talking to other people on KIK

ashleyShades
ashleyShades Posts: 375 Member
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A coworker and I are having a disagreement on whether or not it's okay to talk to other people on KIK if you're in a relationship/married. What do you guys think? Do you? Would you be upset if your significant other did?
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  • DanaeMonique
    DanaeMonique Posts: 41 Member
    I, personally think that if you are in a relationship and if you are married you have no business talking to other people on KIK, messengers nothing like that, EVEN if the person dosen't have those intentions, the other person on rthe other side may not. I would be upset and bothered if my significant did, and I of course wouldn't be talking to other males, if I was in a relationship or married.
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
    Here is a very informative thread about KIK

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1036673-any-kik-messenger-users-here
  • m76b
    m76b Posts: 1,498 Member
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  • tehboxingkitteh
    tehboxingkitteh Posts: 1,574 Member
    boobs_galore

    HMU with the noodz
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
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  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    Like talking to a human on KIK?
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
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    I need to master that eyeroll.
  • Laurayinz
    Laurayinz Posts: 930 Member
    Like talking to a human on KIK?
    they're real?? :noway:
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    define talk...

    kik is like text without text rate charges...chill
  • Pixi_Rex
    Pixi_Rex Posts: 1,676 Member
    Meh, who cares. If you trust your SO and they trust you there shouldn't be a problem.

    IMO KIK is no different than email or text... and even if KIK is basically the sexting version of MSN if you are using it to stay in contact with friends it shouldnt matter. I have KIK I use it rather than giving a bunch of people on the internet my phone number.

    If my SO wanted to see what was there all they would have to do is pick up my phone, hell who am i kidding I would probably show them.
  • Tony_Brewski
    Tony_Brewski Posts: 1,376 Member
    define talk...

    kik is like text without text rate charges...chill

    This.
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    What's the difference between someone's SO talking to someone on KIK vs. sending them a message through text?

    I thought KIK was like Whatsapp. Just a way to be able to text people without the charges.

    I didn't realize there was something more sinister about the app.

    Also, if you're that concerned over who your SO is talking to either on KIK or via text messages you've got a lot bigger problems to deal with.
  • quirkytizzy
    quirkytizzy Posts: 4,052 Member
    If I remember KIK is essentially an untraceable form of communication. All texts and pictures (unless saved) are immediately deleted by the program once you log off.

    That's why it's got the reputation as being somewhat of a meat market.
  • berriboobear
    berriboobear Posts: 524 Member
    If you're just "TALKING", than how's that different from a normal text message?

    If you're worrying about your SO talking on KIK/any messaging platform, than I don't think the problem is the app... maybe talk about insecurities and expectations?
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    If I remember KIK is essentially an untraceable form of communication. All texts and pictures (unless saved) are immediately deleted by the program once you log off.

    That's why it's got the reputation as being somewhat of a meat market.

    It doesn't matter if messages are erased or deleted. I'm pretty sure there are ways to get them back. Just like when someone deletes their hard drive. There are ways to get the information back.

    Nothing is ever truly deleted or erased.
  • ruth3698
    ruth3698 Posts: 305 Member
    KIK,no.....now fb,twitter,texting,meet me,hell mfp those are all ok ;)

    Lol,it really depends on the relationship,the level of trust,what type of talking is going on etc.
  • m76b
    m76b Posts: 1,498 Member
    If you are married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your house and watch tv because you know, someone out there may look at you or something.

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  • CallMeCupcakeDammit
    CallMeCupcakeDammit Posts: 9,377 Member
    I think all my friends I talk to on kik are married. None have been inappropriate. Should I be offended that they're not inappropriate? What does that mean?! :sad:
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    If you are married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your house and watch tv because you know, someone out there may look at you or something.

    You. I like you.
  • faceoff4
    faceoff4 Posts: 1,599 Member
    I think this thread should probably merge with the JUNK PICS thread as to me they seem to go hand in hand????
  • Qarol
    Qarol Posts: 6,171 Member
    If you are married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your house and watch tv because you know, someone out there may look at you or something.
    but...but...what if there's a hot dude (or chick) on the tv? My husband will get all jealous that I'm looking!

    no, no he won't. We'll probably make out, instead.
  • ashleyShades
    ashleyShades Posts: 375 Member
    If you are married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your house and watch tv because you know, someone out there may look at you or something.

    bahaha
  • RedHeadDevotchka
    RedHeadDevotchka Posts: 1,394 Member
    Really? I talk to everybody All the time...Facebook, text, and even in person, gasp! Keep it friendly and there's no issue. My husband can be very jealous so I don't tell him everything and I don't feel bad becuse I know my intentions aren't bad. If it feels wrong to you then it probably is. And that boys and girls is my guiding principle on the matter.
  • lostdogg
    lostdogg Posts: 450 Member
    boobs_galore

    HMU with the noodz

    Lmao...... only for you kitteh
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
    This thread needs more kitteh gifs.

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  • JewelsinBigD
    JewelsinBigD Posts: 661 Member
    This is a tough one - I think that it depends on who they are talking to - their best friend from elementary school who is also married with 10 kids - no problem. If it is the hot lawyer in the next office with the Barbie like figure who is single and hot for your SO- BIG PROBLEM. There are no hard and fast rules that I think apply here - except the "do unto others" rule. If he knows you won't he shouldn't. If he would want you to KIK with the big hunk in the next office who just broke up with his girlfriend and needs a "shoulder to lean on" then he can go ahead... my guess is he would not want such a thing and if he does then that is a thing that should make you go "hmmm..."
  • ashleyShades
    ashleyShades Posts: 375 Member
    Sorry, KIK was just an example. To me, people use KIK (or other messenger services) to talk to people they do not know in real life. For example, if you used KIK to talk to someone you didn't know in real life then you wouldn't give more personal information out (phone number, email address)
  • Barbellerella
    Barbellerella Posts: 1,838 Member
    If you are married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your house and watch tv because you know, someone out there may look at you or something.

    You. I like you.
    Hey girl. Wanna kik with me?? :wink:
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    If you are a woman married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your kitchen and make sandwiches because you know, your man might be hungry or something.

    fixed.
  • MacInCali
    MacInCali Posts: 1,012 Member
    If you are married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your house and watch tv because you know, someone out there may look at you or something.

    Yep ... I'm pretty sure this was included in our vows ... "love, honor, stop talking to any other humans ..."

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