dealing with negative comments

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  • steviejanedrake
    steviejanedrake Posts: 43 Member
    it has been really helpful to get everyone's opinion on this. thank you all for taking the time to comment. I guess if I inspect my feelings further it bothered me most because my stomach is not where I carry that much weight, and it made me self conscious about it, where I wasn't before. I do believe it was a compliment in the worst possible way, and they have since apologized.I think if this ever happens again I will say something right away instead of letting it fester. thank you all again mfp people you are all awesome.
  • SusanofRockwood
    SusanofRockwood Posts: 122 Member
    I had two people ask me if I had cancer! Neither of which were friends. I lost 30 lbs over 8 months and looked FABULOUS! Not ill. I just laughed at them
  • Citycat2015
    Citycat2015 Posts: 86 Member
    Not a friend. A friend would tell you that you are getting a front butt BEFORE you started losing weight. Not after the fact.
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