My crush literally calls me black fat pig

amirahsadat

and get this...in freaking Mandarin and we don't even speak Mandarin! her Mandarin-speaking girlfriend told him to said that! That was 9 years ago tho and yesterday I saw him at some random mall,after 9 years and it just reminds me of that particular drama I had.

Ben_there_done_that

Sad. That was nine years ago. You're both probably different people now.

usmcmp

Your profile says you are 21, so that means you were about 12 at the time. 12 year olds are cruel. Whether he said that or she just claimed he did, it was a petty child thing.

TavistockToad

Riiiiiiiiight

Sinnister78

TavistockToad wrote: »

Riiiiiiiiight

Ya I'm right there with you. That's a heck of a first post.

jennifer_417

Those kinds of things can really hurt and stick with you for a looooong time. However, for your own sake, it would help you to forgive him, so that you can let go of that part of your life.

_Waffle_

So did you learn Mandarin Chinese after that?

Thisnameischosen_

There's loads of things about this post I don't understand.. either way I'd just let it go, for your own sanity.. it was 9 years ago and you were kids sooo.. yeah. let it go.

JustMissTracy

Time to move on...bigger and better things (and guys!) await you when you finally let go of the drama!

DavPul

Wut?

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salembambi

Bennysammysofiesdad wrote: »

Hold onto it and let it ruin your life

its what id do

Alatariel75

Ex-crush. Called. The present tense in your title betrays a worrying sense of currency for matters a decade old.

gothchiq

I do believe I would turn my back on that person. You'll find someone more positive to focus on!

MiloBloom83

Strong first post OP. Strong...

WBB55

My mom is 63. There's times she still hides in a closet crying because of things that happened when she was 12. Don't be my mom. Don't let things from 51 years ago make you feel like you're unworthy. Live your life and move on, loving yourself.

jenovatrix

amirahsadat8778

OMG ok this is me, and I tried to log in to the previous acc just to reply to this post after I remember about fitness pal but I am confused now because I can't..login to that acc, it brings me to this acc.

Ok basically, yep it's a true story, nothing but the truth. it sounded like fiction but nope, I guess real life sucks too much for us to believe it's true. anyway, that guy wasn't that important to me that I was bawling my eyes out writing that first post haha, no worries. I wrote that just to tell a story here as a beginner.

I am now very healthy, doing things that I love with my friends and family, I have a very good paying job and I discover a new activity that I love which is hiking, and I went to Japan and hiked at Yoshino mountain! I am still the same size as when I posted this, maybe down a kilo but I am still happy, more than before!

My skin still has that lovely tan dark colour, and I already fell in love with my skin right after what my ex-crush *intense vomit* said, trust me! I hope people that replied to my post.. if you guys ever reread this, know that a stranger, me, appreciate what you wrote here and it weirded me out that I share things here much more than I did on my other social medias XD

oh and no! I didn't learn Mandarin, I didn't even bother to because it is hard! but I can understand and speak very little Cantonese. btw here are pictures of me when I was in Japan, probably no one cares it's ok, it's my pleasure to share this

seltzermint555

Awesome update! Glad you are happy and have not been worrying about your ex crush. On to better things.

LyndaBSS

Good luck with your journey!

lcyama

wow, you are beautiful. ignore the haters.

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corinasue1143

I didn’t read it before. I’m so glad you’re happy with yourself now. You are beautiful and have a gorgeous face, beautiful complexion! And it looks like you also get to visit beautiful places. Happy for you!

nooshi713

Sorry to hear that someone talked to you that way. People like that DO NOT belong in your life. I’m glad you are happy now.

Hannahwalksfar

Oh I just read the update! So glad you’re doing well