What are you doing RIGHT NOW???

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  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    I'm considering writing a letter to my ex sister-in-law and telling her just exactly what I think about her behaviour over the years.
    Forty years I've known her and I've never said what I really wanted to.
    Her "meltdown" at Thanksgiving has me really mad.
    I don't think I can let it go till I tell her what's on my mind.
    I'm not sure it's the right thing to do, (she actually deserves a punch) but I think I'll write it anyway.

    Sometimes just writing it down is a good way to let it out and get over it....hugs and sorry you have one of those in your life girl!💙 but if you send it, it may cause more drama for you....so get it out, then do what I do....make lil voodoo dolls and drop kick those *kitten* a few times😁👍

    Thank you!
    You're right, I shouldn't send a letter.
    It would only prolong the drama and she'd have my words in writing and that couldn't be a good thing, lol.
    I'll find an outlet for my anger that will burn some calories!
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    Tommy7570 wrote: »
    Go to the gym, hit the bag, count to 10, repeat until the feeling passes.

    She’s not worth lowering yourself for, and she’ll just go on about it at the next family event! You not be the only one thinking she’s a 🐮😉

    You are so right!
    Thank you for reminding me. :smile:
  • ailsalw
    ailsalw Posts: 1,265 Member
    I'm considering writing a letter to my ex sister-in-law and telling her just exactly what I think about her behaviour over the years.
    Forty years I've known her and I've never said what I really wanted to.
    Her "meltdown" at Thanksgiving has me really mad.
    I don't think I can let it go till I tell her what's on my mind.
    I'm not sure it's the right thing to do, (she actually deserves a punch) but I think I'll write it anyway.

    Write it then burn it
    It sounds crazy but it’s satisfying
    Don’t send it, sounds like she would only make a drama out of it which makes it worse for you
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    ailsalw wrote: »
    I'm considering writing a letter to my ex sister-in-law and telling her just exactly what I think about her behaviour over the years.
    Forty years I've known her and I've never said what I really wanted to.
    Her "meltdown" at Thanksgiving has me really mad.
    I don't think I can let it go till I tell her what's on my mind.
    I'm not sure it's the right thing to do, (she actually deserves a punch) but I think I'll write it anyway.

    Write it then burn it
    It sounds crazy but it’s satisfying
    Don’t send it, sounds like she would only make a drama out of it which makes it worse for you.

    I was just about to write this. Less vexing than having the ex-sis-in-law use the letter for irl rebuttal bulletpoints.
  • ailsalw
    ailsalw Posts: 1,265 Member
    Right now I’m at a family dinner and had a huge argument with my brother over last nights boxing
    “Wilder was the better fighter”
    SHUT UP YOU TOOL!
    So now I’m going to wait for his food to arrive and stick my finger in it
    Yeah childish but it’s either that or kick his shins under the table and his legs are longer than mine
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
    ailsalw wrote: »
    I'm considering writing a letter to my ex sister-in-law and telling her just exactly what I think about her behaviour over the years.
    Forty years I've known her and I've never said what I really wanted to.
    Her "meltdown" at Thanksgiving has me really mad.
    I don't think I can let it go till I tell her what's on my mind.
    I'm not sure it's the right thing to do, (she actually deserves a punch) but I think I'll write it anyway.

    Write it then burn it
    It sounds crazy but it’s satisfying
    Don’t send it, sounds like she would only make a drama out of it which makes it worse for you

    Burn it! (an aha moment)

    When my marriage was falling apart I wrote down my angry feelings.
    My ex found my journal (hidden inside the lining of an old jacket)
    and read it all.
    What a nightmare!
    I should have BURNED those thoughts away,
    Duh!
  • ailsalw
    ailsalw Posts: 1,265 Member
    ailsalw wrote: »
    I'm considering writing a letter to my ex sister-in-law and telling her just exactly what I think about her behaviour over the years.
    Forty years I've known her and I've never said what I really wanted to.
    Her "meltdown" at Thanksgiving has me really mad.
    I don't think I can let it go till I tell her what's on my mind.
    I'm not sure it's the right thing to do, (she actually deserves a punch) but I think I'll write it anyway.

    Write it then burn it
    It sounds crazy but it’s satisfying
    Don’t send it, sounds like she would only make a drama out of it which makes it worse for you

    Burn it! (an aha moment)

    When my marriage was falling apart I wrote down my angry feelings.
    My ex found my journal (hidden inside the lining of an old jacket)
    and read it all.
    What a nightmare!
    I should have BURNED those thoughts away,
    Duh!

    I have some good ideas sometimes lol
  • Tommy7570
    Tommy7570 Posts: 465 Member
    ailsalw wrote: »
    Right now I’m at a family dinner and had a huge argument with my brother over last nights boxing
    “Wilder was the better fighter”
    SHUT UP YOU TOOL!
    So now I’m going to wait for his food to arrive and stick my finger in it
    Yeah childish but it’s either that or kick his shins under the table and his legs are longer than mine

    Maybe put you finger in your ear first? Sounds like it’s deserved if he’s waxing lyrical 😉
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    ailsalw wrote: »
    Right now I’m at a family dinner and had a huge argument with my brother over last nights boxing
    “Wilder was the better fighter”
    SHUT UP YOU TOOL!
    So now I’m going to wait for his food to arrive and stick my finger in it
    Yeah childish but it’s either that or kick his shins under the table and his legs are longer than mine

    ((Smile) ) ... Family. Only, when little bro is around, he cooks like my Dad did.

    Pepping for our little dialogue about the match later today. Am skipping church to rewatch, so I have all rounds broken down. Distance is what will prevent any petty responses on my part 😉 @kick his shins under the table :laugh:
  • CaptainFantastic01
    CaptainFantastic01 Posts: 9,558 Member
    I am feeding a lovely old lady some Oatmeal
  • Cleaning this house... it's a workout!
  • Tommy7570
    Tommy7570 Posts: 465 Member
    Can’t beat lunges with the Hoover😀
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    Listening to Hallelujah on YouTube...over and over...but only half way and then it starts again....welcome to the world of autism folks....I actually ❤ it but it's driving his nana who's visiting batshit crazy....and THAT, I'm enjoying while I sip coffee and snicker!😏. Have a glorious morning *kitten*!!!😘

    Dearest ... Oh for moments of sweet revenge. And you didn't have to do a thing ... The Universe in its reciprocity ((smile)). Nothing like the unquiet of Hallelujah. 😉

    Sunday blessings to you and our nephew darling.((kisses))
  • Nicksmom106
    Nicksmom106 Posts: 1,624 Member
    I am feeding a lovely old lady some Oatmeal

    Bestest!!!💗💗💗💗👍
  • ArmyMedic23PFA
    ArmyMedic23PFA Posts: 726 Member
    bathtime
  • Nicksmom106
    Nicksmom106 Posts: 1,624 Member
    Listening to Hallelujah on YouTube...over and over...but only half way and then it starts again....welcome to the world of autism folks....I actually ❤ it but it's driving his nana who's visiting batshit crazy....and THAT, I'm enjoying while I sip coffee and snicker!😏. Have a glorious morning *kitten*!!!😘

    Dearest ... Oh for moments of sweet revenge. And you didn't have to do a thing ... The Universe in its reciprocity ((smile)). Nothing like the unquiet of Hallelujah. 😉

    Sunday blessings to you and our nephew darling.((kisses))

    Love you beautiful sister from another mister!!!😘 and that goes for my Katie too!!!😍 hugs from bubba and me💗💗💗
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Cleaning this house... it's a workout!

    No joke... I track that *kitten* with my watch... Sweeping mopping and vaccuming... Usually over about 350 calories
  • DawnOfTheDead_Lift
    DawnOfTheDead_Lift Posts: 753 Member
    Cleaning this house... it's a workout!

    No joke... I track that *kitten* with my watch... Sweeping mopping and vaccuming... Usually over about 350 calories

    Serious question. Do you do TDEE or MFP’s NEAT for tracking?
  • LisaHeb1979
    LisaHeb1979 Posts: 219 Member
    Watching PJ Masks with my three year old.
  • kindalikevelma
    kindalikevelma Posts: 1,337 Member
    Sitting in the tub with a cheeky little cocktail.
  • competeagain4x
    competeagain4x Posts: 167 Member
    Sitting in the tub with a cheeky little cocktail.

    Woa
  • TonyB0588
    TonyB0588 Posts: 9,520 Member
    Untying my laces.
  • kindalikevelma
    kindalikevelma Posts: 1,337 Member
    Eating pineapple upside down cake and watching elf

    This sounds like the perfect evening.
  • competeagain4x
    competeagain4x Posts: 167 Member
    Eating pineapple upside down cake and watching elf

    Eating discarded gum as well?
  • losingbaylee
    losingbaylee Posts: 75 Member
    Waiting for the Victoria Secret Fashion Show to air!
  • Nicksmom106
    Nicksmom106 Posts: 1,624 Member
    Hoping I get to bed before midnight🙄....doubtful someone's been sampling candy canes while his.momma was decorating....he's 😜🕺🏃🤸...and I'm 🤦🙍🙏😒💤
  • DawnOfTheDead_Lift
    DawnOfTheDead_Lift Posts: 753 Member
    Watching PJ Masks with my three year old.

    Lol...I know this all too well

    Cat Boy!!!!!
  • DawnOfTheDead_Lift
    DawnOfTheDead_Lift Posts: 753 Member
    Sitting in the tub with a cheeky little cocktail.

    Perfect way to spend a Sunday evening

  • DawnOfTheDead_Lift
    DawnOfTheDead_Lift Posts: 753 Member
    Eating pineapple upside down cake and watching elf

    Now I’m torn which one is better
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Cleaning this house... it's a workout!

    No joke... I track that *kitten* with my watch... Sweeping mopping and vaccuming... Usually over about 350 calories

    Serious question. Do you do TDEE or MFP’s NEAT for tracking?

    I use my Samsung G2 watch for tracking exercise and TDEE, along with Samsung health...

    Although I must admit I question the it's accuracy but it can't be off by too much

    I have used a hr monitor and a fitbit in the past, and all 3 really give me about the same figure... The g2 watch is probably a little more conservative tho...

    I don't really use mfp for anything but the forums lol...