talking to other people on KIK

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  • K_Serz
    K_Serz Posts: 1,299 Member
    A coworker and I are having a disagreement on whether or not it's okay to talk to other people on KIK if you're in a relationship/married. What do you guys think? Do you? Would you be upset if your significant other did?

    No it should be illegal. Just like walking up to any stranger on the street and talking to them. Jail Time!


    WTF is wrong with people? Are they all that insecure about themselves and their relationships with others? I guess so!
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    what is this KIK you speak of?
  • MzManiak
    MzManiak Posts: 1,361 Member
    I think this thread should probably merge with the JUNK PICS thread as to me they seem to go hand in hand????

    haha junk pics go hand in hand? Well, they should! :laugh:
  • NinjadURbacon
    NinjadURbacon Posts: 395 Member
    I didn't know people just "talk" on KIK.
  • CubanSammich
    CubanSammich Posts: 236
    The hell is KiK and why havent I been Kikd
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    Just talking on KIK or anywhere is no problem. It's what's being said or shown that can get you into trouble.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    If you are in a relationship and you talk to anyone of the opposite gender, including (no, ESPECIALLY) at work, you are cheating. Period.
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    Just talking on KIK or anywhere is no problem. It's what's being said or shown that can get you into trouble.

    what is getting shown?
  • silver_arrow3
    silver_arrow3 Posts: 1,373 Member
    Sorry, KIK was just an example. To me, people use KIK (or other messenger services) to talk to people they do not know in real life. For example, if you used KIK to talk to someone you didn't know in real life then you wouldn't give more personal information out (phone number, email address)

    There are a lot of people that I have met on the internet that I have gone on to meet in real life. Some of which I have had relationships with. I have friendships with people on the internet that I talk to on a nearly daily basis (mostly men, honestly), but just because I end up in a relationship doesn't mean I'm going to stop being friends with them. Most of them have my number and email addresses, as well as skype and yahoo usernames. We just talk online for convenience. I use KIK mostly to talk to those that aren't in the same country. No charges for those messages.

    Don't be so quick to judge everyone who uses chat apps. They aren't all using it for any kind of a sexual relationship, just to converse with those they might not otherwise be able to.

    Can I say that the occasional junk pic hasn't ended up coming through? No. But that's for the "manly bits" thread. :drinker:
  • K_Serz
    K_Serz Posts: 1,299 Member
    Just talking on KIK or anywhere is no problem. It's what's being said or shown that can get you into trouble.

    what is getting shown?

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  • catneon
    catneon Posts: 911 Member
    what is this KIK you speak of?
    It's a yogurt....oh yeah and feel free to kik me notyorbbmama69
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  • Tony_Brewski
    Tony_Brewski Posts: 1,376 Member
    ZOMG! Not Kik! that's worse then TEXTING or FACEBOOKING... It's just so ... EVIL!
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    Just talking on KIK or anywhere is no problem. It's what's being said or shown that can get you into trouble.

    what is getting shown?

    Obviously manbits.
  • catneon
    catneon Posts: 911 Member
    If you are in a relationship and you talk to anyone of the opposite gender, including (no, ESPECIALLY) at work, you are cheating. Period.
    Well said....well said!
    I go back to my cage now
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  • Jennisin1
    Jennisin1 Posts: 574 Member
    What??? How else will I send my naughty pictures to people?????
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    Just talking on KIK or anywhere is no problem. It's what's being said or shown that can get you into trouble.

    what is getting shown?

    Obviously manbits.

    whats manbits? Never heard of that term before.
  • escloflowneCHANGED
    escloflowneCHANGED Posts: 3,038 Member
    I, personally think that if you are in a relationship and if you are married you have no business talking to other people on KIK, messengers nothing like that, EVEN if the person dosen't have those intentions, the other person on rthe other side may not. I would be upset and bothered if my significant did, and I of course wouldn't be talking to other males, if I was in a relationship or married.

    Let me guess, you're single...
  • EmilyOfTheSun
    EmilyOfTheSun Posts: 1,548 Member
    A coworker and I are having a disagreement on whether or not it's okay to talk to other people on KIK if you're in a relationship/married. What do you guys think? Do you? Would you be upset if your significant other did?

    Talking? Or sexting and sending naughty pics?
    I have KIK and I use it to talk to three friends from MFP on occasion. Nothing inappropriate about what's being said so it's not an issue. No different than texting if that's how you're using it.

    So, it depends.
  • The_Enginerd
    The_Enginerd Posts: 3,982 Member
    It's actually preferred if you are in a relationship. My SO helps me take better junk pics for sending on kik. It's so hard to get a angle showing all of it's majesty by yourself.
  • heatherloveslifting
    heatherloveslifting Posts: 1,428 Member
    If you are a woman married/in a relationship you should not have contact with any other people at all. Just stay in your kitchen and make sandwiches because you know, your man might be hungry or something.
    fixed.

    HAHAHA
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    :drinker:
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    If you are in a relationship and you talk to anyone of the opposite gender, including (no, ESPECIALLY) at work, you are cheating. Period.
    Well said....well said!
    I go back to my cage now
    applause-gif-3.gif

    :angry:
  • funforsports
    funforsports Posts: 2,656 Member
    Just get in the kitchen.

    You need to talk, get a dog.
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    It depends if by talk you mean share-pics-of-your-junk-with-others.
  • Jennisin1
    Jennisin1 Posts: 574 Member
    i lold at all the trolling in this thread

    "if you talk to someone while you're in a relationship it's cheating"
    "if you make eye contact with someone while in a relationship you're cheating"
    "if you put it in the butt of a stranger you're cheating"

    none of those things are considered cheating.

    whoa... ones of these things definitelly is....... eye contact is a BIG no-no
  • latenitelucy
    latenitelucy Posts: 1,314 Member
    Here is a very informative thread about KIK

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/1036673-any-kik-messenger-users-here

    You wouldn't be just trying to revive a kitteh gif thread, now would you. Sneaky girl. :wink:
  • randomtai
    randomtai Posts: 9,003 Member
    I had no idea what a KiK was until now. Lemme go back to chasing those pesky kids off my lawn with my cane. :glasses:
  • The_Enginerd
    The_Enginerd Posts: 3,982 Member
    i lold at all the trolling in this thread

    "if you talk to someone while you're in a relationship it's cheating"
    "if you make eye contact with someone while in a relationship you're cheating"
    "if you put it in the butt of a stranger you're cheating"

    none of those things are considered cheating.

    whoa... ones of these things definitelly is....... eye contact is a BIG no-no
    As long as one of us is blindfolded, everything is a-okay?
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    i lold at all the trolling in this thread

    "if you talk to someone while you're in a relationship it's cheating"
    "if you make eye contact with someone while in a relationship you're cheating"
    "if you put it in the butt of a stranger you're cheating"

    none of those things are considered cheating.

    whoa... ones of these things definitelly is....... eye contact is a BIG no-no
    As long as one of us is blindfolded, everything is a-okay?

    not if your looking through it with your one eyed monster
  • Jennisin1
    Jennisin1 Posts: 574 Member
    i lold at all the trolling in this thread

    "if you talk to someone while you're in a relationship it's cheating"
    "if you make eye contact with someone while in a relationship you're cheating"
    "if you put it in the butt of a stranger you're cheating"

    none of those things are considered cheating.

    whoa... ones of these things definitelly is....... eye contact is a BIG no-no
    As long as one of us is blindfolded, everything is a-okay?

    ... definitely... I think that works. No rules broken :-)
  • XxYeaIrocxX
    XxYeaIrocxX Posts: 224 Member
    Yeah I'm married and talk to people on KIK.
    Whats the issue? I message people through FB, text and KIk is just the same for me. Nothing inappropriate, no nudey pics and my husband knows everything about it and who I'm talking to (Yeah i actually tell him). I'd never talk/do anything I'd be to ashamed to tell him about.


    edit.
    Just to add on my husband is okay with everything, he knows I can handle things if someone gets pushy and he knows at the end of the day I'm crawling into bed with him and no one else. :smile:

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