What are you doing RIGHT NOW???
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Staring at a bottle of whiskey wondering if being numb tonight would be worth the hangover tomorrow.3
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Eating guacamole and cucumber slices, checking work emails.0
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It's the 18th, i'm on Turbo Tax, take a wild guess lol0
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Staring at a bottle of whiskey wondering if being numb tonight would be worth the hangover tomorrow.
I am sorry to hear about your loss. Leave the whiskey. You need to grieve and drinking won't help. Your problems will still be your problems tomorrow but then you could have the additional problems of a headache and puking.
Logically, and rationally, I know you're right. I put it away and got some water instead. At least for now. I'm going to run later and see if physical exertion will have a similar effect.
This is an emotional pain like I've never felt before... This is the first time I've lost anyone so close to me, and part of me is willing to risk the consequences because maybe even the hangover would function as a distraction.1 -
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Staring at a bottle of whiskey wondering if being numb tonight would be worth the hangover tomorrow.
I am sorry to hear about your loss. Leave the whiskey. You need to grieve and drinking won't help. Your problems will still be your problems tomorrow but then you could have the additional problems of a headache and puking.
Logically, and rationally, I know you're right. I put it away and got some water instead. At least for now. I'm going to run later and see if physical exertion will have a similar effect.
This is an emotional pain like I've never felt before... This is the first time I've lost anyone so close to me, and part of me is willing to risk the consequences because maybe even the hangover would function as a distraction.
It won't. Not tonight, tomorrow or next week. The pain is real and doesn't go away with alcohol or most other distractions. Hold your hubby and your baby close. Use the love from them and what you still do have as your distraction.
This.
100% this.2 -
Listening to music, dancing and getting faded haha1
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I ran. And I cried. And now I'm on my front porch with water and music and a cat.
My 5k is at the end of August. I'm going to cross that finish line with my grandfather's name on my shirt if I have to crawl.3 -
Wondering how on earth I made it this long on only 3 hours sleep. Wait.... must be the toothpicks holding my eyes open.0
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Laying in bed, snuggled up with my cat, feeling the effects of nyquil. So tired and not feeling well.
If I sleep... Gnite all!1 -
Just chilling after getting back from a date.0
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DasItMan91 wrote: »Just chilling after getting back from a date.
Oooooh a date! How'd it go?0 -
laundry
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Browsing MFP, texting with my mum and putting my God son to bed (he loves to cuddle my tummy after storytime ... Ahhh asleep at last).1
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FizikallyFit1 wrote: »DasItMan91 wrote: »Just chilling after getting back from a date.
Oooooh a date! How'd it go?
Disappointing, the Tinder date turned out to be much bigger than I thought she was (she looked like she weighed as much as me) but instead of being the typical *kitten* I'm normally am, I was a gentleman and actually just continued with the date. Ended after an hour (we both agreed to go) and I deleted her number and unmatched her on Tinder. She didn't seem that engaged or interested anyway so the feeling's mutual. Maybe I looked better in my pictures or maybe she knew she was a catfish and knew she *kitten* up and knew I wouldn't find her attractive.0 -
Doing laps around the house to get my 10K steps for the day.0
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DasItMan91 wrote: »FizikallyFit1 wrote: »DasItMan91 wrote: »Just chilling after getting back from a date.
Oooooh a date! How'd it go?
Disappointing, the Tinder date turned out to be much bigger than I thought she was (she looked like she weighed as much as me) but instead of being the typical *kitten* I'm normally am, I was a gentleman and actually just continued with the date. Ended after an hour (we both agreed to go) and I deleted her number and unmatched her on Tinder. She didn't seem that engaged or interested anyway so the feeling's mutual. Maybe I looked better in my pictures or maybe she knew she was a catfish and knew she *kitten* up and knew I wouldn't find her attractive.
Damn that sux. Better luck next time0 -
My dog took some sort of fit earlier ...threw up on the bed ..then rolled around and couldn't get to his feet ..rushed him to vet. She's taking blood but he seems to have come good..
Im so worried this is something he will have again..to say it was awful to see doesn't come close ..0 -
slimgirljo15 wrote: »My dog took some sort of fit earlier ...threw up on the bed ..then rolled around and couldn't get to his feet ..rushed him to vet. She's taking blood but he seems to have come good..
Im so worried this is something he will have again..to say it was awful to see doesn't come close ..
Dang, sorry to hear that.
Take good care of that pup!
....they're part of the family, aren't they?0 -
Motorsheen wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »My dog took some sort of fit earlier ...threw up on the bed ..then rolled around and couldn't get to his feet ..rushed him to vet. She's taking blood but he seems to have come good..
Im so worried this is something he will have again..to say it was awful to see doesn't come close ..
Dang, sorry to hear that.
Take good care of that pup!
....they're part of the family, aren't they?
Thank you..Im watching him like a hawke, terrified it will happen again. I get the blood results tomorrow.
Mario on the left..I love all my furkids though. Hate them being unwell. Been a stressful day
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im working now. i do different analytics.0
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At work fantasizing about my next meal/snack...
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slimgirljo15 wrote: »My dog took some sort of fit earlier ...threw up on the bed ..then rolled around and couldn't get to his feet ..rushed him to vet. She's taking blood but he seems to have come good..
Im so worried this is something he will have again..to say it was awful to see doesn't come close ..
I am so sorry Jo! Hopefully they can get you some answers!
Thank you
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Staring at a bottle of whiskey wondering if being numb tonight would be worth the hangover tomorrow.
I am sorry to hear about your loss. Leave the whiskey. You need to grieve and drinking won't help. Your problems will still be your problems tomorrow but then you could have the additional problems of a headache and puking.
I agree. We are meant to feel pain when we lose someone we love. Its better to let it run its course than to try to mask it and cause yourself even more heartache later.0 -
slimgirljo15 wrote: »My dog took some sort of fit earlier ...threw up on the bed ..then rolled around and couldn't get to his feet ..rushed him to vet. She's taking blood but he seems to have come good..
Im so worried this is something he will have again..to say it was awful to see doesn't come close ..
Hope he comes right x0 -
I'm thinking too much. It hurts
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slimgirljo15 wrote: »My dog took some sort of fit earlier ...threw up on the bed ..then rolled around and couldn't get to his feet ..rushed him to vet. She's taking blood but he seems to have come good..
Im so worried this is something he will have again..to say it was awful to see doesn't come close ..
I'm so sorry to hear this Jo.0 -
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Staring at a bottle of whiskey wondering if being numb tonight would be worth the hangover tomorrow.
I am sorry to hear about your loss. Leave the whiskey. You need to grieve and drinking won't help. Your problems will still be your problems tomorrow but then you could have the additional problems of a headache and puking.
Logically, and rationally, I know you're right. I put it away and got some water instead. At least for now. I'm going to run later and see if physical exertion will have a similar effect.
This is an emotional pain like I've never felt before... This is the first time I've lost anyone so close to me, and part of me is willing to risk the consequences because maybe even the hangover would function as a distraction.
As someone who's tried drinking away the pain, it doesn't help. The sadness and loss might feel crushing right now, but it's best to take the time to grieve. Sorrow is like a deep wound, if left unaddressed for too long it starts to rot away at you. Don't let grief turn to bitterness; it's far harder to bounce back from that.
Reach out to close friends and family (and your SO if you have one), and let them share your burden with you. It won't hurt any less, but the weight doesn't feel as heavy when it's shared. I'm so very sorry for your loss.2
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