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  • JessicaJS23
    JessicaJS23 Posts: 1,863 Member
    rchlthompson wrote: »
    Yup, been ghosted. Told me I was one of the best women he'd met in 42 years, then 3 days later...poof, gone. It hurt. A lot. I'd never do that to someone.

    Sadly sometimes people don't know what to do when something that great comes their way so they reject it
  • 285to170
    285to170 Posts: 330 Member
    Off topic but

    @rchlthompson what a babe! Your transformation is awesome and your collarbones are gawgus.

    I am not a creep. I swear it.
  • SisterSueGetsFit
    SisterSueGetsFit Posts: 1,211 Member
    285to170 wrote: »
    Off topic but

    @rchlthompson what a babe! Your transformation is awesome and your collarbones are gawgus.

    I am not a creep. I swear it.

    Thank you so very much. I am proud of those collarbones. : :wink:
    JessicaJS23 wrote: »
    rchlthompson wrote: »
    Yup, been ghosted. Told me I was one of the best women he'd met in 42 years, then 3 days later...poof, gone. It hurt. A lot. I'd never do that to someone.

    Sadly sometimes people don't know what to do when something that great comes their way so they reject it

    Thank you! His loss. You're very sweet
  • JessicaJS23
    JessicaJS23 Posts: 1,863 Member
    edited June 2016
    Sugar_Pill wrote: »
    JessicaJS23 wrote: »
    rchlthompson wrote: »
    Yup, been ghosted. Told me I was one of the best women he'd met in 42 years, then 3 days later...poof, gone. It hurt. A lot. I'd never do that to someone.

    Sadly sometimes people don't know what to do when something that great comes their way so they reject it

    Dat truth doe

    Sadly I've pushed away a few because I thought they were way out of my league and I'd rather just end it before they figured it out themselves. I didn't ghost them though just made up an excuse they couldn't argue with me about.
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  • Savyna
    Savyna Posts: 789 Member
    I usually am the one to do the ghosting. Mainly because I just want to be friends, and people dont get that hint and so I just stop talking to them. There have been times where I've been the ghostee though, but not in relationship aspects, but just friendship ones. Just falling out of a touch a lot. Sometimes abruptly, sometimes over time.
  • Carlyebb4597
    Carlyebb4597 Posts: 14 Member
    I ghosted my high school boyfriend. He moved away but we decided to do long distance. Eventually, I didn't want to do it anymore but didn't have the guts to tell him so I just stopped talking to him instead. After a couple months, he eventually showed up one day on my doorstep unexpected... Yeah, I shouldn't have ghosted him...
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  • PamelaW41
    PamelaW41 Posts: 287 Member
    Had a stepdad. He was great. One day he was gone. No goodbye, never saw him again. It was hard to understand. So no I'd never do that to someone. But yes it's been done to me more than once, after a while you start to expect it. *shrug* oh well such is life.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    edited July 2016
    Never done it.. not intentionally...had it done a few times to me though....only one that really bothered me ..damn I liked him :/ ..
  • Thisnameischosen_
    Thisnameischosen_ Posts: 619 Member
    Louise1491 wrote: »
    How is arsehole not a "*kitten*"?

    *kitten*
  • Thisnameischosen_
    Thisnameischosen_ Posts: 619 Member
    Thisnameischosen_ wrote: »
    Louise1491 wrote: »
    How is arsehole not a "*kitten*"?

    *kitten*

    Just checking.. must be because it's the English term.
  • JessicaJS23
    JessicaJS23 Posts: 1,863 Member
    PamelaW41 wrote: »
    Had a stepdad. He was great. One day he was gone. No goodbye, never saw him again. It was hard to understand. So no I'd never do that to someone. But yes it's been done to me more than once, after a while you start to expect it. *shrug* oh well such is life.

    : ( sorry that happened to you. Yeah it's life but it's terrible.

  • Thisnameischosen_
    Thisnameischosen_ Posts: 619 Member
    There's loads of ways around the swear filters anyway and a few still get through.. that's just added a new one to my list. Thanks! I *kitten* love swearing.
  • windee52
    windee52 Posts: 1,690 Member
    I've been on both sides. Every situation is different
  • Thisnameischosen_
    Thisnameischosen_ Posts: 619 Member
    Louise1491 wrote: »
    Ok let's test the water...tosser.

    Hahha nice! So we have Dick. Pissed. Arsehole. And now tosser!
    Let's try.. wanker
  • Thisnameischosen_
    Thisnameischosen_ Posts: 619 Member
    Yey it worked!!
  • PamelaW41
    PamelaW41 Posts: 287 Member
    JessicaJS23 wrote: »
    PamelaW41 wrote: »
    Had a stepdad. He was great. One day he was gone. No goodbye, never saw him again. It was hard to understand. So no I'd never do that to someone. But yes it's been done to me more than once, after a while you start to expect it. *shrug* oh well such is life.

    : ( sorry that happened to you. Yeah it's life but it's terrible.

    Thank you.
  • pie_eyes
    pie_eyes Posts: 12,964 Member
    slimgirljo15 wrote: »
    Never done it.. not intentionally...had it done a few times to me though....only one that really bothered me ..damn I liked him :/ ..

    Agreed :(
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