Does he love me!?

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  • DoingThiisForMe
    DoingThiisForMe Posts: 31
    The whole, He stays with me, next month we'll move in together and im nervous...we will split the bills thing.. kinda took president over the whole paragraph lol..

    He lives with you, he's not paying rent, he hasn't said he loves you, he doesn't initiate sex for weeks. And somehow you're nervous about moving in with someone who already lives with you. And because you've fallen in love with him, it appears to you that he is super into you, and gazes and longs for you deeply lol

    Honestly that was way too long and what's the point of questioning/wondering just ask him.
  • quirkytizzy
    quirkytizzy Posts: 4,052 Member
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  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    I miss my newsfeed.

    me too.

    rage.

    yet, somehow....we all manage to find each other in these little packets of fun. #greatmindsthinkalike #boobs
  • glovepuppet
    glovepuppet Posts: 1,710 Member
    My boyfriend and I have been dating 5 months we’re both 25 years old. We took it slow at the beginning per my wishes, and then we had a talk about being exclusive. I was dating other men and he says he wasn’t with any other women while we’ve been talking.

    He fell on hard times and asked to live with me for the last 2 months. He advised for us to get an apartment together and split the rent. Since this talk he’s been staring at me differently than normal. He has to go away for a week, I bought him a bracelet and he stole a shift of mine (he’s so sweet). We spend a lot of time together, went a week without sex, he’s cried in front of me, deals with my insanity, and tells me how pretty I am.

    Does he love me?



    Fixed

    Depends on what hard times he fell on as per that whole mess. If you have to ask strangers then to me that's a red flag but you may just be treating us like your online diary and writing hearts n crap everywhere.
    ^^this man deserves a medal!

    and to the OP, i think you're being a mug. you'd give up the security of your own place to go halves with a man who pays no rent and professes no love? after five months? engage your common sense, girl!
  • jennagreen2229
    jennagreen2229 Posts: 9
    Wow I can't believe how incredibly mean everyone has been on here. Thanks for those of you who took the time to really read and have good input. I appreciate it. I guess you just can't write about things online bec no one really can grasp the entire situation.
  • Sapporo
    Sapporo Posts: 693 Member
    Not even five months and you write all that? Chill.
    I wouldn't let him move in, you sound convenient for him and it might just be that.
  • NotRailMeat
    NotRailMeat Posts: 509 Member
    Two things:

    1) Most comments were related to your (lack of) proper writing style and could have been easily avoided.
    2) What kind of response did you expect? Did you really think total strangers would overwhelmingly approve of what is clearly an immature and seemingly one-sided relationship?
  • Madame_Goldbricker
    Madame_Goldbricker Posts: 1,625 Member
    I'm really sorry but all I took away from that is he stole your clothes, & pays no rent?.... As a side note I just got hit in the face by my palm :huh:
  • gogojodee
    gogojodee Posts: 1,243 Member
    @onetwopotato **** you're handsome

    This.

    And,



    ...wut?
  • TropicalFlowerz
    TropicalFlowerz Posts: 1,990 Member
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    love this guy!!!! too funny!
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,237 Member
    Two things:

    1) Most comments were related to your (lack of) proper writing style and could have been easily avoided.
    2) What kind of response did you expect? Did you really think total strangers would overwhelmingly approve of what is clearly an immature and seemingly one-sided relationship?

    This. People really need to manage their expectations of faceless strangers a bit better.
  • messy_Missy16
    messy_Missy16 Posts: 349 Member
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    i cried @ this caption
  • fufi04
    fufi04 Posts: 471 Member
    How can you tell if he loves you so?....It's in his kiss :tongue:
  • PhattiPhat
    PhattiPhat Posts: 349 Member
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  • Ready2Rock206
    Ready2Rock206 Posts: 9,487 Member
    Either loves you or loves that you pay the bills. I'm guessing the 2nd since you have to ask the internet.
  • pobalita
    pobalita Posts: 741 Member
    Are you really 25?

    My thoughts exactly.
  • kdeaux1959
    kdeaux1959 Posts: 2,675 Member
    Only you can really answer this question... I think you know the answer. Search deep within for the truth. :smile:
  • UnwrappingCandy
    UnwrappingCandy Posts: 418 Member
    O_o 42
  • monjacq1964
    monjacq1964 Posts: 291 Member
    TLDR use paragraphs.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    You should unfriend him on Facebook.
  • bennysammysofie
    bennysammysofie Posts: 331
    I think he really loves you. Really. No, im serious. Im serious. I mean it. He loves you. A great way to hear it said though is to start a lil foreplay and then ask him. If he doesnt answer you, get a lil more wild, then ask again. I think he loves you.
  • obrientp
    obrientp Posts: 546 Member
    I think I'd be nailing down just how much of the rent he's going to "split" with you before you move in with him. You may be thinking 50-50, but he maybe thinking 98-2 or 100-0.
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    The real question is do you love him? or maybe Why don't you ask him? Communication is a brilliant thing for relationships.
  • bearkisses
    bearkisses Posts: 1,252 Member
    i vote for pulling the petals off of a daisy
  • xMelGetsFit
    xMelGetsFit Posts: 43 Member
    I stopped at "so"

    Me too!
  • norahwynn
    norahwynn Posts: 862 Member
    Seriously.

    Ok, I do not think he loves you. I think he's using you, and unfortunately you are a very easy mark. You've been dating for ALMOST 5 months, and he's been living with you for 2 of those months??? So 3 months after you started dating he moved in because he "fell on hard times"? That's pretty convenient right?

    C'mon! How does that sound like a good idea?? I bet if you had a daughter your age with the same story, you'd think she was CRAZY and you would do everything to get this guy out of her house.

    What you should do is this:

    1. Since he's working, he can go and find his own place. If he can't afford to do so, he should find a roommate (does he have any friends?) or move in with relatives until he's back on his feet.

    2. You stay where you are

    3. Go on real dates (restaurant, movies, theme park...etc) and stop getting drunk with him. I'm making quite an assumption here, but you mentioned being drunk with him twice in one very long paragraph, so I feel that I'm right on the money.

    There's nothing wrong with having a few drinks, but if that's all the entertainment that you two share together, then you might need to rethink this relationship.

    - Ask him if he loves you. If he says yes, then tell him your plan of action (stated above 1-3) and if he loves you he'll understand.
  • Jen800
    Jen800 Posts: 548 Member
    If you need to ask random strangers on the internet if YOUR BOYFRIEND whom we've never spoken to or interacted with in any way is in love with you based on a list of couple-y things, then I think you need to really think about your relationship to determine whether you think it's based on lust or love. How much do you actually KNOW about this guy? It sounded a tad middle-school. Obviously you're both still in that "honeymoon" stage in a relationship, so of course everything is roses and sunshine. You'll know if he loves you or not when you move in together and both of you find a way not to rip each other's heads off!

    Good luck, and don't ask for anyone elses opinion about your life. Only you can know!:flowerforyou:
  • KokowithaK
    KokowithaK Posts: 88 Member
    I felt like I was being tortured reading your 'paragraph'. However, I realized that I was actually being rewarded. So many AWESOME responses. I serioulsy can't stop laughing...
  • cherryd69
    cherryd69 Posts: 340
    I remember that line being used in Scrubs (the whole 'crazyness' thing)

    Anyways.... all that you have just blurbed on here.. do that to him, in a really high shrill voice

    LET OUT THA CRAZYYYYYYYYYY


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  • Greenrun99
    Greenrun99 Posts: 2,065 Member
    omg paragraphs.. I can see this from a bunch of teenagers but come on!! You wanted to take it slow yet your dating multiple guys.. ugh.. I know guys that are attached to their girls hips like this sounds like.. My advice, get a month by month lease.

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