. How you doin????
  • chonji4ever
    chonji4ever Posts: 120 Member
    edited May 2016
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    Guy perspective: "hey there ;)" is another way of saying hello. That's pretty much it. You might be reading into it a little too much. I personally would rather use "hey there" than "hello"
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,857 Member
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    I'm totally non-flirtatious and a great motivational friend!. . Unless you start it...then all bets are off...
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,857 Member
    edited May 2016
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    chonji4ever wrote: »
    Guy perspective: "hey there ;)" is another way of saying hello. That's pretty much it. You might be reading into it a little too much. I personally would rather use "hey there" than "hello"

    I agree "hey there" doesnt seem creepy to me but its second only to "hi" on the lame opener scale...If you want to start a conversation put a little effort into it!..
  • Kvm11628
    Kvm11628 Posts: 7,386 Member
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    Trust me, a plain hi is brilliant compared to the crap I get!
  • Kvm11628
    Kvm11628 Posts: 7,386 Member
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    ejinvt wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    Trust me, a plain hi is brilliant compared to the crap I get!

    Hey baby, need help with those...macros? Lol.

    No joke - one guy once messaged and asked if I needed more protein!

  • Tonydevolanii
    Tonydevolanii Posts: 658 Member
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    I can feel you, happens to me aswell all the time.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,369 Member
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    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    ejinvt wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    Trust me, a plain hi is brilliant compared to the crap I get!

    Hey baby, need help with those...macros? Lol.

    No joke - one guy once messaged and asked if I needed more protein!

    Ewwww
    I had the guy send me his stats. Then there was yesterday's interesting friend request. Oh the joys of mfp.
  • Kvm11628
    Kvm11628 Posts: 7,386 Member
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    ejinvt wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    ejinvt wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    Trust me, a plain hi is brilliant compared to the crap I get!

    Hey baby, need help with those...macros? Lol.

    No joke - one guy once messaged and asked if I needed more protein!

    Ooh...writing that one down for future use...lol. I assume it worked, right??

    Well, I did accept your FR, so, duh. I kid, I kid.
  • Kvm11628
    Kvm11628 Posts: 7,386 Member
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    synchkat wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    ejinvt wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    Trust me, a plain hi is brilliant compared to the crap I get!

    Hey baby, need help with those...macros? Lol.

    No joke - one guy once messaged and asked if I needed more protein!

    Ewwww
    I had the guy send me his stats. Then there was yesterday's interesting friend request. Oh the joys of mfp.

    Wait, dud you share yesterday's spill the beans!
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,369 Member
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    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    ejinvt wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    Trust me, a plain hi is brilliant compared to the crap I get!

    Hey baby, need help with those...macros? Lol.

    No joke - one guy once messaged and asked if I needed more protein!

    Ewwww
    I had the guy send me his stats. Then there was yesterday's interesting friend request. Oh the joys of mfp.

    Wait, dud you share yesterday's spill the beans!

    My toy boy offer...saw my posts was intrigued. Even posted his pic in the forums for me to see. kinda like shopping now.
  • Tallawah_
    Tallawah_ Posts: 2,470 Member
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    Methinks your problem is that the message is clearly working with some women. If they didn't, men would stop sending them! Some refusals are just an 'occupational hazard'! :wink:
  • Kvm11628
    Kvm11628 Posts: 7,386 Member
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    synchkat wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    ejinvt wrote: »
    Kvm11628 wrote: »
    Trust me, a plain hi is brilliant compared to the crap I get!

    Hey baby, need help with those...macros? Lol.

    No joke - one guy once messaged and asked if I needed more protein!

    Ewwww
    I had the guy send me his stats. Then there was yesterday's interesting friend request. Oh the joys of mfp.

    Wait, dud you share yesterday's spill the beans!

    My toy boy offer...saw my posts was intrigued. Even posted his pic in the forums for me to see. kinda like shopping now.

    OMG. No blind dates needed. You get to see the goods!

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