I'm a horrible person to date because....
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I don't drink;
I don't have sex before marriage;
I don't appreciate tattoos;
I'm overweight;
I'm over 40;
I never make the first move;
I'll get up and walk out on the date if profanity (the eff word, the word beginning with sh and any variation of those - plus a few others) is used;
I don't allow a date to pick me up in a car until I feel safe with the date. I would meet the date at the location;
I hate sports and don't want to talk about them;
I hate motorcycles and don't want to talk about them;
I don't care about cars and don't want to talk about them;
I don't text, don't want to receive texts and I only use my phone to talk on it, which isn't very often;
I'll get up and walk out on the date if he talks about his ex constantly; or at least I'll tell him he's boring me and to please stop;
If he asks me on the date, I expect him to pay for the date in full;
If he starts talking about sex on the first date, what he likes, what he's done before or asking me specific questions about sex, I'll say "It was nice meeting you." and I'll leave;
Yeah, I think that covers it.
It would be somewhat miraculous if I were to be able to date successfully. But I'm not really sure what dating even means anymore so there's that...
Plus I really don't get asked out on dates.
Except three years ago and he was very nice, but much too young for me. And we both understood that it wouldn't go beyond lunches out, home cooked dinners and some cozy cuddling and snuggling, which was nice at the time. I'm glad I made it clear though and that there were no misunderstandings or unmet expectations.
You win.17 -
GnothiSeauton23 wrote: »
Ok. I was assuming we were talking about L.1 -
JessicaJS23 wrote: »JessicaJS23 wrote: »I'm a little bit darksided
Too quiet sometimes
Too feisty others
If we don't work out not only will you never be able to leave me alone and move on with your life but your friends and family won't be able to either
Very sick sense of humor and sarcasm that might hurt feelings at times.
Other than all that I'm a delight!!
Then there's the whole "jail" thing...lol
No they like that
Thought it was just me.1 -
I'm overly obsessive and self-conscience about my weight and how much larger I get every day. I tend to get very defensive when I'm told to "just do something about it if it bothers you so much". This triggers a defense in me and what I tend to do is just phase that person out of my life because it's not as easy as just “doing something about it”. If it was that easy I’d maintain 120lbs forever.2
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JessicaJS23 wrote: »JessicaJS23 wrote: »I'm a little bit darksided
Too quiet sometimes
Too feisty others
If we don't work out not only will you never be able to leave me alone and move on with your life but your friends and family won't be able to either
Very sick sense of humor and sarcasm that might hurt feelings at times.
Other than all that I'm a delight!!
Then there's the whole "jail" thing...lol
No they like that
Do like a bad *kitten*!1 -
1. people bore me very easily
2. i assume that no one likes me
3. i spend a large amount of time researching
4. i do not drink
5. if a conversation is not interesting to me i will just stop speaking
6. i assume everyone is a lying *kitten* face2 -
I'm a horrible date because I like animals more than people and I will show you pictures of my cat on the first date. Also I'm married
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My wife gets all pissy and nags my girlfriends.6
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I talk about myself/my life a lot, not because I'm that into myself but because I'm afraid if I ask the other person questions, I'll be seen as intrusive and rude.
I'm an open book, though, and will talk about pretty much anything at any time. Want to discuss why I won't do anal while we share dessert? Fine.
I have a gazillion kids and I like to tell funny stories about them. They are some of the most unintentionally hilarious people I know.
Even though I know I'm fairly fit, I have some body dysmorphia. I had a c-section with my youngest so I have some fat right above my scar. I would still take my clothes off if someone actually wanted to see me naked (and the lights can be on). I'm trying hard to stop saying negative things about my belly.0 -
salembambi wrote: »1. people bore me very easily
5. if a conversation is not interesting to me i will just stop speaking
6. i assume everyone is a lying *kitten* face
Definitely these.
Plus, I will completely ignore you for a good book. Especially when #1 and #5 are in play. All hope is then lost. At that point, you should just stop talking and go away.
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1. I don't like to talk on the phone ( text me bro)
2. I require alone time
3. I don't like to be controlled or control anyone else
4. I like to roll over and pass out after " fun time" i.e. I forget to cuddle.1 -
I talk about myself/my life a lot, not because I'm that into myself but because I'm afraid if I ask the other person questions, I'll be seen as intrusive and rude.
I'm an open book, though, and will talk about pretty much anything at any time. Want to discuss why I won't do anal while we share dessert? Fine.
I have a gazillion kids and I like to tell funny stories about them. They are some of the most unintentionally hilarious people I know.
Even though I know I'm fairly fit, I have some body dysmorphia. I had a c-section with my youngest so I have some fat right above my scar. I would still take my clothes off if someone actually wanted to see me naked (and the lights can be on). I'm trying hard to stop saying negative things about my belly.
..... so you wait until after dessert?1 -
supernurse_84 wrote: »1. I don't like to talk on the phone ( text me bro)
2. I require alone time
3. I don't like to be controlled or control anyone else
4. I like to roll over and pass out after " fun time" i.e. I forget to cuddle.
#4 really doesn't seem to be a negative.2 -
I am married. So, please don't ask me out
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I'm way into fitness and am an MMa Fighter1
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I'm to dedicated and passionate obsessed and won't let nothing stop me at acquiring 12 pounds of gold0
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