Husband in ER. What is th point.

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  • Sharon_C
    Sharon_C Posts: 2,132 Member
    JazCopycat wrote: »
    Today it's worst. They say he has frontal hematoma or something like that. What does that mean? How is that possible first he is better then worst....are they lying to me?
    @Melodieccurn I don't know how tobsend you a message.

    This is the way of brain injuries. You live minute to minute. One day he will be doing good and the next not. No recovery is the same for a brain injury and just expect that it is going to be rough--especially the first few days. My husband didn't recognize me for days after he came out of his coma and after that he didn't know my name for a long time.

    If your husband is in the neuro until of the hospital, those nurses and doctors are amazing and they know what they're talking about. Ask questions. They won't mind answering your questions. They're used to it. The more you know the better equipped you'll be to deal with it.

    Be prepared to be his voice and his advocate and eventually his caregiver for a time.
  • JaneSnowe
    JaneSnowe Posts: 1,283 Member
    Hi @JazCopycat

    Just wondering how you and your husband are doing?

    I hope things are looking better.
  • lithezebra
    lithezebra Posts: 3,670 Member
    Best wishes and prayers for your husband. I hope he makes a full recovery.
  • JoshuaMcAllister
    JoshuaMcAllister Posts: 500 Member
    edited May 2016
    anyone explain why every one of OP posts are flagged?
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,211 Member
    anyone explain why every one of OP posts are flagged?

    I'm guessing someone got uppity because the OP used curse words. Never mind that she had every reason to. I hope everything turned out OK, this was a couple of weeks ago...
  • JoshuaMcAllister
    JoshuaMcAllister Posts: 500 Member
    anyone explain why every one of OP posts are flagged?

    I'm guessing someone got uppity because the OP used curse words. Never mind that she had every reason to. I hope everything turned out OK, this was a couple of weeks ago...

    Agreed, very upsetting circumstances. If you are uppity after the first couple posts why bother returning to the thread. Some people have nothing better to do I guess.
  • 10ssmith
    10ssmith Posts: 33 Member
    I hope her husband is okay!
  • JeromeBarry1
    JeromeBarry1 Posts: 10,179 Member
    Doctors also may choose to remove a portion of his skull to relieve the pressure on his brain. This sort of surgery was done by cavemen with flint knives thousands of years ago. Modern doctors got this.
  • StrongAndHealthyMommy
    StrongAndHealthyMommy Posts: 1,255 Member
    Hope your husband is better
  • Enero23
    Enero23 Posts: 3 Member
    Sorry to hear. How are you doing?
  • amyk0202
    amyk0202 Posts: 666 Member
    I'm glad to hear he's home. I hope he'll continue to improve.
  • lenoresdream
    lenoresdream Posts: 522 Member
    Thank you for updating us! Glad he's doing well and I hope for continued progress.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,211 Member
    I'm glad you came back, OP. Time and patience are the great healers.
  • JaneSnowe
    JaneSnowe Posts: 1,283 Member
    Thanks for the update! I'm so happy he's home safe with you. Hopefully it'll be smooth sailing for you both now. :blush:
  • zoeysasha37
    zoeysasha37 Posts: 7,088 Member
    Op I'm glad your husband is doing better. Hugs