Do you workout with your significant other?

annamc18

Hello!

I was just curious how many of you awesome MFPer's workout with your partner/spouse? Do you both enjoy it, or is it a battle?

The reason I ask is because my BF has been complaining about being tired all the time, and it's understandable since he has a highly labor intensive job. He's got the beer belly thing going on though (which he complains about), and is very stiff and not very flexible anymore. He used to work out all the time before we got together and was very flexible and limber at the time. He now looks back on those days like he misses it.

SO - I asked him last night if he would like to try jogging with me in the morning. He and I both are HORRIBLE at waking up early, but I think if we did it together it'd be easier for the both of us. So, since we are on vacation next week and don't have to get up as early as we normally would - he agreed he'd try it & we also agreed to bring the dogs with us since I learned that having a dog on a leash while jogging kinda keeps your mind from focusing on the workout too much, but rather making sure there are no loose dogs running around you or your dog isn't like $hitting in someone's yard lol.

So my ultimate goal would be to see if he enjoys it, and if so - when we get back to a normal working schedule he'd be willing to continue. The only other hurdle we'd have to get over at that point would be just waking up at like 5am to do it! ...that'll be fun lol

So ya - if you workout with your spouse, how do you like it? Was it as nice as you expected? Do they keep you motivated?

Just curious :bigsmile:

Eabec

Always. We are our biggest supporters. Plus, I love the quality time, and I am always so proud of her for her daily accomplishments!

Whipppets

Do body pump, Spin and sometimes I will pop in on her zumba class to watch her dance.

froeschli

Nope, we don't - we are too competitive...
We even had to pick separate sports so we wouldn't be stupid about it. I like running, he likes cycling. We still brag to each other when we reach a personal best. But this way, we also keep each other going. He has offered to cycle along when I go for a long run (probably to keep me safe) but I think I'd be trying to run faster than I should if he did that...
I like my alone time, both, when he's out or I am... We work in the same business together, so it's not a bad thing to spend a little time apart
In the end, you have to find your thing, your speed, your time. And if your preference is running with a partner, go for it.
If you both like exercising together, then it could be quite fun and motivating - there's a couple in my building who go running together, to the gym together, do yoga together, and they have the goofiest grins on their faces when they do - its quite adorable...

iNkedFiTmama

We both work out & love it but I work out at home and he gyms it at 4am before work then we snapchat each other when we are done that's about the extent of it lol.

BarackMeLikeAHurricane

Sometimes. I wish we would more often. The problem is that he doesn't work out with any real consistency and his ego gets in the way. His bench is his only lift he can even hit lmao1plaet!!!1!!1! which is fine (everyone has to start somewhere) but he says "free weight exercises are stupid" and does the little machine bs. I try to get him to squat and dead lift with me but I can tell he just feels like *kitten* when I have to take weight off my bar for him to lift it. He thinks it gross when people get "too big" and thinks I'm starting to "look manly." *sigh* f-ck.

obrientp

We go to the gym together, but we will go and do our own things. It works well for us.

eric_sg61

No...she thinks lifting will make her bulky

annamc18

thanks for they replies everyone!

We used to go to the gym together and we enjoyed that (even though we did different things while there), but he didn't like being there with other people because they'd start telling him how to do stuff, etc. (plus he is SOOO not a people person) and that just pisses him off so we stopped going to the gym lol

I think it'll work out well, especially since we'll have the dogs with us cause I'm sure they'll be a motivation as well when they hear the alarm go off and get all excited about going out.

I think once we get into the swing of things and get up early to do it on normal week days before work it'll be nice watching the sunrise and everything. I just think it'll work out great as long as he enjoys it too. I don't want to force it on him.

zepol87

My wife and I do P90X together, we help motivate each other. I am in a little better shape than my wife so I help push her to complete the workouts. Somedays our schedules are off and we cant get a workout in together and it really doesnt feel the same and I can see afterwards that she didnt bring it. Its a great relationship tool and stress reliever for us.

SpleenThief

Been married for 13 years and have only recently begun to workout with my wife.

I'm pretty competitive while my wife is satisfied just getting a workout in so we're not a good match. However the Y where we go just started a master's swim program. It's coached practice, targeted to individual goals and abilities. We swim together but our workouts aren't the same. It's been pretty good overall.

froeschli

I think it'll work out well, especially since we'll have the dogs with us cause I'm sure they'll be a motivation as well when they hear the alarm go off and get all excited about going out.

My dog got my husband up at 5am today (to go play at the park). So yeah, if the dogs enjoy themselves, you're signed up for life.

algebravoodoo

Not really, except for hiking. We used to but one of us always ended up either leaving the other behind, or holding back so the other could keep up. (Which one was which depended on what we were doing.) Now I just look at workouts as alone time, something we all need now and again.

algebravoodoo

Nope, we don't - we are too competitive...
We even had to pick separate sports so we wouldn't be stupid about it. I like running, he likes cycling. We still brag to each other when we reach a personal best. But this way, we also keep each other going. He has offered to cycle along when I go for a long run (probably to keep me safe) but I think I'd be trying to run faster than I should if he did that...
I like my alone time, both, when he's out or I am... We work in the same business together, so it's not a bad thing to spend a little time apart
In the end, you have to find your thing, your speed, your time. And if your preference is running with a partner, go for it.
If you both like exercising together, then it could be quite fun and motivating - there's a couple in my building who go running together, to the gym together, do yoga together, and they have the goofiest grins on their faces when they do - its quite adorable...

Absolutely true!

lyndausvi

No.

I'm not overweight (but was inching pretty close to that level) and started this healthier lifestyle think about 6 weeks ago. He has been very supportive for me. He has seen the results of me tracking and exercising over the last 6 weeks.

DH is obese. I encouraged him about 10 weeks ago to ride is bike to work, which he now does everyday. Just this past week he started eating better and tracking food. I'm hoping after he loses a few pounds he will want to start doing things with me. It's just hard for him right now because he feels like he will be holding me back because I walk and ride much faster than he does. I guess in a way he would.

We do sometimes go on leisurely bike rides together. A few times a week I will "ride" him to work (1.6 miles), then continue my training ride from there (10 miles). I also "pick" him up from work and ride home.

HMVOL7409

I often lift with my husband. I love it bc he pushes me to do weight levels I wouldn't do on my own due to spotting me and is just very motivating. Even if we don't lift together we are 90% of the time at the gym together and he will yell across to get me going. I lucked out in that I have someone just as dedicated as I am. When I was sidelined with a running injury he ran all my rehab runs with me despite hating running for moral support. I too love being on my own and drowning myself in my lift sessions but sometimes I need that push and grateful to know he's there.

Tony_Brewski

My wife refuses to workout with me. Hell I'd just be happy if she'd do the 3 hours a week she agreed to.

ChrisLindsay9

I was just curious how many of you awesome MFPer's workout with your partner/spouse? Do you both enjoy it, or is it a battle?

I have worked out with my spouse in the past. And still do on occasion. However, we have different fitness goals, so the opportunities are a lot less. But it was an enjoyable experience for us. Seeing each other progress, helping each other with a spot, and keeping each other accountable, were all benefits of working out with each other.

LoraF83

Due to scheduling issues, my husband and I don't get to work out together very often. However, we have been known to use our date night to get some time in the gym! Lol! I usually only test my 1RM when he's around, because I know he can spot me and bail me out if I need it. Of course, I can't return the favor (he's a big guy with big lifts!), but it's still nice to have the time to lift together.

He will run with me occasionally - but he hates it. Even when we don't get to work out together, we discuss our programs, routines, how training is going, etc, constantly. He's my number one supporter and has never complained about the time I take for fitness and exercise. I definitely picked the right guy

JNick77

I did Boot Camp with my GF for a month or so and we ended up not going to the same sessions together. We got paired together for some team stuff and it was fine but I think she likes that exercise time to be hers and not have to share it with me, so I started going to the session after. It's not that we argued or anything.

I'm not sure if I could lift with her or not. I very much like to do my own thing and not have to worry about a training partner unless they're willing to do what I want to do. Yes it's selfish but I have my goals and way of doing things and that's one area I won't compromise on.

JustJennie1

I do and I love it.

Not only is it nice to have a spotter but it's nice to have someone push me to lift more, get one more rep out etc.

The downside though is if he doesn't want to go to the gym I don't go either. We do the same workout so if I were to go without him it would screw it up for the week.

da_bears10089

My hubby and i have different work schedules and I end up getting done with my workout around the time he gets done with work. He has a lifting buddy he goes with. I do wish we were able to workout together more often, because i do enjoy it, but it just doesn't pan out that way.

HypersonicFitNess

Yes and No; I run faster so my husband runs when I run but he runs 2 miles and then walks while I run my 5-13 miles.

Weight training; he'll weight train with me but I'm usually doing the Tough Mudder Boot camp and he's just in the same room weight training with me. He WILL take over my stop watch monitoring so he can make me cardio longer than the 2 minutes on my workout ...he's ornery that way.

We do go mountain biking and hiking together, truly together.

khernandez331

my husband and I work out together - keeps us motivated and accountable. He does his work out (mostly lifting) and I do mine (mostly cardio with a little lifting) It works for us and we love that extra time together

sabified

I regularly work out with my SO - it was a really great motivator *most* of the time, though I've definitely noticed that there are times when I need to be alone and when he needs to do his own thing too.

We were in the same boat, where he was very fit before we got together and then chose to spend more time with me than at the gym while we were dating

When we first started working out together we would go for runs. Well, jogs. Well, kinda-sometimes-jogs. I was absolutely horrible and could barely go a quarter km. He was very supportive of me, though eventually as he got back in his groove we got to a point where he was much more capable than I was and needed to go at his own pace to get any sort of benefit from being out. I would get really upset with him if he ran ahead of me, and though he never complained, it was very unfair of me to hold him back like that... so I had to start running (or jog-hobbling) on my own to build my capabilities up without affecting his workouts.

Now he's moved into a building with a gym and we go run on treadmills together. That's really helped, since we're both still at very different paces, though I do miss running outdoors!

Swats915

Every chance we get!!

We started walking together last October. Now we run together, after work cuz I am not an am person, 3-4 times a week. We also hit up the driving range, play golf and do some cross training together. He is my biggest motivator and the reason I push myself each day. I love that on our runs I have his undivided attention for an hour and we talk the whole time. Together this year we have ran our first 5k and 10k and are training for a 14k and a half. We have always had a solid happy loving relationship but working out together has brought us to a new level of closeness and I couldn't be happier about it.

I hope it works out for you like it has for us!

erikkmcvay

Our work schedules (I work from home, she's a retails sales manager) make it difficult to do so every day but we do try to walk and workout together as much as possible. We enjoy the time together and it makes us both feel better

mperrott2205

No...she thinks lifting will make her bulky

This. And it's frustrates me so much.

kiwigal41

nope.....i'm single.....I work out by myself....:)....it's great having no one around.....can concentrate better.....lol

Naywifey07

Sometimes me and my wife works out together... But I dont go as hard as I should so I loose focus.. Thats why I go alone sometimes:brokenheart:

Alex_is_Hawks

We work out together almost every day. We like it like that. We are a little competitive but we also don't mind losing...at least to each other...so it works out.

i'm in the final stage of NROLFW and once done I will be taking on his lifting routine so we will be lifting together (right now we usually end up at opposite ends of the gym given our routines...him in the cage, me at the free weights....

but we both end our work out on the track or the treadmills for our run.