What are you doing RIGHT NOW???
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Just finished cleaning up yet a-freakin-gain....😒
DEAR DUST, CHILD, AND DOG.....PLEASE CHILL OUT AND STAY STILL FOR AT LEAST 30 MINS WHILE I REGARGE MY ENERGY WITH SOME COFFEE.... THANK YOU....THE MAMA....
ahhh that should do it.......🤗😍....
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Dammit the Dog & Dust cant read & the child laughs at me 😒😣5 -
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My heart goes out to the ex wife. Cannot imagine what she is going through
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Staring at the ceiling in quiet contemplation of too much time off and my lack of motivation4
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In the bath!!0
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Drinking wine. Lots of wine.3
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- Crocheting the monster tablecloth
- Contemplating why nothing ever changes around for me
- Dreading Friday (dentist appt.)
- Being kinda jealous/sad that a lot of spouses here seem to have nice relationships with their SOs where they go on dates and their spouse actually seems to give a damn. Meanwhile, my spouse can't be bothered to even shop for gifts (unless it's last minute) and puts literally NO THOUGHT into anything. Seems like I'm the only one putting any effort into it.. and I just can't anymore.
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Showered and in bed, setting myself up to read until I tire out, Transformed by Remi Adeleke. 📖👓0
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CanesGalactica wrote: »
- Crocheting the monster tablecloth
- Contemplating why nothing ever changes around for me
- Dreading Friday (dentist appt.)
- Being kinda jealous/sad that a lot of spouses here seem to have nice relationships with their SOs where they go on dates and their spouse actually seems to give a damn. Meanwhile, my spouse can't be bothered to even shop for gifts (unless it's last minute) and puts literally NO THOUGHT into anything. Seems like I'm the only one putting any effort into it.. and I just can't anymore.
From your sharing, your SO seems comfortable. Back when I was engaged and he was making me feel aggrieved with his baggage, my friend's mother woke me up with these words, " He is FAR TOO COMFORTABLE with you & your good girl predictability. Make him uncomfortable. If he still doesn't wake the f#&$ up, see you for your value in your relationship. Leave him." I set the November 4th ultimatum - he failed. Many years on, I have a Saint for a man.
Your situation is only being prolonged by your own decisions. Hugs.3 -
Letting the plates soak, listening to the feline Daughter Of Chaos play with all the library cataloguing stuff Fiance left on the table, and reminding myself why I'm not eating anything right now.
(I let the plates soak because I have very unhappy feet, and if soaking while I sit works as well as standing and scrubbing, I sit.)
I look forward to talking to people on here who are also facing their own issues with weight and shape.2 -
777Gemma888 wrote: »CanesGalactica wrote: »
- Crocheting the monster tablecloth
- Contemplating why nothing ever changes around for me
- Dreading Friday (dentist appt.)
- Being kinda jealous/sad that a lot of spouses here seem to have nice relationships with their SOs where they go on dates and their spouse actually seems to give a damn. Meanwhile, my spouse can't be bothered to even shop for gifts (unless it's last minute) and puts literally NO THOUGHT into anything. Seems like I'm the only one putting any effort into it.. and I just can't anymore.
From your sharing, your SO seems comfortable. Back when I was engaged and he was making me feel aggrieved with his baggage, my friend's mother woke me up with these words, " He is FAR TOO COMFORTABLE with you & your good girl predictability. Make him uncomfortable. If he still doesn't wake the f#&$ up, see you for your value in your relationship. Leave him." I set the November 4th ultimatum - he failed. Many years on, I have a Saint for a man.
Your situation is only being prolonged by your own decisions. Hugs.
He's always been super comfortable. He's extremely laid back and nothing phases him. NOTHING. It's like a freaky superpower (one I don't possess!).
To be fair to him, when he's home he does the lion share's worth of cooking (because I hate cooking and see it as a chore). He tries to pick up and do chores when he remembers them, but the problem is he and I have two very different thresholds for what we consider to be "a mess". My threshold obviously being lower.
We'll go out to a lunch date once in awhile when time allows (when he's around, anyway) and we do stuff together, but I would like to do more. You know, biking or walking as a family, actual dinner dates, being treated out to something, having some thought put into something.
This is, also, by the way, the same dude that thought a Hillshire Farm Summer Sausage gift pack was an appropriate gift for his wife at Christmas the first year they got married, so... that might clue you in a bit to his thought process. Or not.
How would you suggest I make him uncomfortable? We've talked about these issues numerous times over the years, but it never really improves. He tries for a bit and then slides right back into *kitten* habits.0 -
Tinydancer106 wrote: »Just finished cleaning up yet a-freakin-gain....😒
DEAR DUST, CHILD, AND DOG.....PLEASE CHILL OUT AND STAY STILL FOR AT LEAST 30 MINS WHILE I REGARGE MY ENERGY WITH SOME COFFEE.... THANK YOU....THE MAMA....
ahhh that should do it.......🤗😍....
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Dammit the Dog & Dust cant read & the child laughs at me 😒😣
Lol. Have you forgotten the Boston Blitz way of cleaning... open up the front & back doors, get a good strong wind machine & blast it into each room... dust gone, dog ventures into a corner with a chew toy, child heads to their room!
Enjoy your Monday, Ali!1 -
The plow just passed for the 2nd time so I'm thinking of shoveling....at some point today. But it's only 6:23 a.m. so I'll let the neighbors wake up first.
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Getting ready for work.0
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Was up all night working in the new apt... I'm going to try to stay up as late as I can so I can attempt to get back on schedule like a normal bloody human being.
To that end, at 9:30am, I just ate fried chicken with an IPA. Oh, yeah... I'm crazy like that... just crazy.
Have a wonderful day, All... & a very Happy New Year!1 -
TarryTaffy wrote: »Was up all night working in the new apt... I'm going to try to stay up as late as I can so I can attempt to get back on schedule like a normal bloody human being.
To that end, at 9:30am, I just ate fried chicken with an IPA. Oh, yeah... I'm crazy like that... just crazy.
Have a wonderful day, All... & a very Happy New Year!
I love it cray cray1 -
sitting and waiting for clients0
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Watching MASH4
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WTF I wanna... just kidding. Making up work to do so my boss thinks she is getting her money's worth.2
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GymGoddessGoals wrote: »WTF I wanna... just kidding. Making up work to do so my boss thinks she is getting her money's worth.
OMG we are doing the same exact thing lmao1 -
Finished working out and now have to give afternoon cuddles with my foster kitten. She will be adopted January 1st.3
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Binge watching sons of anarchy AGAIN2
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“You have to excuse these two. They are themselves today”- Potter
I can talk MASH all day. Including the movie.1 -
Why does the last week of the year go so excruciatingly slow!??!! I think paint dries faster then this week is going.0
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Baking cakes 🧁0
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Back to work after Christmas holidays, longest day of the year...1
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