Negativity...

angelams1019

SezxyStef

You should find an untraceable way to murder her!!!

This guy.

Yah this guy or you can start commenting on her lack of healthy eating habits and comment her blood pressure should get checked or her sodium levels...or her cholesterol...and if that doesn't drop the "skinny fat" bomb on her.

Or offer her healthy choices...

Sorry my B*tch switch got flipped there for a minute

chandanista

Why do people assume the OP is "flaunting" her diet and exercise success? She has lost a LOT of weight, and looks great. It doesn't take a genius to realize she is dieting and/or exercising, even if she doesn't share it in conversation. If the jealousy bug is there, it's there, no matter what OP "flaunts" when asked. All she can do is smile, and kill it with kindness...

...BTW, kindness is an untraceable way to murder someone.

xXK1LL3RxCH1CXx

Tell her "Keep calm and commence BEAST MODE!" :drinker:

annettaevans

Firstly, it sounds as if she is jealous of your accomplishments and trying to sabotage your success! So, thank her for the offer and politely decline, reminding her you are "eating clean"...if she persists, let her know how much better you feel by NOT eating "junk food", tell her that you have made a life change and don't feel as though you are depriving yourself - that you choose to eat better for health. If she still persists, invite her to walk/exercise with you...bring her exercise clothes and do the same thing she does to you...eventually, she should take the hint. If not and it continues to bother you, confront her politely letting her know that you feel she is purposely sabotaging your decision to eat clean and just come right out and ask her why. Keep it nice, say it with a smile...you do have to continue to work with her...good luck!

alyhuggan

Kill her with kindness. I deal with it every day. "eeeewwww abs are for men" "you're too toned"... blah blah.

Smile and say "thanks for your opinion but I am happy and healthy and that's really none of anyone business.

Abs are for men? Nothing better than a girl with abs!

marciebrian

see I would tell you the exact wrong thing because I would tell you to tell HER to mind her own damn business... buts that's just me :flowerforyou:

kdeaux1959

I don't really have to deal with it to this level but I constantly get the "You're getting too skinny" crowd. I get "You don't need to lose any more weight.. The thing is, I am 6'3" and weigh 223-225... This relates to a bmi of about 28... Not only am I not "skinny"... I am actually overweight and only a couple of points from being obese. Peoples' perceptions are based on a false sense of what is normal...

jenna808

I agree, sounds like maybe she's jealous and trying to sabotage your hard work a little. It is so frustrating when people decide your body is their business! I recently started eating a lot cleaner and a consistent workout routine and my friends make fun of me for it and pull the whole "oh one drink/piece of pizza/cake/junk isn't going to kill you" and they are kind of pushy about it. Also my best female friend makes fun of me for lifting heavy and tells me I'm going to look manly... Time for new friends???

xXK1LL3RxCH1CXx

You cannot hang out with negative people and expect to live a positive life. Whenever you feel down and discouraged, just tell yourself that things will get better. Keep believing in yourself!

RICMHealth

When you have a thousand voices telling you you can't, listen to that lone voice saying you can.

Taken from "The Grind - TCU"
youtube it.